原帖由 Nam 於 2009-2-12 14:34 發表
That's always the case and it's a tough call.
Best scenario is find a bf/gf before you start to gone crazy on your career.
And your other half is as ambitious as you.
Then it will be perfect. My g ...
Do you mind telling us why you need to study after work?
原帖由 ACC-HE 於 2009-2-12 15:21 發表
One of the toughest thing is, relocation.
I guess we all know by now that Vancouver is not really a place with booming business sector. The east (Toronto?) or down in the US are where all those big ...
Long D? Some do work...but it's really tough.
When to get married...I think these days people tend to get married later. I guess close to 30? So the couple already work a few years and save some $?
They want the benefits of having a GF or BF, but they don't want to spend time and energy on a relationship.
I think you're making an incorrect assumption here. I believe what ACC-HE is trying to point out is that if someone has a bf/gf, then some career-related decisions that are made can affect that person's other half. Because of this factor, having a bf/gf may sometimes make one think twice about certain career-related decisions compared to when one does not have a bf/gf.
This doesn't really say anything about whether that person is willing to invest time and energy in a relationship. Correct me if I'm wrong ACC-HE.
I am content on where I am (being married and having an okay work); of course I am always looking for for better opportunities and when that time comes I do believe what my wife thinks will be a factor to my decision too.
發表於 2009-2-12 16:26
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