chihiro

我跟你的情況一樣，為一不同的是，我是女仔。 為了這個家，我也辛苦過，試過同時打三份工。可我現在不同了，現在弟妹出身社會了，而我自己的事業上也有點兒成績。回望過去，我覺得自己其實很幸運，因為可以在年少時開始嘗過那麼多磨練，得益的只有多不會少。人生總有高低起跌，但狂風暴雨後會是耀眼的陽光和美麗的彩虹。

blueprint

Sounds like chasing after your own shadow to get rid of it (the past = the shadow), but forget that there are things ahead you for you to enjoy a truly fulfilled life.  Your family is there of course.  And then there are cool people out there for you to meet, to be friends with.  All you have to do is to step out of your own shell and try to experience it.

SmellyTofu

原帖由 doraemon1002 於 2008-1-14 14:13 發表

I lost 10 lbs for just a week. Breaking up is really a good way to lose weight!

Do we really need to learn from pain, in order to know how to treasure a relationship?

Sometimes i am just so confuse ...

Maybe your ex does not want to understand/cherish/need a relationship. Maybe their mind is thinking, "Plenty of other fish in the sea, why choose you and burden myself?"... Tell her your situation but let it be her choice to come back because it'd be like someone being obligated to come back.

Move forward... do something that you enjoy.... something that makes you forget the world... There's plenty of hope out there for everyone including you... ride out the bumps, smile through the hardship... if you need help, ask friends... they will be important as to how you can ride out the bumps.

Even I thought there was no hope for me, but out of the blue, a wonderful person came into my life... we share similar backgrounds from how we've come to where we're at, we share both kindness to each other and friends... for us, it's been a really positive synergy that's been created I think... hopefully this will be it.

doraemon1002

我朋友話好仔市場好細﹐你0地有咩意見﹖

我唔甘心﹐我唔想衰俾人睇﹐從讀大學開始已經好努力。呢個時代﹐好多時看你是否成功就是看你的賺錢能力。同意嗎﹖

可能VANCOUVER食父母的有錢細路太多了﹐媽說要找一個肯跟你分擔﹐挨世界的真的不容易﹐門當戶對好像是以前的事情﹐但其實一路也存在。

可能我的ex太辛褔了﹐很難讓她明白我的苦和難處。

女孩子不是想找一個可以好好照顧妳們的男孩子嗎﹖我想每一個女孩子也不同吧。

拍拖真是很困難﹐讓人很累。

utopia

原帖由 doraemon1002 於 2008-1-15 10:08 發表
我朋友話好仔市場好細﹐你0地有咩意見﹖

我唔甘心﹐我唔想衰俾人睇﹐從讀大學開始已經好努力。呢個時代﹐好多時看你是否成功就是看你的賺錢能力。同意嗎﹖

可能VANCOUVER食父母的有錢細路太多了﹐媽說要找一個肯跟你分擔﹐挨世界的 ...

I don't know Doramemon, may be I dated different type of people before.
Rich is not everything. I remember so clear when I first moved to Vancouver,
I was hanging out with my friend's friend. One of them are extreme rich kid from China but act like a honger. .....

Through all the time I went shopping with him (I spend my own money, ok? just in case I get attack), he kept saying things like "How come you are so CBC looking? Even my CBC friend are more honger than you?" or... "Too bad you are so tan, if you do whitening more, I will give you 85 mark ga"

And when I told him I love to read book, then he will brag that oh he read magazine too (duh)...then I insist that's different, he said oh yeah, that make us "more educated" ar ma.............. it's like "playing piano in front of cow".......

Seriously, I rather to be with my caveman right now. We can share feeling about different book we have read or share feeling about history. Yet, we can play PS3 together and work hard toward our goal.

Perhaps, I have my own career that I aim very high, so rather caveman is rich or not. That part does not weight too heavy in our relationship. As I always tell my friend in the past, you don't pick a rich guy but you pick a man that have potential to be a rich man. By saying that, he work hard for his own fortune rather relying on parents.

utopia

Doraemon,

you sounds like my caveman in the past, that will not get you any good girl, u know?

sorry to be honest here but yes, we understand you work so hard for your family and for your future. Yes, we understand you work so hard in university but if you cont'd sound blaming the world for it.

It's a turn off. The real man is take up the whole burden on his shoulder without complaining the world because he knows he is responsible for these and he choose to be responsible. Nobody forced him.

LOK

原帖由 doraemon1002 於 2008-1-15 10:08 發表
我朋友話好仔市場好細﹐你0地有咩意見﹖

我唔甘心﹐我唔想衰俾人睇﹐從讀大學開始已經好努力。呢個時代﹐好多時看你是否成功就是看你的賺錢能力。同意嗎﹖

可能VANCOUVER食父母的有錢細路太多了﹐媽說要找一個肯跟你分擔﹐挨世界的 ...

賺錢能力 is one thing ppl look at...
but since there are some ppl like our "VIP" member Mr. Hyde, he thinks he has a rich dad, so he owns everybody.

seriously, more $$$ does NOT = happier...
just make enough money to make yourself and your family don't need to worry the regular payments, that's enough. Driving a porsche or a civic could also get you to the place you need to go... Living in a 600 sq ft apt or a 6000 sq ft house could also make your family comfortable, warm, and safe.

doraemon1002

Traum,

你講得好0岩﹐我應該知道要放手﹐再拖下去事情也只會變差。

我知道大家也只是放不下那種感覺﹐她跟我說想把我留在身邊﹐可以好好的出去玩﹐食飯睇戲﹐但是我真的做不到。我問她把我放在身邊有什麼用呢﹖

我知道總有一天我也要離開﹐只是遲早0既事。

SmellyTofu

原帖由 LOK 於 2008-1-15 10:51 發表
seriously, more $$$ does NOT = happier...  

Agree x9999999999999999999999999999999999