pkphilip

Ayako, look in this way, since you already made the decision, you should just accept it and make it better. You walk the path, the path does not lay out in front of you to walk on (that's what parents do).

This opportunity you have is hard to get, you get to know many of us. I am sure you will find us better compare to HK ba.. hahaha.

Feel free to contact me and raffaelo, we could show you more of Vancouver.

Philip

ayako

Ayako, look in this way, since you already made the decision, you should just accept it and make it  ...
pkphilip 發表於 2012-9-25 21:21

為何大家都說到我好像做了錯事一樣呢?
我只是有空梳理一下人生, 對過去作出反省, 抽絲剝繭深入分析而已.
生於同一個社會, 人人也有一定閱歷, 而且大同小異,
我們要做的是, 要從閱歷當中提煉「閱」的部份,
因為每個人的經歷也是唯一的.

例如你因傷心而流淚, 那就要重溫這個過程,
不是說要在傷口上灑鹽, 只是要趁傷口未結疤之前,
拿出放大鏡看清楚, 理解前因後果, 作出反思,
思考的同時也可更清楚的了解自己,
好好的記住這一種痛, 將來才會更加珍惜所擁有的.
難得我有這一份自覺, 不是應該值得高興才是嗎?

大家似乎忘記了, 我在最初的發言最後一句是:
「在未能回到過去的大前題下, 我很想親手引導這蝴蝶效應的方向.」
我從來沒有說我不接受現實, 我沒有說過我不開心,
我一早說了在大世界下我會好好繼續生存,
為何大家好像仍覺得我無事生非呢?

我不知這樣說又會再引起幾多漣漪,
你可以不認同我, 但我都只是想說出我的觀點.
謝謝.

布小熊

回復 22# ayako

I don't think it's a problem to look back. We learn from mistake/experience. There are something that we can look back and learn that we can make a different decision back then.
There are others that we can look back, think about it and just know that being myself, I will just make the same choice. It's part of learning who we are.

Thanks for sharing.

fibbi

回復 22# ayako


    I hope I don't sound like you were doing something wrong. Guess I'm just too practical, already past the age that actually has time to diagnostic about my "past".
I can only keep moving forward...work+family taking 100% if not 110% of my time.

And of course...there are always people disagree with you. Just be yourself and you can't possibly please everyone else.

mcjohnjohn

為何大家都說到我好像做了錯事一樣呢?
ayako 發表於 2012-9-27 00:56

邊個咁諗?!?! 等我拖佢出來斬!

ayako

邊個咁諗?!?! 等我拖佢出來斬!
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2012-9-26 18:02

感動~ 謝謝~ =)

mcjohnjohn

感動~ 謝謝~ =)
ayako 發表於 2012-9-27 11:01

邊有人話你做錯事丫, 大家只係關心你才出來比D 意見之麻.
試下我出一個類似既POST, 我擔保冇人SO 我, 個POST 好快就會石沉大海了.

ayako

邊有人話你做錯事丫, 大家只係關心你才出來比D 意見之麻.
試下我出一個類似既POST, 我擔保冇人SO 我, 個PO ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2012-9-26 19:28

我唔信無人so你!!

mcjohnjohn

我唔信無人so你!!
ayako 發表於 2012-9-27 11:43

我MJJ 在這裡聲名狼藉, 神憎鬼厭, 真係冇人會SO 我架...

ayako

我MJJ 在這裡聲名狼藉, 神憎鬼厭, 真係冇人會SO 我架...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2012-9-26 22:04

咁我應該都唔會唔理你既~