librazhy

There are thousands of street bums nowadays, even in the states.

do not give em money

ACooperFan

all i can say is that Philip is kind-hearted...

pkphilip

The reason why I paid up was that it was late, and god knows what will happen. If paying a small amount of $$ can get rid of trouble, I would do it.

Heck... the book value on my stock/mutua funds lose are more than $15 everyday anyways.

Philip

cinderelly

i usually try my best to walk/run away asap when people like that approach me, especially when i'm alone

wasn't it on the news awhile ago that some crook asked an elderly lady for money, she gave him a few dollars but it wasn't enough for him so he beat her up violently..?!

most crooks on the streets are somewhat mentally-ill... who knows what'll happen =\

utopia

原帖由 pkphilip 於 2008-12-7 02:24 發表
The story went like this:

After I dropped my friend back home close to Joyce station at about 12am, as I was driving out, there was a pickup has the hazzard light going off and driving towards me. Th ...

I met the same guy at Esso Station by Rupert.
Yup, pick up truck and he tried to ask me to give him a quater or borrow my cel phone to him.  And YES, he is from Chilliwack as well; he said that he has to call home and let them know they got robbed ..

So I suggest him to call 911 and i do not have  my cel phone and wallet with me since i'm in neighbourhood (I lied)... and I asked him to go into the gas station and ask the staff to help him.  And he insisted they will not borrow the phone to outsider and will not help him..

So I ended up told him to find another guy at the gas station to help him as I cannot do anything at all..

utopia

Oh, and he has a worry wife sat stood by his pick up truck too.
He pointed to his wife, and told me see that's my wife.  She is worry about our child at home since they are expecting us to be home by now but we do not have a cel phone.

Sorry, I think you just fell into a trap.
I hate to say that but these days, I would not help any stranger on the street and I would rather call 911 for them then give them $.

After hearing your story, I'm glad I made the right decision at the gas station.

MyOMy

Yes, PK you are right, giving a small amount of money to avoid trouble at that hours. You don't need to find out his story is straight or not. Perhaps, it is 90% fault.  Once you decided to give him money, you might as well believe the story. It will at least make you feel good.

Over the years, I have many of this kind of experience.  Once in RONA parking, a old Cantonese guy told me he lost his wallet and need 2 dollars to take a bus home, I gave. He then asked for more. Instantly he broke his story and took away my "feel good".  

Years ago in Tropicana Casino, Vegas, a well dressed Taiwanese guy told me he lost all his money and need 20 bucks to get back to the hotel (can't rememeber which) in the other side of the town.  I knew 99%  he is a crook. But he showed me something: If the story is straight, it show me what gambling can get you.  If the story is not straight, it is so pathetic to ask for money like a begger in a place where you are supposed to make milliions.  It also show me what gambling can get you. I gave him the money. I felt good.

utopia

Of course I'm not trying to make PK to feel bad.
I just I used to be generous and give away money to those who looks helpless on the street.  BUT, I figure later, the same guy asked people for money around the corner...

so now, I realize that each time I give $$ to these people, I'm just encouraging them to trick people who has a good heart to help...

By doing that, I ain't different from people who encourage bums to wash our car windown at signal light.

utopia

Again la, I know people always say Cops in Canada is not reliable but in situation like these, I wouldn't risk my safety to help these people.  

Like what MyOMy said, these crooks might beat u up just because you dun give enough.

If these people really need help, they can always dial 911 and ask cops to drive them home at night.

Not sure does that apply in vancouver but I remember my cousin used to live in Winnipeg and was alone on the street (Girl)..without a ride.  So she called the police and they drove her home.


And for the gamble part (I might mis-read since I'm at work; I cannot read the entire post clearly), if he lose all the money at Casino and dun $$$ to go home.  He DESERVED it and it's about time for him to learn a lesson.  Helping them, just encourage them to gamble more ... and their poor family just have to suffer with him/her....

shutterbug

Nice try...I'll just yell out my car window to tell the guy to call 911 if I were you and that will only take 3 seconds, then step on the gas and go...