I do all of the above! He doesn't know how to cook. He's not very romantic, he certainly doesn't sing but something he said today really says it all...
besides "得閑無事唱下情歌" ba @_@ kinda odd haha because and I think in general when people 得閑無事唱下情歌, they 唱 because they were in the mood to 唱, NOT because they wanted to 表達 their 愛?