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作者: raima 時間: 2009-10-11 22:31 標題: 禮金

本帖最後由 raima 於 2009-10-11 23:32 編輯

Approximately how much is the average of 禮金?
And when do you give the 禮金?? During 過大禮?

作者: tequila 時間: 2009-10-11 22:51

it really depends because everyone is different... i've heard people receiving from $8 to $12000

作者: raima 時間: 2009-10-11 23:03

本帖最後由 raima 於 2009-10-12 00:04 編輯

do people put all that cash into a red pocket and give it to the girl's parents??

作者: tofu 時間: 2009-10-11 23:26

yes, they put cash in the red envelope.
there is no such thing average, it really depends on how much your parents-in-law ask for or how much can you afford. usually it is a lucky number

作者: smt 時間: 2009-10-12 01:04

我聽過啲人﹐如果男家手緊﹐女家會出酒席﹐然後客人俾嘅利是就女家袋晒。
因為酒席 "通常" 有賺﹐賺到就當係禮金...
講到尾﹐冇一個 average﹐都睇兩邊點傾囉。

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2009-10-12 06:11

not only cos of 手緊.
The traditional way, 女家客人俾嘅利是就女家袋. And same for 男家. (which ever side's 利是 goes to that side) and the 男家 also pay for the 酒席.
But now, I think 禮金 is just a symbol. So just a small amount is ok.
Most couple pay for their own wedding anyway.

作者: ecwkwok 時間: 2009-10-12 09:20

以前聽過有街坊嫁女收六位數字禮金。。。不過真係好耐以前。而家聽講多數係四，五位數字，求其拿個意頭就算。
以前D女人嫁咗就同老公捱生捱死，捱足一世。而家D女人結婚之後唔開心就SAYONARA。所以無得比較。

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2009-10-12 10:05

7# ecwkwok
四，五位數字 <- HK$????

作者: raima 時間: 2009-10-12 11:54

4# tofu

lucky number...
so like $9999 or $8888? but $8888 is just "rich" but $9999 is for the couple like a blessing right?

or $8899?

作者: tofu 時間: 2009-10-13 00:14

never give a odd number. like $3800, $1680 &... yes 8 means rich and everyone wants to be rich ma.

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-10-13 08:09

more discussion can be found in this old topic:

http://www.loyaukee.com/forum/vi ... =%E7%A6%AE%E9%87%91

作者: raima 時間: 2009-10-13 09:11

more discussion can be found in this old topic:

http://www.loyaukee.com/forum/vi ... =%E7%A6%AE%E9%87%91
myversa 發表於 2009-10-13 09:09

i've read that topic. it's about 人情, not 禮金. i want to know how much should a guy give to the girl's parents. and not how much should one give to the couple when attending their wedding.

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-10-13 09:27

right. sorry about it.

When I got married, we had two weddings, one in Taiwan which 男家 hosted and got the 禮金 and another one in Malaysia which my wife's parents hosted and got the 禮金. 男家 also gave reasonable amount of money to my wife's parents. I forgot how much, sorry.

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2009-10-13 09:28

i've read that topic. it's about 人情, not 禮金. i want to know how much should a guy give to the girl's parents. and not how much should one give to the couple when attending their wedding.
raima 發表於 2009-10-13 10:11 AM

myversa speaks mandarin. May be 禮金 in taiwan means same thing as 人情.

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-10-13 10:15

yes we call it 聘金; sorry for the misunderstanding.

作者: 小叻 時間: 2009-10-13 11:34

lucky number...
so like $9999 or $8888? but $8888 is just "rich" but $9999 is for the couple like a blessing right?
or $8899?
raima 發表於 12-10-2009 11:54

It's really depends how much your hubby can afford and how much ur parent is asking for~ I think the 禮金 is not necessary in a huge amount.. as you and ur hubby will have to spend quite a lot for your wedding..and the 人情 is hardly cover the 酒席..

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