Knowing "the one"

SmellyTofu

How does one know they've found the one? the keepers...
Do any of you guys think:
- "Oh, I don't want to look anymore. The one I have is really nice, I love her, she loves me. Don't be greedy and find a supermodel type.... lock him/her in for marriage"
or
- "This one can make a good wife. I like her, she likes me... I need a wife/husband (for the girls) and don't be greedy and find a supermodel type.... lock him/her in for marriage"
or
- You're really in a fairy tale where you both fall passionately in love and no consideration of whether or not she'll make a good wife/husband but you marry them coz you're head over heels.

katamari

haha i don't think supermodel = perfect = the one, j/k i know this is just your example!

asmok

What's the difference between the first and 2nd?

news

i think the 1st one is..they r in love but the girl is not a wife/mom type...2nd one is..not necessary in love but the girl is wife/mom type...

few months ago..i will say 2...but now...i'm leaning towards 3

cinderelly

i've always thought that im in a fairy tale..... =p
he has all that i want in a guy, and im what he wants in a girl too =)
we've been together for almost 5 yrs.. but i still feel like we've just started to date. the sweet, passionate and "heart pounding"  feeling never left us..~

pkphilip

From Dan Savage:

(1) What is your definition of love?

(2) How do you know if you're in "love"?

(3) How do you know if they're the "one"?

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(1) Love is making out with someone after you've blown a load on his/her face.

(2) You know you're in love when you're eating breakfast in a restaurant together the morning after he/she blew a load on your face and you suddenly realize that you didn't wash your face when you got out of bed that morning and you don't care.

(3) You know he/she is the one when he/she realizes that you've just realized that you're eating breakfast in a restaurant the morning after he/she blew a load on your face and you didn't wash your face when you got out of bed that morning and he/she smiles, leans over the table, and gives you a kiss.

Philip

raima

you're so lucky to find your special someone. it's so nice to feel in-love with the right person. wish you the best with your guy.

<jealous...>

SmellyTofu

Maybe I should clarify it a bit...

#1 is if you have someone already... doing it out of laziness so you settle for whatever is on hand.

#2 is you're choosing him/her because they make a good husband/wife. (before bf-gf)... doing it because of human need (to reproduce and companionship etc)

I hope it has cleared it up a bit??

mibu

the answer to your question varies with the age of the respondents

if i'm a 35 year old, male asian...i would choose 2 because of my age, my culture's pressure and so on.

if i'm a 30 year old i might choose 1 because maybe my career has just started and i'm focusing on my career and no point in choosing a different girl

if i'm 20 and i'm naive and i dont know any better, i'd say the 3rd choice

sorry if i offend cinderelly
you're not supposed to be reading our guy posts anyway hahah these are guy talks that girls shouldnt know about

[ 本帖最後由 mibu 於 2008-1-14 15:48 編輯 ]

Intelstan

I think 1 would be my choice if I have a girlfriend.