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作者: daimo 時間: 2009-11-23 12:43 標題: 取悅女友債台高築癡情速遞員上吊亡

http://news.mingpao.com/20091124/gha1h.htm

*sigh*

作者: B仔 時間: 2009-11-23 12:51

死港女累事。。。

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-11-23 12:53

27 歲都未生埋腦荀﹖鄧他爸媽可憐啊

作者: chunsh 時間: 2009-11-23 12:56

27 歲都未生埋腦荀﹖鄧他爸媽可憐啊
Littleprince 發表於 2009-11-23 13:53

well, can't say that.
how many kings in the history lost their empire because of a pretty chick

love can kill, for both men and women, regardless of ages
u should be able to read from news paper that people kill themselves can be come from all ages and professions

作者: shutterbug 時間: 2009-11-23 13:00

27 歲都未生埋腦荀﹖鄧他爸媽可憐啊
Littleprince 發表於 2009-11-23 13:53

x2......

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-11-23 13:10

well, can't say that.
how many kings in the history lost their empire because of a pretty chick

love can kill, for both men and women, regardless of ages
u should be able to read from news paper th ...
chunsh 發表於 2009-11-23 13:56

well... I admit that somebody is matured a bit later... and some never... sigh....and when you said that, you kinda agreed that love = $$$?

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2009-11-23 13:16

Pretty chick ... really really powerful ga ..

作者: sheep 時間: 2009-11-23 13:58

自古有話
歡場無真愛
卡拉OK同舞廳一樣

作者: puZZle 時間: 2009-11-23 13:59

but.... who says she's pretty?

作者: chunsh 時間: 2009-11-23 14:42

but.... who says she's pretty?
puZZle 發表於 2009-11-23 14:59

sometimes, pretty or not is subjective, look at prince charles in england

作者: daimo 時間: 2009-11-23 15:27

it's all about entitlement.

a lot of 港女 think that they are entitled to the boys paying their rent, their goodies ...

and for some reason the boys do agree that 港女 are entitled to that.

作者: KittyLeung74 時間: 2009-11-23 15:28

well... I admit that somebody is matured a bit later... and some never... sigh....and when you said that, you kinda agreed that love = $$$?
Littleprince 發表於 2009-11-23 14:10

No just mutured a bit late.....it should be late, late, late or even immuture till dead...Is it typical 港男?

作者: chunsh 時間: 2009-11-23 15:30

it's all about entitlement.

a lot of 港女 think that they are entitled to the boys paying their rent, their goodies ...

and for some reason the boys do agree that 港女 are entitled to that.
daimo 發表於 2009-11-23 16:27

I can say thats totally the fault of those 港女's parents. They just kept telling their daughters to judge about if that boy a good boyfriend or husband by $$$$

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-11-23 15:56

社會既錯

作者: shutterbug 時間: 2009-11-23 16:39

I can say thats totally the fault of those 港女's parents. They just kept telling their daughters to judge about if that boy a good boyfriend or husband by $$$$
chunsh 發表於 2009-11-23 16:30

How many teenage girls still listen to their parents???

作者: chobit 時間: 2009-11-23 17:03

I am glad to know that I don't live in HK haha!!

作者: chunsh 時間: 2009-11-23 17:10

How many teenage girls still listen to their parents???
shutterbug 發表於 2009-11-23 17:39

um....a teenagers personality dont just appear suddenly when they reach their teen ages. Yes, friends will have affect to them when they are in teen ages, but their personality or moral values should be formed gradually when they were child (kindergarden to primary school)

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2009-11-23 17:51

本帖最後由 Catpiano 於 2009-11-23 18:54 編輯

$9k a month .. ( $1,200 Cad )

It is sad ... can't even buy a fancy handbag from his WHOLE MONTH income ..

I won't just blame that HONGER girl ... without knowing the full story ..

Well, somehow, it reminds me "mr. T" ....

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-11-23 18:44

真係唔明呢個男仔點諗野...
明知呢d 係自己能力範圍之外既事, 搵得果9千蚊, 仲要學人充闊佬, 咁又何苦呢!
如果個女仔因為你冇錢就唔同你一齊, 咁咪算law, 駛唔駛去借錢供養佢呀? 養他媽哥池咩...

作者: yoursecret 時間: 2009-11-23 19:02

It proves Charles Darwin's theory

作者: gianttama 時間: 2009-11-23 19:04

alright, let the "gong lui" thread begin!!!

作者: 快樂牛郎 時間: 2009-11-23 19:06

搵9000蚊
乜都做唔到
梗係不如死左佢啦

作者: sheep 時間: 2009-11-23 19:24

真係唔明呢個男仔點諗野...
明知呢d 係自己能力範圍之外既事, 搵得果9千蚊, 仲要學人充闊佬, 咁又何苦呢!
如果個女仔因為你冇錢就唔同你一齊, 咁咪算law, 駛唔駛去借錢供養佢呀? 養他媽哥池咩... ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-11-23 19:44

唔洗闊佬都有權送野俾女仔

作者: sheep 時間: 2009-11-23 19:31

搵9000蚊
乜都做唔到
梗係不如死左佢啦
快樂牛郎發表於 2009-11-23 20:06

你噉有智慧
教下點做

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-11-23 19:45

搵9000蚊
乜都做唔到
梗係不如死左佢啦
快樂牛郎發表於 2009-11-24 11:06

o係香港, 真係有好多人搵唔到9000蚊一個月架...
如果咁就要死左去, 就會有好多人要死了!

搵錢少, 都可以生活得開心. 生活既意義並唔係錢所能夠衡量的.

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-11-23 19:48

唔洗闊佬都有權送野俾女仔
sheep 發表於 2009-11-24 11:24

小弟從來冇話過冇錢既男仔唔可以送野比個女仔.
冇錢, 都可以花d 心思, 例如handmade一張心意卡比女仔之類啦~
小弟覺得, 點都唔應該借錢去買野送俾女仔啦... 尤其知道自己根本負擔唔黎...

作者: sheep 時間: 2009-11-23 19:56

o係香港, 真係有好多人搵唔到9000蚊一個月架...
如果咁就要死左去, 就會有好多人要死了!

搵錢少, 都可以生活得開心. 生活既意義並唔係錢所能夠衡量的. ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-11-23 20:45

諗清楚啲
有可能
佢應該係還唔倒條數
先至去死

作者: sheep 時間: 2009-11-23 20:01

搵得果9千蚊, 仲要學人充闊佬, 咁又何苦呢!

mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-11-23 19:44

思覺失調

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-11-23 20:11

思覺失調
sheep 發表於 2009-11-24 12:01

充闊佬 != 送野比女仔
充闊佬 == 送野比女仔, 而送果樣野根本係佢負擔唔到

羊羊, 你明白小分所講既"充闊佬"嗎?... 嘔血中...

作者: sheep 時間: 2009-11-23 22:30

充闊佬 != 送野比女仔
充闊佬 == 送野比女仔, 而送果樣野根本係佢負擔唔到

羊羊, 你明白小分所講既"充闊佬"嗎?... 嘔血中...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-11-23 21:11

點為之負擔唔到?
你住緊果間屋
值幾佰万
係唔係一炮過俾哂錢?
諗拈就得啦
邊個唔一屁股債?

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-11-23 23:01

點為之負擔唔到?
你住緊果間屋
值幾佰万
係唔係一炮過俾哂錢?
諗拈就得啦
邊個唔一屁股債?
sheep 發表於 2009-11-24 14:30

點為之負擔唔到? 每個人既承擔力都唔同, 雖然小弟唔敢講話區區幾百萬, 何足掛齒, 但小弟覺得自己自問尚算負擔得起.
案中既年青人, 為左取悅女朋友而欠下一身債務. 冇錢還不特止, 最後仲要搞到自尋短見, 小弟就覺得呢d 就係負擔唔起.

羊羊, 小弟唔夠你講, 如果你真係講得我講既野唔arm 聽既話, 請多多包函.

作者: 快樂牛郎 時間: 2009-11-23 23:26

你噉有智慧
教下點做
sheep 發表於 2009/11/23 19:31

作者: tofu 時間: 2009-11-24 00:35

"""how many kings in the history lost their empire because of a pretty chick"""
yes, but those men still have way more than enough to spend + their lives.

作者: tofu 時間: 2009-11-24 00:49

here is the full story.

死者劉灝仁（ 27歲），與父母及一姊一妹同住將軍澳廣明苑，在本港一間提供內地主要省市及香港的速遞服務的公司任職，為人孝順不賭錢，只間中買六合彩碰運氣。至於被指懷疑騙去事主感情及錢財的女子，據悉也姓劉（ 28歲）， 10年前由內地來港，在一間卡拉 OK任職侍應，自稱與胞姊同住。據劉父稱，兒子失蹤前，她仍在夜深致電其子，懷疑是索取金錢，但兒子失蹤後，劉女卻不見蹤影，他致電劉女手機不通。據悉，阿仁從事速遞工作多年，兩年前轉至出事速遞公司，月薪連佣金 9,000多元，他性格內向，收工後都會依時返家，只間中相約速遞公司舊同事往卡拉 OK。 8個月前，阿仁與舊同事在一間連鎖卡拉 OK結識該名女侍應。阿仁對劉女一見鍾情，在她甜言蜜語下，一向慳家的阿仁，開始花大錢，數月前並兩度向一間財務公司合共借錢 4萬多元，由於阿仁賺錢不多還款吃力，家人初不知悉，一次幼妹錯拆其追債信件，才知阿仁欠下財務公司債項。

事後，劉父向兒子了解事件，獲悉兒子與劉女來往，並出錢在旺角租一間套房給劉女居住。為解兒子財困，他向親友借錢償還財務公司債項。大約 3個月前，阿仁買六合彩中三獎，獲獎金 31,000元，孝順的阿仁給母親 2,000元買零食， 8,000元給母親代儲起，剩下 20,000元自用。但最近，家人卻發現他又向兩間財務公司借錢，其中一間借款 6萬多元，另一間借款相信也相若，其銀行戶口更僅餘 63元。劉的家人懷疑有人見阿仁心軟，不停向他苛索金錢致被迫再借錢。
其後，阿仁發現劉女疑欺騙其感情，曾提出分手，但女方不肯就此放手，仍不停纏住他。上周一阿仁收工後沒有回家，家人遍尋不獲，翌日致電其手機，發現手機鈴聲已改，但無人接聽。家人擔心他出事報警求助，但一直找不着他。直至昨日下午 5時許，一名姓盧市民跑步途經大埔山塘路時，發現對上 70米的山坡一棵樹處有一名男子吊頸，立即致電報警。警員及救護員到場，發現一名身穿紅色風褸、灰衫灰褲及白色波鞋的男子，用一條繩纏頸吊在樹幹已死去多天，其斜孭袋遺在樹旁，內有一張速遞公司的職員證及銀包，銀包內有一張影印身份證及 10元鈔票，即根據資料聯絡事主的公司及家人，證實死者為劉灝仁，通知其家人到場認屍。記者昨致電有關速遞公司求證，該公司不評論事件。
特稿父勸申請破產未理會

「屋企人個個幫佢，都唔明佢點會咁做（吊頸）？」愛兒疑因財困及感情問題而吊頸死，阿仁的父親昨認屍時老淚縱橫自責不已，原來他早前發現兒子欠下財務公司債項時，曾向朋友借錢代兒還債，並將兒子的證件藏起以免他繼續借貸，後來發現兒子再欠債，更勸他申請破產，豈料慈父多番努力仍未能挽回兒子性命。
「佢以前好乖仔」

劉父昨在孻女陪同下認屍，他激動地說：「佢以前好乖仔，收工就即刻返屋企，至多同舊同事去唱 K；但識咗個女人後，啲錢就冇晒，都唔知啲錢係唔係俾個女人呃晒。」據他透露，家人第一次發現阿仁向財務公司借 4萬多元時，即時向親友借款代還，更將他的身份證及回鄉證件藏起，以免他繼續借貸及北上玩樂；其後發現阿仁再受債項困擾，勸他申請破產，以免因財困走上絕路，但阿仁沒理會慈父的忠告。劉父補充，阿仁平日與家人關係很好，尤其是對長期病患的母親更是孝順。當家人得知阿仁結識女朋友，曾要求阿仁帶她回家與家人見面，但遭女方拒絕。阿仁失蹤前，女友曾致電來家找他，但失蹤後，女友一直關手機。本報記者

作者: sheep 時間: 2009-11-25 08:52

快樂牛郎發表於 2009-11-24 00:26

so you agree that if you met a girl, you should satisfy her and you need a job to make money in order to satisfy her.
There is nothing wrong for that poor guy to satisfy his gf. It is him don't know how to manage his money.

作者: daimo 時間: 2009-11-25 09:10

it's him who doesn't know how (and the need) of managing the relationship and expectations.

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2009-11-25 09:21

it's him who doesn't know how (and the need) of managing the relationship and expectations.
daimo 發表於 2009-11-25 10:10

Good point ... I am a mid cake as well ... so I am totally agree ...

When I look back, biggest reason why my previous "honger girlfriend(s)" broke up with me ... -> EXPECTATION .. the more I did .. the higher expectation they have, and then I did more .. keep going ...

However, my wife, has near NO expectation on me (or different, as she is not honger).. so far our relationship is great ...

I guess NOT showing the BEST part (or fake part) of a man when he is chasing a girl, is the way to go .. but most young men don't understand.... but that guy isn't young at all

, also that girl ... 28 yr old, shouldn't act like that .. they are not 21/22 ..

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-11-25 10:12

true love doesn't involve money
money can't buy love

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