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作者: B仔 時間: 2010-2-2 12:18 標題: 上契

本帖最後由 B仔於 2010-2-2 13:24 編輯

（喇，唔係講大契細契契弟呀。。。

）

今日諗起呢個話題。。。

睇吓身邊D朋友，個仔個女一出世，就幫助佢同人上契。
有幾個契爺，幾個契媽咁
為乜？
我心諗，我B仔自己有爹娘，我有乜理由要多個亞媽亞爸？

又睇吓我上興趣班的C9。。。
呢個自己有仔女，但係又話織件衫比個契女個BB女（咁係咪AUTOMATIC變契孫？！）

個個自己有女有仔，但係又有一兩個係契的

睇吓身邊的長老，自己有成7個仔女，10幾廿個孫仔孫女，返到鄉下，又話要契兩三個契女

睇吓自己喇。D朋友會問，B仔幾時生B仔呀？我一定要B仔個B嘅契媽契爺～
我心諗，如果我B仔有個B，我點解要我自己個B嗌多幾個人做亞媽？

再睇吓自己身邊。。。
有D朋友（包括我自己愛人），同朋友間，又有得上契喎。FRIEND還FRIEND。。。但係係咪真係好到要多幾個契姐契哥契妹契弟？咁，如果你係獨家村（獨子），我都可以理解少少嘅。。。不過又唔係喎～自己都有家姐亞哥細佬亞妹。。。仲契？唔明。有時最抵死嘅係，契出嚟個D，唔係你BEST FRIEND。。。咁，衰D忍唔住粗D都講句，契乜 "SPRING"？！

LAST CASE，係比較荒謬的～哈哈
還記得，B仔細個D嘅時候，有個哥哥想呃我。
死都唔受溝之後，那位哥哥就話同我講，唔跟要，做唔成情人都可以做FRIEND。不如我契你做契妹啦。

當我買佢怕，我順佢意，嗌完一聲契哥，契哥咪一樣想亂淪～

個排好似係興溝唔到的，就契。

我自己對上契呢家野冇乜好感，亦唔見個POINT係邊度。
你地有冇同感？
又或者講吓，如果你有D咩上契關係，你有咩感覺？

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2010-2-2 12:35

個排好似係興溝唔到的，就契.

That was the trend back then.... basically, any friend who intro anyone as his 契妹 to me... I assume she's someone whom he can't date but he's still interested in...

作者: B仔 時間: 2010-2-2 12:43

個排好似係興溝唔到的，就契.

That was the trend back then.... basically, any friend who intro anyone as his 契妹 to me... I assume she's someone whom he can't date but he's still interested in... ...
布小熊發表於 2010-2-2 13:35

到而家我都覺得係架～ LOL

我有時會"窒"我HUNNIE，話，係咪細嘅大嘅都唔放過，所以你有個契家姐，又有個契妹？！哈哈哈哈哈哈

不過，我信佢地係當年少年無知兼無聊，唔係想溝個兩個女仔嘅。。。
因為，佢地個GROUP，仲有一個契細佬～ LOL
我諗我HUNNIE唔會係溝唔到姐姐同妹妹，就順手溝吓D弟弟，點知溝唔到，就做埋我HUNNIE嘅契弟吧～～～～ LMAO

作者: myversa 時間: 2010-2-2 12:45

I do not have any.

I do not mind let my future child to have any.

作者: sheep 時間: 2010-2-2 12:46

我冇仔
所以契咗個

作者: B仔 時間: 2010-2-2 12:47

I do not have any.

I do not mind let my future child to have any.
myversa 發表於 2010-2-2 13:45

What would your reason be for your future child to have one?
(I guess this is just something that I cannot figure out personally)

作者: B仔 時間: 2010-2-2 12:54

我冇仔
所以契咗個
sheep 發表於 2010-2-2 13:46

CWONG自己爆有仔有女
羊羊冇仔所以有個契仔
咁芯FA肯唔肯做契後母先？

作者: sheep 時間: 2010-2-2 12:58

本帖最後由 sheep 於 2010-2-2 14:01 編輯

CWONG自己爆有仔有女
羊羊冇仔所以有個契仔
咁芯FA肯唔肯做契後母先？
B仔發表於 2010-2-2 13:54

咁？
要問吓佢

契細媽都可以

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2010-2-2 13:03

3# B仔
Haha I am sure your HUNNIE wont' do that la...
but in general that's the case.

I like to play with and buy stuffs for my friend's kids. But I just want to be a good auntie..
Not really about 契-ing anyone...

作者: Purpleheart 時間: 2010-2-2 13:05

CWONG自己爆有仔有女
羊羊冇仔所以有個契仔
咁芯FA肯唔肯做契後母先？
B仔發表於 2010-2-2 13:54

係呀, 我仲未有心理準備生羊仔嘛~~~

不過話時話我身邊有同人上契既朋友都係來自一個唔完整的家庭.....or 缺乏家庭溫暖的......希望有個契姐 or 契哥可以離補不足?!

作者: B仔 時間: 2010-2-2 13:15

3# B仔
Haha I am sure your HUNNIE wont' do that la...
but in general that's the case.

I like to play with and buy stuffs for my friend's kids. But I just want to be a good auntie..
Not really abo ...
布小熊發表於 2010-2-2 14:03

哈哈哈哈
我同你都係一樣，好鍾意同D朋友嘅BB玩。我身邊有小朋友嘅，只得黑面。。。所以我真係好鍾意同A仔玩架。不過唔代表我要契架嘛～～
咩AUNTIE呀？！學黑面咁教：係女人都叫姐姐（除咗D婆婆TYPE之外） LOOOL

作者: B仔 時間: 2010-2-2 13:16

咁？
要問吓佢

契細媽都可以
sheep 發表於 2010-2-2 13:58

OH～
你死喇！！！！
咁邊個係契大媽？！
點解要我嘅芯FA做契細媽？！

作者: B仔 時間: 2010-2-2 13:18

不過話時話我身邊有同人上契既朋友都係來自一個唔完整的家庭.....or 缺乏家庭溫暖的......希望有個契姐 or 契哥可以離補不足?! ...
Purpleheart 發表於 2010-2-2 14:05

我就係唔明點解D完整家庭要契呢契路囉～～

作者: Purpleheart 時間: 2010-2-2 13:37

OH～
你死喇！！！！
咁邊個係契大媽？！
點解要我嘅芯FA做契細媽？！
B仔發表於 2010-2-2 14:16

契大媽唔通係你?! 唔緊要啦, 我同你係好姊妹~ 你做大我做細啦~

其實我都覺得奇怪的, 朋友咪朋友囉, 邊個 level 既朋友自己知, 唔駛上契黎認定對方就係最親密既人?!

作者: sheep 時間: 2010-2-2 13:39

契大媽唔通係你?! 唔緊要啦, 我同你係好姊妹~ 你做大我做細啦~

其實我都覺得奇怪的, 朋友咪朋友囉, 邊個 level 既朋友自己知, 唔駛上契黎認定對方就係最親密既人?! ...
Purpleheart 發表於 2010-2-2 14:37

通常
做細嗰個係最得寵

作者: B仔 時間: 2010-2-2 14:15

契大媽唔通係你?! 唔緊要啦, 我同你係好姊妹~ 你做大我做細啦~

其實我都覺得奇怪的, 朋友咪朋友囉, 邊個 level 既朋友自己知, 唔駛上契黎認定對方就係最親密既人?! ...
Purpleheart 發表於 2010-2-2 14:37

我唔係大契呀～～～～～！！！！！！

係囉～
我HUNNIE契完個D亞姐亞妹細佬，全部都冇乜聯絡咁濟～

不過，我DARLING（朋友），都契咗個FRIEND做契仔。
契仔個女朋友，跟埋口叫我DARLING做亞媽～

天呀。。。係咪我自己唔夠無聊？！

我係度諗，有D父母個B一出世就幫佢契D契媽契爺嘅？
咁個小朋友大個後，問DADDY MAMMY: "點解我有個契媽契爺？"
咁個D父母會點解釋比個小朋友聽呢？

作者: myversa 時間: 2010-2-2 14:36

What would your reason be for your future child to have one?
(I guess this is just something that I cannot figure out personally)
B仔發表於 2010-2-2 13:47

I would not look for one but if someone who is closest friend and whom I think might give my child extra love, I do not mind to find a god father/mother for him/her. This friend might help my child in the future, who knows.

作者: fibbi 時間: 2010-2-2 14:57

本帖最後由 fibbi 於 2010-2-2 15:58 編輯

Don't plan to get one at all...我自問無愛心同本事去愛錫同教好人哋嘅仔。

作者: tofu 時間: 2010-2-2 15:03

"""如果我B仔有個B，我點解要我自己個B嗌多幾個人做亞媽？""
get more expensive gifts for "ar b" and big "lai si" each year ma

"""咩AUNTIE呀？！學黑面咁教：係女人都叫姐姐"""
hay, how to call 姐姐 in english? in chinese, all the kids can only call me 姐姐, but in english, i do allow them to call me auntie, since i don't know what is 姐姐 in english. and their parents don't allow them to just call my name.
in the old days, 契妹 is the ex- or potential gf

作者: Purpleheart 時間: 2010-2-2 15:48

in the old days, 契妹 is the ex- or potential gf
tofu 發表於 2010-2-2 16:03

我最憎呢個名詞! 講起我就火滾

最憎D女仔以契妹名義, 狂發曖昧sms, 打電話俾人地男朋友.....明明自己有車有要"契哥"車.....節日又要人送野俾佢, 送野當然好啦, 不過要留返農曆七月十四, 一定送(燒)個LV(紙紮)俾佢!

作者: myversa 時間: 2010-2-2 16:13

我最憎呢個名詞! 講起我就火滾
最憎D女仔以契妹名義, 狂發曖昧sms, 打電話俾人地男朋友.....明明自己有車有要"契哥"車.....節日又要人送野俾佢, 送野當然好啦, 不過要留返農曆七月十四, 一定送(燒)個LV(紙紮) ...
Purpleheart 發表於 2010-2-2 16:48

sheep has a lot of 契妹s?

作者: sheep 時間: 2010-2-2 16:50

20# Purpleheart

唔洗咁磬
錫番

作者: sheep 時間: 2010-2-2 16:51

21# myversa

嘩爆陰毒呀

作者: manman530 時間: 2010-2-2 19:03

我有一個契仔同一個契女。上契係因為我好鐘意小朋友，但無諗住自己將來會生，生仔責任重大吖！

作者: ricrick 時間: 2010-2-2 20:07

契弟‧我有

作者: Purpleheart 時間: 2010-2-2 20:33

契弟‧我有
ricrick 發表於 2010-2-2 21:07

托屁係LYK公認既契弟

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-2-2 21:24

如果上契係可以收到金飯碗同金筷子(加埋起碼都半斤重啦!), 咁小弟都唔介意做契仔的!

作者: sheep 時間: 2010-2-2 21:35

26# Purpleheart

睇來
大家仍然好懷念TOPPY喎

作者: CWong 時間: 2010-2-3 11:50

本帖最後由 CWong 於 2010-2-3 11:51 編輯

我最憎呢個名詞! 講起我就火滾
最憎D女仔以契妹名義, 狂發曖昧sms, 打電話俾人地男朋友.....明明自己有車有要"契哥"車.....節日又要人送野俾佢, 送野當然好啦, 不過要留返農曆七月十四, 一定送(燒)個LV(紙紮) ...
Purpleheart 發表於 2/2/2010 15:48

係你嚿情屎一部份？？

作者: B仔 時間: 2010-2-3 12:20

"""如果我B仔有個B，我點解要我自己個B嗌多幾個人做亞媽？""
get more expensive gifts for "ar b" and big "lai si" each year ma
"""咩AUNTIE呀？！學黑面咁教：係女人都叫姐姐"""
hay, how to call 姐姐 in ...
tofu 發表於 2010-2-2 16:03

咁都要D契乜契物有水先得架～～～

我想知，如果你契D仔女，係咪真係會當親的看待？
如果你有D契媽契爺，係咪真係同你親生父母一樣看待＆孝順？

我只係覺得，你要對一個人好，唔需要上契先對那人特別好姐。。。

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2010-2-3 13:38

咁都要D契乜契物有水先得架～～～

我想知，如果你契D仔女，係咪真係會當親的看待？
如果你有D契媽契爺，係咪真係同你親生父母一樣看待＆孝順？

我只係覺得，你要對一個人好，唔需要上契先對那人特別好姐。 ...
B仔發表於 2010-2-3 12:20

Very true. One of my friends got betrayed by his godparents before.
I think, if people have no kids and adopt orphan as their godchildren, or orphan adopt kid-less people as their godparents, then it makes more sense lor.

作者: sheep 時間: 2010-2-3 17:27

31# Ultraman

契仔唔同養子
契仔係多咗對哎也父母
得閑收啲著數啫
養子你就要供書教學
如果能夠對待佢如同己出梗係好喇
唉不過世事難料

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2010-2-3 20:31

31# Ultraman

契仔唔同養子
契仔係多咗對哎也父母
得閑收啲著數啫
養子你就要供書教學
如果能夠對待佢如同己出梗係好喇
唉不過世事難料
sheep 發表於 2010-2-3 17:27

I know. What I meant is, if one already has birth parents (still alive) or own children, why there is a need to have godparents or godchildren? Because they think their own parents/children are not good enough? Or as you said, only because of to 收著數?! It's just being greedy and selfish.

作者: tiffiant 時間: 2010-2-3 20:59

anyone wants to do it with me
you must agree that cwong is my husband
and you should have good relationship with me

作者: tofu 時間: 2010-2-3 22:45

"""咁都要D契乜契物有水先得架"""
you can choose ma

, do a financial check sin ma

我想知，如果你契D仔女，係咪真係會當親的看待？
如果你有D契媽契爺，係咪真係同你親生父母一樣看待＆孝順？
probably not in our generation, but it is a yes in my parents' generation.
i know some 契媽契爺 pay 契仔女 d tuition fee(visa student in the state)
or 契仔女 give money to 契媽契爺 when they are old
"""你要對一個人好，唔需要上契先對那人特別好姐"""
that is truth. but i think in the old days some people to eliminate rumor. let say a old guy is really good to a young girl, people may say they have special relationship. but 契爺契女may close someone's mouth. of course it won't work now la. to tell the world , they are special, they are my 契仔女, you need to "give face ar"

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