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作者: fibbi 時間: 2008-1-25 17:11 標題: can't view a thread

Doesn't mean to be a complain but I dunno where to report problems...

Maybe it's just me...but I can't view this thread now...."拍拖男仔俾錢﹖我都唔知 ..."
It was ok in the morning but it returns error msg now.

thanks

作者: chunsh 時間: 2008-1-25 18:14

wars begun, so....

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2008-1-25 18:17

yeah....

作者: Ken 時間: 2008-1-25 18:21

本周人氣榜 #1

作者: chunsh 時間: 2008-1-25 18:24

I was so angry, besides this, I am also sort of feeling shocked
like..ok I have said somebody doing wrong things or thinking the wrong ways, and I think I am one of the member who start the DEBATE(not fight). So shock that some ppl start doing personal attack to my gf....u know, its like u argue with a friend, but then he/she said something bad to your parents to insult u

I have a question, does Sazabi and LOK have any relationship with Little_prince and/ or utopia? u know, I didnt have any (yes, any) argument in LYK so far, but then they suddenly.......

作者: MoiRhapsody 時間: 2008-1-25 19:42

it is gone~~~

作者: Rainy 時間: 2008-1-25 19:58

gone already? oh man, i'm always 'a step' slow

作者: makten 時間: 2008-1-25 21:12

awww...guess no one backed up the "debate" eh...

作者: Rainy 時間: 2008-1-25 21:28

all I remember is the same point going over and over again jar................ ahahahh

well... ppl can always start another thread on such topic.. hahaha

作者: blueprint 時間: 2008-1-25 21:58

It was a really pathetic debate where the real questions are not really answered at all. Can't believe it takes 25 pages and still the misunderstandings. Oh well.... perhaps there is no way to debate with people who don't have time to keep track and think what the posts were really about. Too ironic and too funny.

Sigh Chunsh, don't get upset and try to let it go or else that would mean fall into the trap. Don't you think?

作者: notgoddy 時間: 2008-1-25 22:06

This is why democracy fails.

作者: chunsh 時間: 2008-1-25 22:16

原帖由 blueprint 於 2008-1-25 21:58 發表
It was a really pathetic debate where the real questions are not really answered at all. Can't believe it takes 25 pages and still the misunderstandings. Oh well.... perhaps there is no way to debate ...

thanks
well, I was pissed off at first but then I am ok, since .... I dunno, normally a loser (in forum) would do this kind of insulting to other members when they can't win....I am just curious that if those 2 members who were trying to insult my gf are friends/couples with those 3 girls who were debating with me. Especially as I remember I never argued with them in LYK before, so......weird...anyways, I also have had enough to repeat my point again and again and again and again and still have someone to miss them

作者: celeron_266 時間: 2008-1-25 22:41

seems that admin is pretty quick in deleting threads lately...and he really try to make this forum "clean"

作者: daimo 時間: 2008-1-25 22:45

i prefer locking the post instead of hiding it.

作者: katamari 時間: 2008-1-25 23:23

yea why not just lock it?

作者: MoiRhapsody 時間: 2008-1-26 00:22

you will never be given a response for that right now.

作者: Serenade 時間: 2008-1-26 06:14

I was trying to look at that post this morning, but it just went down before I even get to see what the responses were.
Oh, MoiRhapsody, thanks for the comfort, really appreciate it.

But again, I really hope people can just response to critical/crucial debates instead of picking a fight with unrelated attacks.
I know there are some people here are just trying to play the "good guy" role and be nice to a certain few female members, and I really don't blame them for playing their acts as a so called 護花使者, but it really is plain dumb when they protect or retaliate with the wrong methods... aai...

作者: chunsh 時間: 2008-1-26 13:15

原帖由 Serenade 於 2008-1-26 06:14 發表
I was trying to look at that post this morning, but it just went down before I even get to see what the responses were.
Oh, MoiRhapsody, thanks for the comfort, really appreciate it.

But again, I rea ...

well, too bad that the most popular thread of LYK in this week is closed

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-1-26 14:41

Chunsh,

1st, I don't have any relationship with the people in that thread. 2nd, I said already that I did not intend to insult you or your gf initially. 3rd, I was considered as Littleprince enemy in the old LYK forum; so I would not defend her.

When I said "May be a PC gf", I was trying to bring up a possible reason for girls who don't mind doing AA.  For example, if a guy is driving a lot of "nice" cars, we may come up with the reason that "may be the father's gf is rich".  In a negative way, if a guy is not able to afford a car, I would say "may be the family is poor".  So that is bringing the family in and insult the family?  In that thread, we were not even talking about your gf willing to do AA.  Well, if what you posted are specifically talking about you and your gf, I would understand why you link my comment to your gf right away.

Of course, I don't 100% agree with this reason that a girl willing to do AA because she is ugly.  That's why I said "May be".  However, it is very common and reasonable that some girls would lower their dating standard when their appearence is not attractive enough to compete with other girls.  They simply find other ways to attract the male.  e.g. paying dating expense, picking a loser as bf, showing their intelligence... etc.  Therefore, I don't see anything wrong for me to bring that up in an open dicussion as a possible reason.

Ok. I think I have state this clear that "may be a PC gf" comment is not aiming at your gf.  If you still take it as an insult, that's too bad and so be it.

[ 本帖最後由 SAZABI 於 2008-1-26 14:42 編輯 ]

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-1-26 14:48

Oh, and please don't even try to assume that people are related when they have similar opinion and thinking. I would not think that Chunsh and Serenade are 斷背 buddies.

作者: chunsh 時間: 2008-1-26 15:18

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-1-26 14:41 發表
Chunsh,

1st, I don't have any relationship with the people in that thread. 2nd, I said already that I did not intend to insult you or your gf initially. 3rd, I was considered as Littleprince enemy ...

u can explain if u didnt intend to at the first plcae
I have already said I am sorry if I misunderstood. So if I misunderstood, why not explained in the first place?
even if I misunderstood, I am not the only one who misunderstood almost everyone think the same way as me regarding to your posts, so u can't blame the others
and the thing is, during the second, and the later posts, u DID said soemthing bad to my gf, Remember, if u don't agree with me, fight with me, but not any other people around me.

very simple, what would u feel if someone said something bad to your mom in forum fight?
even I didnt agree with Little prince's mom's teaching about guys, I DID NOT give any comment to it.

作者: chunsh 時間: 2008-1-26 15:19

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-1-26 14:48 發表
Oh, and please don't even try to assume that people are related when they have similar opinion and thinking. I would not think that Chunsh and Serenade are 斷背 buddies.

sigh....make this kind of post again?
u know, its not funny at all...too disappointed

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2008-1-26 15:59

Sazabi:

You are my enemy? not that I know of bor... 我地何時結怨架﹖不過點都好啦﹐如果你唔當我係 FRIEND 我唔介意的﹐我還是會當你是老友記呢。。。

作者: big_tooth 時間: 2008-1-26 15:59

Chunsh,

Just say "Maybe" before any comment you want to make. Apparently you can get away with anything by saying "Maybe".

作者: daimo 時間: 2008-1-26 16:26

原帖由 Littleprince 於 2008-1-26 15:59 發表
Sazabi:

You are my enemy? not that I know of bor... 我地何時結怨架﹖不過點都好啦﹐如果你唔當我係 FRIEND 我唔介意的﹐我還是會當你是老友記呢。。。

You became his enemy without knowing. Doesn't it tell you the kind of person he "might be"?

作者: notgoddy 時間: 2008-1-26 17:08 標題: 回復 15# 的帖子

Threads gets deleted because it make people look bad. Think of our appearance! Nothing happened on June 4th of 1989!

作者: LOK 時間: 2008-1-26 17:52

chunsh:
I don't have any relationship with anyone here
I don't think SAZABI insult your gf at all, you are just over reacted.
You don't need to take everything so serious here, even if you say my gf is PC, I won't have the same reaction as you.
If you have read the other post, Mr. H was saying my car is very ugly with some replica body kit and can't afford after market rims... I didn't say a single word to reply on those "insult", since they are ALL not the truth.
You know, no one will remember anything after a few days, since no one know/care about you.

[ 本帖最後由 LOK 於 2008-1-26 17:55 編輯 ]

作者: blueprint 時間: 2008-1-26 19:13

Somehow I think Lok got one good point, we don't have to care about people who can't realize they are being inconsiderate.

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-1-26 19:53

原帖由 chunsh 於 2008-1-26 15:18 發表

u can explain if u didnt intend to at the first plcae
I have already said I am sorry if I misunderstood. So if I misunderstood, why not explained in the first place?
even if I misunderstood, I am no ...

lol, did you give me a chance to explain before you start yelling and crying right after I posted that "PC" reply?
I don't remember saying something bad directly about your gf. You were the one who linked "PC" right away to your gf.

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-1-26 19:54

原帖由 chunsh 於 2008-1-26 15:19 發表

sigh....make this kind of post again?
u know, its not funny at all...too disappointed

That's a reply to whoever make the comment that me, Lok, littleprince, utopia are related.
And I don't see you reply to that post with this. Double standard?

edit: just realized you were the one who made the comment. So are u disappointed with yourself?

[ 本帖最後由 SAZABI 於 2008-1-26 20:03 編輯 ]

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-1-26 19:56

原帖由 Littleprince 於 2008-1-26 15:59 發表
Sazabi:

You are my enemy? not that I know of bor... 我地何時結怨架﹖不過點都好啦﹐如果你唔當我係 FRIEND 我唔介意的﹐我還是會當你是老友記呢。。。

我同你冇結怨.
因為我多數意見同你不合.
I was considered your enemy (by other people).
唔等於
I considered you as my enemy.

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-1-26 20:09

原帖由 daimo 於 2008-1-26 16:26 發表

You became his enemy without knowing. Doesn't it tell you the kind of person he "might be"?

dude, I was replying Chunsh and trying to emphasize that I don't have any relationship with Littleprince.

作者: chunsh 時間: 2008-1-26 21:20

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-1-26 19:53 發表

lol, did you give me a chance to explain before you start yelling and crying right after I posted that "PC" reply?
I don't remember saying something bad directly about your gf. You were the one who ...

o依?我點樣唔俾機會你呀? 我座左係你付近禁住你手唔俾你打字?
重複講多次啦
我唔係唯一一個覺得你有講的野係target我gf o羅
而你又無解釋﹐你見我誤會﹐pissed off﹐你選擇繼keep on串我呀嗎 (話我cry baby,又
話o羊崩口人忌崩口碗﹐etc)﹐(depends on admin, if he reopen the thread again,
大家可以去證實一下﹐究竟我係o米完全係我over react)

講真﹐你話你無錯﹐無人可以做的mud o野﹐你自己講過的mud, think過的mud,你自
己知啦﹐

作者: chunsh 時間: 2008-1-26 21:24

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-1-26 20:09 發表

dude, I was replying Chunsh and trying to emphasize that I don't have any relationship with Littleprince.

I didnt really care about if u have any relationship with anyone in LYK, cos I am here not to make friends, nor making enemies, just for BS-ting. I was curious becos as I remember, while in old LYK, we havnt argued like I did with big_tooth, Daimo, Little_prince, and we had similar opinions with some of the topics...thats why I am wondering. Just thinking out loud, nothing else

作者: notgoddy 時間: 2008-1-26 22:12

Can someone write a summary?

作者: chunsh 時間: 2008-1-26 22:37

原帖由 notgoddy 於 2008-1-26 22:12 發表
Can someone write a summary?

about whether guys should chase girl but insist using AA or what?

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-1-26 22:50

原帖由 chunsh 於 2008-1-26 21:20 發表

o依?我點樣唔俾機會你呀? 我座左係你付近禁住你手唔俾你打字?
重複講多次啦
我唔係唯一一個覺得你有講的野係target我gf o羅
而你又無解釋﹐你見我誤會﹐pissed off﹐你選擇繼keep on串我呀嗎 (話我cry baby,又
話o羊崩口 ...

呵呵.. 唔好意思, 呢個係我既性格. 無啦啦俾你話我 insult 你喎. 慶架嘛. 所以選擇左繼續串你, 冇去解釋.
如果我係有心 target 你 gf, 我就會話 "may be your gf is..."

作者: notgoddy 時間: 2008-1-27 00:10

AA=Anti-Air?

Can anyone be more clear?

作者: ordinary_girl 時間: 2008-1-27 02:03

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-1-26 19:53 發表

lol, did you give me a chance to explain before you start yelling and crying right after I posted that "C" reply?
I don't remember saying something bad directly about your gf. You were the one who ...

huh? president's choice gf? what's that.....

作者: big_tooth 時間: 2008-1-27 05:21

The discussion of should a man pay for his female friend's expenses during a date went on for about 23 pages. Someone made a comment that those who oppose the "guy must pay" already have girlfriend or wife. Sazabi then said it could be because the girlfriend is a PC girlfriend (whatever the heck that means), or the girlfriend is ugly, and I forgot if there was a third one.

Sazabi did not specify who he was talking about, so either 1)he was talking about all those opposing the "guy must pay" idea (and Chunsh would be in that list), or 2) He was making no sense at all since the discussion was nowhere near "why a girl is willing to pay for her own".

I'm an old cake, so my memory isn't that great. Correct me if I am wrong here.

作者: notgoddy 時間: 2008-1-27 09:23

Thanks Tooth, much clearer now.

It seems some people are taking the internet too seriously again. It is way too hard to be clear enough to communicate on the internet, especially when people have thoughtless and lazy writing.

I would say SAZABI is partly at fault for being insensitive, and his present in this thread may be driven by the guilty for his wrong doing. Obvious a simple apology for the possible misunderstanding is not going to hurt anyone's image.

作者: fibbi 時間: 2008-1-27 11:25

原帖由 notgoddy 於 2008-1-27 00:10 發表
AA=Anti-Air?

Can anyone be more clear?

"AA" = "Go Dutch" in English - To pay one's own expenses on a date or outing.

作者: LOK 時間: 2008-1-27 13:45

原帖由 chunsh 於 2008-1-26 21:24 發表
I didnt really care about if u have any relationship with anyone in LYK, cos I am here not to make friends, nor making enemies, just for BS-ting. I was curious becos as I remember, while in old LYK ...

Just for BS-ing, same as me then...
then why are you so serious?

作者: asmok 時間: 2008-1-27 14:19

It seems that deleting the other post just brings all the conversation over here... and everyone is still very serious about about the old topic....

Is PC = pork chop?
I so outdated with all the new terms you guys are using here...

作者: ordinary_girl 時間: 2008-1-27 15:30

原帖由 asmok 於 2008-1-27 14:19 發表
Is PC = pork chop?
I so outdated with all the new ...

oh...! my Chinese sucks so much that i couldn't think of what PC stands for except president's choice......

作者: chunsh 時間: 2008-1-27 16:30

原帖由 LOK 於 2008-1-27 13:45 發表

Just for BS-ing, same as me then...
then why are you so serious?

I wonder how many times I need to repeat my self
in the heated debate topic like that one, u are arguing with someone about something, what if someone saying something to your MOM/Wife/Dad/....?? 喂﹐禍不及妻兒呀,無端端講我女友無謂o丫﹐係o米?

everyone has a bottom line during communication, including forum. If we really think that forum is just a BS place and say everything we want, then can u explain why there are some people got caught by the hk police for declaring themselves as gangs members? That kind of things not only happen in hk, u know?

Actually, Sazabi has explained here that he got hot-headed there so he didnt explain. And I assume that he didnt really try to insult my gf , so I just plan let it go.

作者: notgoddy 時間: 2008-1-27 16:48

Good looking or not I think girls nowadays are a bit more independent, and having a guy pay for all her expense seems to be old fashioned.

Splitting the costs is kind of distanced though, but it isn't really an impersonal thing to do.

Of course, it does take an ugly girl to actually pay for the guy, attractive girls may be the ones paying as well.

We all know cool people are bastards and bitches anyways, so is it a distinction that anyone want to strafe for? Sure!

I bid Chunsh's gf is the latter.

作者: chunsh 時間: 2008-1-27 17:10

原帖由 notgoddy 於 2008-1-27 16:48 發表
Good looking or not I think girls nowadays are a bit more independent, and having a guy pay for all her expense seems to be old fashioned.

Splitting the costs is kind of distanced though, but it isn' ...

LOL Goddy

作者: myversa 時間: 2008-1-28 09:53

I suggest next time if people want to fight, open their own thread so it will not ruin a good discussed thread...

They can open a new thread with the link to the old thread where they got offended or just use 報告 to report to the admin so they can just remove that one post instead of the whole thread.

作者: chunsh 時間: 2008-1-28 12:14

原帖由 myversa 於 2008-1-28 09:53 發表
I suggest next time if people want to fight, open their own thread so it will not ruin a good discussed thread...

They can open a new thread with the link to the old thread where they got offende ...

forums have fight, this is the inevitable truth
whats the point to have a forum anyways if everyone in that forum have the exact same opinions about everything? Man, nothing to discuss.

作者: myversa 時間: 2008-1-28 12:30

Of course each person has their own opinion, and forum is the place for everyone to express their own opinion.  You can argue, discuss but there is really no need to fight especially the personal level.

If you think you have been offended, you might as well to open a new thread specific to that person and argue your point with him.  You were off topic when you argued with him.  I did not say who is right and who is wrong in that fight but just hope you can fight in a new thread.

That's all I am asking.  That topic has so many different good points from many people but it got deleted because of "fighting".

It's kind of hard to think a new topic that can interest and generate so much repsonses these days.

作者: notgoddy 時間: 2008-1-28 22:00

How about "Jesus is a pedophile!"?

作者: chunsh 時間: 2008-1-28 23:31

原帖由 myversa 於 2008-1-28 12:30 發表
Of course each person has their own opinion, and forum is the place for everyone to express their own opinion. You can argue, discuss but there is really no need to fight especially the personal leve ...

well, that topic should die sooner or later anyways
cos I keep repeating my points but some people keep missing what I keep repeating....BUT that is NOT the reason why fight back there.
by the way, why dun u blame the admin or the ones who close it? they can always LOCK but not hidding the topics like the chinese government handle the event in 1989 June 4th

anyways, thats the life cycle of topics in forums, accept or not
dun worry, u can open a new thread but about the same topic

作者: chunsh 時間: 2008-1-28 23:32

原帖由 notgoddy 於 2008-1-28 22:00 發表
How about "Jesus is a pedophile!"?

wow, u are so brave~~~~
or u want someone to close this thread too??

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