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作者: yokult    時間: 2010-4-6 07:38     標題: 參加唔多認識的婚禮

事緣係我男友堂家姐結婚。雖然我同男友行左幾年﹐同呢個堂家姐見過最多一次﹐仲未正式傾過計﹐係街見到都唔認得。

而家拒結婚﹐男友想我同拒一齊去。我覺得我又唔識拒﹐唔多想去。又悶﹐感覺去應酬多D。男友又覺得成家人﹐連埋我去﹐會好睇D。

大家覺得我應唔應該去?

呢D situation, 禮金應該點比? 我通常$100比熟朋友﹐但呢個case, 唔知算唔算熟... 男友雖然係拒親戚﹐但平日無來往的。
作者: yokult    時間: 2010-4-6 07:44

forgot to mention, 果個黎拜仲有另一個婚禮參加﹐又係男友的朋友。
所以超唔願意去呢個囉。
作者: siumaibb    時間: 2010-4-6 08:29

佢當你係自己人先叫你去。有無聽過愛屋及烏呀。你拒絕幾次你男友隨時連佢自己個婚禮都唔叫你去呀。
作者: Lik    時間: 2010-4-6 08:31

阿女，拍拖就係咁㗎啦，呢啲 family／男朋友 event 走唔甩㗎喇。正路換咗我係個哥哥仔嘅話，如果我要求你出席，禮金、禮物果啲野就我自己搞掂（幫你咩埋）。After all，係我叫你去嘅，咁條數就哽係我埋啦。

而且，就算你超唔願意去，你到時都一定要四萬咁口來見人添呀。

做得人嘅男／女朋友，點都要識大體，點都要識做㗎。

-力
作者: sheep    時間: 2010-4-6 08:36

forgot to mention, 果個黎拜仲有另一個婚禮參加﹐又係男友的朋友。
所以超唔願意去呢個囉。 ...
yokult 發表於 2010-4-6 07:44



CASE 1 佢地想你去 話一家人？
你係邊位？ 女朋友都算自家人
人情當然係闔府統請嗰家俾
要你俾 不如同我去食咗佢？

CASE 2 係你男友要你陪？
係就佢俾
如果要你俾
都係嗰句
不如同我去食咗佢
作者: chobit    時間: 2010-4-6 08:38

I agree with both siumaibb & Lik wor!

事緣係我男友堂家姐結婚。雖然我同男友行左幾年﹐同呢個堂家姐見過最多一次﹐仲未正式傾過計﹐係街見到都唔 ...
yokult 發表於 2010-4-6 07:38
作者: somewhereintime    時間: 2010-4-6 08:42

[quot

要你俾 不如同我 ...
sheep 發表於 2010-4-6 08:36 [/quote]
花心山羊新目標
作者: sheep    時間: 2010-4-6 08:53

[quot

要你俾 不如同我 ...
sheep 發表於 2010-4-6 08:36

花心山羊新目標 ...
somewhereintime 發表於 2010-4-6 08:42 [/quote]


都係俾多個 OPTION 佢啫
作者: 布小熊    時間: 2010-4-6 08:54

You should go to both. And both cases, your bf or his family should pay the "yin ching" cos you are invited to go with them. Not that you are individually invited to the event.
作者: habitrailspace    時間: 2010-4-6 09:13

事緣係我男友堂家姐結婚。雖然我同男友行左幾年﹐同呢個堂家姐見過最多一次﹐仲未正式傾過計﹐係街見到都唔 ...
yokult 發表於 2010-4-6 07:38

no, no, no... it gonna be very boring.
call in sick la (好似返公咁)
做人要活得開心!
LEARN TO SAY NO!!!
作者: CWong    時間: 2010-4-6 09:17

CASE 1 佢地想你去 話一家人？
你係邊位？ 女朋友都算自家人
人情當然係闔府統請嗰家俾
要你俾 不如同我 ...
sheep 發表於 6/4/2010 08:36


Oh NO!同花心山年拍拖冇好日子過！
作者: sheep    時間: 2010-4-6 09:21

回復 11# CWong


   冇收過投訴
作者: CWong    時間: 2010-4-6 09:26

冇收過投訴≠事实嘅全部
作者: habitrailspace    時間: 2010-4-6 09:34

事实冇收過投訴
作者: CWong    時間: 2010-4-6 09:58

佢投訴都唔会同我哋講真话啦！
作者: tofu    時間: 2010-4-6 10:04

you should go to both weddings, well, this is the life of being attached la.

if they don't send you a separate invitation card, the 禮金is included in 闔府統請 package.
but if they send you a separate invitation card, your 禮金 should separate with your bf.   but in both situation, your bf should prepare the 禮金 for you.
作者: sheep    時間: 2010-4-6 11:22

佢投訴都唔会同我哋講真话啦！
CWong 發表於 2010-4-6 09:58



    你咁緊張做咩？
皇帝唔急 太監急
作者: CWong    時間: 2010-4-6 11:44

最急嗰个咪又係你！
作者: chowB    時間: 2010-4-6 12:02

你拒絕幾次你男友隨時連佢自己個婚禮都唔叫你去呀。
siumaibb 發表於 2010-4-6 08:29

Wakakakaka....................... that's a good one!
作者: sheep    時間: 2010-4-6 12:03

最急嗰个咪又係你！
CWong 發表於 2010-4-6 11:44



    未驚過
作者: chowB    時間: 2010-4-6 12:08

Cuz your bf himself is not close to the bride either, he needs to attend because he's a family member mah (even he doesn't wanna go), he wants you to accompany cuz he treats you as his potential bride lor. I'm not too worry about the money gift, cuz your bf won't give much anyway, you may ask him for what he plans to give, and then you can match accordingly but minus a little is also fine. To say he treats you as his potential bride is one thing, if you are not sure if you two will break up one day, don't give so much money gift for now to avoid you'll regret one day afterward lor! But to attend this kinda family function is a good social manner ah. Hehe....
作者: Prelude    時間: 2010-4-6 12:44

Easy answer la.

If he didn't ask you to go with him, then you should be more worry la.
Do you really want him to not ask you to go his family events?  If you feel that way (which you sound like), then you should consider if you really like/love him at all.  I would love to accompany my gf's family event unless it's a social-type business event.
作者: habitrailspace    時間: 2010-4-6 13:00

吊高泥賣姐
作者: sheep    時間: 2010-4-6 16:46

吊高泥賣姐
habitrailspace 發表於 2010-4-6 13:00



    如果你唔找咗條數
我去溝伴郎
作者: yokult    時間: 2010-4-6 20:33

我愛我男友﹐但唔鐘意參加呢D家庭聚會囉。

我都有想過 call in sick﹐不過算啦﹐一次嗟。
仲要做場好戲﹐唔可以黑面。
作者: AAC    時間: 2010-4-6 22:59

我愛我男友﹐但唔鐘意參加呢D家庭聚會囉。

我都有想過 call in sick﹐不過算啦﹐一次嗟。
仲要做場好戲﹐ ...
yokult 發表於 2010/4/6 20:33


好囉，終於想通。
做人就係要互相遷就，可能下次係你bf陪番你都未定。
唔駛咁mean就開心好多。
作者: playingtoy    時間: 2010-4-7 00:57

拿 就咁 去到啲 生保地方 同啲人唔係太熟 就 千祈 咪做假 當係入去做 考察 話晒係 你bf啲family 坐埋去 了解下 佢地個底 feel下個vibe 開心就 笑 無feel就 坐定 話晒你都係 【個新人 個堂細佬 個gf】 呢個就係你既 銜頭 雖然係長左DD 就係咁 其他 自己決定 同埋 如果呢個係佢地個pattern 即係話 第時輪到你做新人 亦係會 有一個 唔係真係鄧你開心而係夾硬比人拉黎做戲既人黎踩場 咁就 有啲唔多妥 喇
作者: habitrailspace    時間: 2010-4-7 06:46

hmm... 有小小明白点解當年d"姑爺仔"咁利害
作者: sheep    時間: 2010-4-7 07:42

hmm... 有小小明白点解當年d"姑爺仔"咁利害
habitrailspace 發表於 2010-4-7 06:46



    he is 張你嗒 Johnny D
private of the .......
作者: habitrailspace    時間: 2010-4-7 07:50

he is 張你嗒 Johnny D
private of the .......
sheep 發表於 2010-4-7 07:42


有時唔知邊個depp邊個!?
作者: sheep    時間: 2010-4-7 07:59

有時唔知邊個depp邊個!?
habitrailspace 發表於 2010-4-7 07:50



   我係 Billy D
作者: habitrailspace    時間: 2010-4-7 08:06

我係 Billy D
sheep 發表於 2010-4-7 07:59

肥羊billyd
慎重考慮,慎重考慮...
作者: sheep    時間: 2010-4-7 08:36

肥羊billyd
慎重考慮,慎重考慮...
habitrailspace 發表於 2010-4-7 08:06



   重諗？
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