Do you mind if your gf/bf is older than you?

What is an acceptable age difference for you? Would you be reluctant to start a relationship with someone who is older or younger than you?
If you see  these couples are your friends, do you think it is "weird'?

A. Guy ( 30) and Girl ( 36)
B. Girl (19) and guy (25)
C. Guy (45) and woman (36)

fibbi

A: It's not that obvious btn 30 and 36. But when 60 and 66...it shows big diff.
B: No problem at all.
C: Don't think there is problem as well.

cremedelacreme

A: No
B: For sure
C: For sure

smt

i know a girl 29 and a guy 20 (i think they started dating when they were 28 and 19), and they seem to do fine.
so I think ABC are all ok.

fibbi

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    It's ok when they are in 20s but once they hit 50 or 60s...it really shows. And guy would be much better off in this case...

smt

really?? for some reason, i think it's the other way around.

if a guy is still 19, he doesn't have much experience in this society, in other words, he's still not very mature. i mean, heck, he's still a student, 未見過咩世面。
however, the girl is already 28, normally she should have already worked for a few years, and should be more mature, probably have a career in sight.

if both are in 50s or 60s, like 50 vs 56, it doesn't really make much difference.

just my 2 cents.

Guy

I don't mind if Girl is 16 and the guy is 25

you will get more girls that way

biggie

Interesting topic. When I was in University I knew a few girls (19 or 20) dating guys who have graduated for a few years already. (say 25, 26)

Personally I think it's all good. If you were a girl would you mind though?

Davidcopperfeel

a male frd of mine Guy (29) Girl (39)
its weird to me now but maybe not after 30 years
and lots of my male frds (28-early 40) would still prefer 18-22. For fun?? maybe lol?