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作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-6-27 11:13 標題: 獨男宅女的故事 - 邊個單位要付最大責任?

大家好﹐上個禮拜大家討論97後香港12年大劫討輪得如火如茶﹐所以我就postpone左呢個題。其實呢個都唔係咩新topic﹐但係好多人都會問大C姐對獨男/宅女有咩意見。首先﹐早喺10幾年前﹐大C姐身邊已經有呢類人﹐只不過係無一個形容詞﹐亦都無人囉出嚟講。所以我都唔知係唔係近年真係多左呢D個案﹐定係傳媒古老當時興去煲大件事。

我先講我一D老表嘅故事。我有一個老表叫阿培﹐好細個讀書時期已經令屋企人好頭痛。唔知係咪同佢父母離婚有關﹐阿培讀書一直係時好時壞。一時聽佢阿媽話阿培考頭五名﹐但係第二年又話唔合格﹐要求學校俾佢升班等等。阿培個個性又係有D古怪﹐成日做D出人意表嘅行為﹐而且唔多出聲又無咩反應﹐所以係無朋友亦唔出街。佢阿媽已經一直從小到大都幫佢報好多好多興趣班﹐希望阿培有一樣嘢做得成功﹐會有多D自信心。佢阿媽同後父亦都算係幾火爆﹐好多時見到阿培都唔知鬧好定打好。其實鄰居都試過報警投訴佢哋打仔﹐但係都無辦法﹐因為實在唔知點樣去教。之後個阿媽同個後父就生多個仔添﹐即係阿培就多個細佬(俊俊)。好奇怪﹐其實阿培好錫個細佬﹐個細佬都好跟佢。雖然俊俊唔算絕頂聰明﹐但係相比之下﹐當然得人歡心多D啦。所以個後父一直好偏心呢個仔﹐一來係自己骨肉二來俊俊都係一個幾正常易教嘅細路。

好啦﹐唔知F.5定中F.7之後阿培當然上唔到大學啦﹐之後父母更加頭痛﹐因為以阿培個性格莫講話見唔見得成工﹐可能直頭揾都唔會去揾。但係又好好彩阿培個阿媽又幫佢揾到一份鐘錶行嘅工做徒弟之類。其實大家當時都鬆一口氣因為都覺得好適合一個半自閉嘅人做。但係好衰唔衰﹐連個老闆都頂佢唔順﹐本來諗住交條鎖匙俾佢開鋪但係阿培竟然唔肯﹐又唔上心﹐唔想進升且如之類。其實多年嚟都一直有好多問題同故事﹐而且近年大C姐都好少再同呢家人見面所而都唔知阿培搞成點。不過大概知道26歲都好似無拍拖亦無咩社交生活。

另外一對老表係兩姊弟﹐暫且叫阿玲同阿傑。阿玲同阿傑都算心智正常﹐其實一D都唔似阿培。但係阿玲同阿傑個阿媽就係典型無打過工﹐一生人唯一責任就係對仔女嘅家庭煮婦。好多人都以為屋企有個家庭煮婦照顧﹐D仔女一定好正常好開心啦。但係其實就係因為太close﹐兩個仔女都無咩私人生活﹐亦唔係好識/唔需要自己照顧自己。另外﹐阿玲同阿傑個老豆係超級大男人﹐其實唔係好鍾意D仔女出嚟打工﹐尤其是個女。但係D仔女讀書亦唔係標柄﹐中學畢業之後一直遊手好閒﹐每日就係同個阿媽喺屋企追劇。但係個老豆其實收入唔多﹐我諗都係頂多兩萬蚊要養起一頭家﹐而且早兩年因為生病所以經濟都唔係好好。可能仔係知道自己就嚟退休﹐個老豆都開始俾D仔女揾工。又因為得知我家姐係某大會計師樓嘅manager就不停問可唔可以介紹入去做個"文員"(典型無打過工﹐日日追劇集以為真係可以靠人事就入到去打工嘅心態)﹐當然呢兩位公子同小姐廾幾雖都無工作經驗﹐中學畢業真係唔知點幫。

呢幾位都係我眼中嘅獨男同宅女﹐可能同大家所諗嘅有D出入但係其實都不外乎幾個關鍵條件﹕欠社交能力﹐缺乏自信﹐唔多出街同社會脫節。只不過呢幾年大家個重點放左落去打機同電腦﹐但係我可以大膽講﹐無PS2同電腦之前已經有呢類人。大家除左投票之外﹐亦可以講吓身邊有無獨男同宅女﹐同埋你心目中獨男同宅女個定義係咩。獨男宅女的故事 - 試舉例及說明之。

-- 健談兼健美嘅C姑娘娘

作者: samsung 時間: 2010-6-27 15:54

早喺10幾年前﹐大C姐身邊已經有呢類人﹐
大C姐發表於 2010-6-27 11:13

sounds like you're way older than I could imagine

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-6-27 15:56

sounds like you're way older than I could imagine
samsung 發表於 2010-6-27 15:54

十幾年前我都係十幾歲o者﹐有幾大年紀呀?

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-6-27 17:53

其實獨男同宅女係乜野意思?
獨男 - 孤獨的男人?
宅女 - 成日唔出街既女人?

作者: biggie 時間: 2010-6-28 00:04

lol, "government's problem" How did you even come up with that option?

作者: habitrailspace 時間: 2010-6-28 09:38

5. 做物者既錯

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2010-6-28 10:08

十幾年前我都係十幾歲o者﹐有幾大年紀呀?
大C姐發表於 2010-6-27 15:56

If 19 + 19 ... that is 38 la..

作者: habitrailspace 時間: 2010-6-28 10:50

回復 7# Catpiano

38 = G ??? (i dunno about this numbering system)

作者: fibbi 時間: 2010-6-28 11:03

case 1 唔識comment，因為都唔知佢諗緊乜。
case 2 就似係父母嘅問題多啲，至少你話個細路心智正常，個父母點都應該鼓勵佢哋去見工。唔應該猶佢哋坐喺屋企幾年。

作者: samsung 時間: 2010-6-28 11:50

If 19 + 19 ... that is 38 la..
Catpiano 發表於 2010-6-28 10:08

old shemale

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-28 20:17

「負」責任呀大C姐你要罰企

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-6-28 20:39

「負」責任呀大C姐你要罰企
playingtoy 發表於 2010-6-28 20:17

我D錯別字係我嘅icon﹐我唔錯你先驚。

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-6-28 20:42

lol, "government's problem" How did you even come up with that option?
biggie 發表於 2010-6-28 00:04

民生好多都同政治有關﹐好似教育制度等等。

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-28 20:49

日日追劇集
大C姐發表於 2010-6-27 11:13

即係對媒體好有興趣。又好明白個film theory。
明既。睇左咁多劇集。入晒個subconscious架啦。自己唔知啫。
屋企又有錢。咪入去VFS讀番年囉。佢地需要既係：夢想
再簡單啲。咪叫佢地。同我一齊瞓街囉。

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-28 20:57

我D錯別字係我嘅icon﹐我唔錯你先驚。
大C姐發表於 2010-6-28 20:39

但係班主任話你要佛企播

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-6-28 21:07

If 19 + 19 ... that is 38 la..
Catpiano 發表於 2010-6-28 10:08

就算真係38﹐又如何?

你小心D講嘢呀 .... 會得罪好多人架.....

下集預告﹕大C姐身世之謎的故事

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-6-28 21:08

但係班主任話你要佛企播
playingtoy 發表於 2010-6-29 12:57

五佛德五德亞?

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2010-6-28 21:10

就算真係38﹐又如何?

你小心D講嘢呀 .... 會得罪好多人架.....

下集預告﹕大C姐身世之謎的故事 ...
大C姐發表於 2010-6-28 21:07

z..z..z...z.....

Suen ba la.. 小心得罪人 in LYK ?? lol

Still 大C姐身世之謎 going on mei?

We want to know Peter 身世之謎 door D wor ...

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-28 21:11

13 加 13
都係 26 啫
以光年做單位計算

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-28 21:16

五佛德五德亞?
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2010-6-28 21:08

mcjohnjohn

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-6-28 21:16

z..z..z...z.....

Suen ba la.. 小心得罪人 in LYK ?? lol

Still 大C姐身世之謎 going on mei? {:8_ ...
Catpiano 發表於 2010-6-29 13:10

I want to know CP 身世 wor...

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-6-28 21:18

13 加 13
都係 26 啫
以光年做單位計算
playingtoy 發表於 2010-6-29 13:11

光年係距離單位而唔係時間既單位.
例: 半人馬座alpha星距離地球約4.2光年. 即係光都要行4.2年先去到半人馬座alpha星.

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-28 21:23

光年係距離單位而唔係時間既單位.
例: 半人馬座alpha星距離地球約4.2光年. 即係光都要行4.2年先去到半人馬 ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2010-6-28 21:18

your perception of time is: how long does it take me to do what

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-6-28 21:33

your perception of time is: how long does it take me to do what
playingtoy 發表於 2010-6-29 13:23

根據狹義相對論, 當物體運動時, 內部所有一切既物理化學變化反應都會變慢, 即係時間膨脹.
所以, 當你越行得快, 你內在過既時間就會比外面既時間過得慢d, 即係你既時間會好用左.
假設你以光速既90% 行動, 你內部過左一年, 但出面既世界只係過左半年, 咁時間會好用左. (exactly 唔係呢個數, 我只係將呢個concept 盡量簡單化)

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-28 21:34

your perception of time is: how long does it take me to do what
playingtoy 發表於 2010-6-28 21:23

or "how many years i have lived" the thing is: if you can live. or experience. through the infinity of time (not suggesting anybody to do drugs) (time and space and light all crushed together into a really short period of time)(that has to do with your speed of thought) it's very similar to somebody having a dream about the experience of days. weeks. or months. and when he/she wakes up. it was probably about 10 minutes.

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-28 21:41

mcjohnjohn 發表於 2010-6-28 21:33

原來你同我一樣

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-6-28 21:53

回復 26# playingtoy
大家都係神既兒女, 當然一樣啦!
不過係神經果個神...

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-28 22:27

原來你同我一樣
playingtoy 發表於 2010-6-28 21:41

but I am spending 40% of time on Task A 30% on Task B 20% on Task C and remaining 10% of time re-doing Task A B & C

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2010-6-28 22:51

I want to know CP 身世 wor...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2010-6-28 21:16

No special 身世 from me wor ..

Normal guy, living in a stupid city .. married, with a 14 month old baby ...

normal then normal la...

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-6-28 23:09

回復 29# Catpiano
平凡是福~

作者: chunsh 時間: 2010-6-29 09:05

根據狹義相對論, 當物體運動時, 內部所有一切既物理化學變化反應都會變慢, 即係時間膨脹.
所以, 當你越行 ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2010-6-28 21:33

wow~~~
I didnt read from the beginning, and I found that the topic is 獨男宅女的故事 turns into 狹義相對論........................

interesting

keep going, seriously I like this kind of discussion

作者: samsung 時間: 2010-6-29 09:44

身世? who cares?

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2010-6-29 13:25

回復 Catpiano
平凡是福~
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2010-6-28 23:09

Ha ha .. MJJ, very "Arm ting" ^_^

However, so many people, not happy with 平凡 or not accept 平凡 ... and make up so many not 平凡 story from the "internet world" ....

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-6-29 17:34

Ha ha .. MJJ, very "Arm ting" ^_^

However, so many people, not happy with 平凡 or not accept 平凡 ...
Catpiano 發表於 2010-6-29 13:25

我唔知點先為之平凡。呢兩個字似簡單﹐但係又有無限演譯。

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-6-29 17:46

回復 31# chunsh
我都係想令大C姐既thread 既人氣高d, 但係我又o係呢個咁有趣, 咁有talking point 既topic 上面冇乜意見, 所以就廢up 一餐... 阻住大家真係唔係咁好意思.

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-6-29 17:47

回復 33# Catpiano
CP, 你既意思係唔係:
你係平凡人 => not happy with 平凡 or not accept 平凡 => make up so many not 平凡 story from the "internet world" => 扮女人o係LYK 出post?

講下笑乍, 唔好插我唔該.

作者: martintin 時間: 2010-6-29 17:53

回復 36# mcjohnjohn

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-6-29 18:07

回復 mcjohnjohn
martintin 發表於 2010-6-30 09:53

你真係咁狠心插落黎架...

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-29 19:38

keep going, seriously I like this kind of discussion
chunsh 發表於 2010-6-29 09:05

http://forums.philosophyforums.com/
when you couldn't sleep, go there ... you will feel sleepy real soon

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2010-6-29 20:23

回復 Catpiano
CP, 你既意思係唔係:
你係平凡人 => not happy with 平凡 or not accept 平凡 => make up ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2010-6-29 17:47

Bingo!

He he ..  big C sister is female or not ..  or Tiffant is a man or not ..

Driving Porsche or Ferrari ..  no big deal in internet world or LYK .. we come here to kill kill time ja ma ..

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-29 20:47

when you couldn't sleep, go there ... you will feel sleepy real soon
playingtoy 發表於 2010-6-29 19:38

but if you ended up crazy in a mental hospital like myself
i am not responsible for that

作者: samsung 時間: 2010-6-29 20:49

but if you ended up crazy in a mental hospital like myself
i am not responsible for that
playingtoy 發表於 2010-6-29 20:47

huh? I think he is already in the hospital

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-29 21:08

huh? I think he is already in the hospital
samsung 發表於 2010-6-29 20:49

is he ? i don't know chunsh very well

作者: chunsh 時間: 2010-6-29 21:10

回復 chunsh
我都係想令大C姐既thread 既人氣高d, 但係我又o係呢個咁有趣, 咁有talking point 既topic 上 ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2010-6-29 17:46

no no no
keep going, we aren't writing English/Chinese literature exam that HAS to stay with the topic

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-6-29 21:39

no no no
keep going, we aren't writing English/Chinese literature exam that HAS to stay with the ...
chunsh 發表於 2010-6-30 13:10

keep 住離題對於專注力不足既MJJ 黎講簡直就係易過食生菜!

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-6-29 23:14

首先﹐大家唔好再研究我係男係女﹐呢個topic好悶。對某幾為LYK嚟講﹐我有幾個身份﹐唔同account﹐多個性格分裂添。

但係MJJ我想講我D話題唔洗你去谷人氣﹐一向click rate好高。

--火鑽級會員索盡LYK大C姐

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2010-6-29 23:39

點都好, 有自信係一件好事黎既, 乜都可以輸, 信心係唔可以輸既!
咁就由得呢條thread 石沉大海law...

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-30 00:09

coffee ?

作者: Davidcopperfeel 時間: 2010-6-30 06:36

sounds like you're one of the中女.
Age 35-40ish
10幾年前=13-19 years ago
how old were you back then

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-6-30 07:57

點都好, 有自信係一件好事黎既, 乜都可以輸, 信心係唔可以輸既!
咁就由得呢條thread 石沉大海law... ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2010-6-29 23:39

點解要咁介意石沉大海呢? 呢D話題講完就算架啦﹗

作者: samsung 時間: 2010-6-30 08:48

點解要咁介意石沉大海呢? 呢D話題講完就算架啦﹗
大C姐發表於 2010-6-30 07:57

I agreed... even the thread "PM-ed by LYK member" got tons of clicks (well, to me it's totally crap), so shouldn't be bothered by how many clicks or how many replies, any good threads would sinked anyway, no matter who opened it or how good the thread is.

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-6-30 19:06

sounds like you're one of the中女.
Age 35-40ish
10幾年前=13-19 years ago
how old were you back the ...
Davidcopperfeel 發表於 2010-6-30 06:36

唔好咁執著啦。我講過好多次"大C姐"係一個態度﹐一個精神。其實唔係好洗理我係咪中女。縱使係一個中女﹐大C姐個態度都係有別於一般人﹐有自己個性同角度。

-- 神韻之美超凡脫俗觀眾感動至深嘅大C姐

作者: Davidcopperfeel 時間: 2010-6-30 20:09

唔好咁執著啦。我講過好多次"大C姐"係一個態度﹐一個精神。其實唔係好洗理我係咪中女。縱使係一個中 ...
大C姐發表於 2010-6-30 19:06

..................................................
hope you're still at your 30s i can't imagine someone at 40+ would reply this... please lie

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-30 22:37

she knows who 梁碧玲 is
梁碧玲 is about the same age as Johnnie To
Johnnie To was born in 1955

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-30 22:38

sorry ... did i blow your cover ?

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-30 22:41

回復 55# playingtoy

she is giving us something
most of us do not have
that is for sure

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-30 22:43

回復 playingtoy

she is giving us something
most of us do not have
that is for sure
playingtoy 發表於 2010-6-30 22:41

although honestly i can't be sure whether it really is a HE or SHE ...

作者: samsung 時間: 2010-6-30 23:32

although honestly i can't be sure whether it really is a HE or SHE ...
playingtoy 發表於 2010-6-30 22:43

uncle?

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2010-6-30 23:42

uncle?
samsung 發表於 2010-6-30 23:32

does that term relate to inappropriate sexual relationship ? you gonna have to teach me the pop culture ...

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-7-1 09:39

she knows who 梁碧玲 is
梁碧玲 is about the same age as Johnnie To
Johnnie To was born in 1955 ...
playingtoy 發表於 2010-6-30 22:37

你無頭無尾﹐"she"係指邊個呀? 唔係我嘛....

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2010-7-1 09:51

I agreed... even the thread &quotM-ed by LYK member" got tons of clicks (well, to me it's totall ...
samsung 發表於 2010-6-30 08:48

你題翻我一個好好講嘅話題。

其實獨/毒男﹐女﹐好大程度上係因為現今網上文化。假使大C姐係一個獨女﹐我聲大大網上鬧人亂講嘢也好﹐真係有嘢講都好﹐所有反對意見可以唔理。我大可以開過個account又或者唔再上果個forum。但係現實生活唔得呀嘛﹗你做錯嘢講錯說話﹐又或者有對頭人出現﹐你都要面對﹐無得避﹗

好多呢個世代嘅人唔想打工唔想面對真實社會其實係受唔起打擊﹐唔可以被challenged。

-- 心細如塵胸襟廣闊C小姐

作者: samsung 時間: 2010-7-1 11:30

你題翻我一個好好講嘅話題。

其實獨/毒男﹐女﹐好大程度上係因為現今網上文化。假使大C姐係一個獨 ...
大C姐發表於 2010-7-1 09:51

yeah... pity on you... sosad...

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