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作者: mollinbaggio 時間: 2011-3-8 23:47 標題: 阿叔亂叫人阿叔.

今日係麗晶廣場Food Court食完飯林住走,隔離台個阿叔開口講:阿叔,你份報紙唔要呀?我話:我唔係阿叔,你咁無禮貌你自己去買啦! 我邊忽似阿叔? 你要問人羅報紙都好聲好氣d!我睇落都係得25 26.我係唔係奉止要比你?
你地有無試過亂比人叫老晒?

作者: biggie 時間: 2011-3-8 23:57

我睇落都係得25 26
are you sure you really look that young?

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2011-3-8 23:58

本帖最後由 somewhereintime 於 2011-3-8 23:59 編輯

回復 1# mollinbaggio

I don't mind if they offer me Senior Discount at the restaurants or shops.

Quite often they charge me for Senior coffee

After all, I'm only 28+29

作者: tiffiant 時間: 2011-3-9 07:16

its just your look, your fate

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2011-3-9 08:22

Just like many C9, they are C9, but won't accept that they are C9 ..

Put it this way, no matter what age, and how old .. when you go street market in HK .. they call everyone: "Handsome boy, Pretty girl " .. but are they? NO ..

Some of my friends .. they will be so excited when people call them "pretty girl" .. but they dont know that is just they way they call ...

Well, I am over 30 .. can't stop people calling me 阿叔 la...

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2011-3-9 08:33

回復 5# Catpiano

Too young to be call 阿叔 when you are only 30

作者: sheep 時間: 2011-3-9 08:56

今日係麗晶廣場Food Court食完飯林住走,隔離台個阿叔開口講:阿叔,你份報紙唔要呀?我話:我唔係阿叔,你咁無禮 ...
mollinbaggio 發表於 2011-3-8 23:47

Food Court 阿叔?

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2011-3-9 09:25

回復 Catpiano

Too young to be call 阿叔 when you are only 30
somewhereintime 發表於 2011-3-9 08:33

My brother has became 叔叔 since 19 la..

Once married--> C9

27/28 not married, people call them "mid women" ..

I think 30 and up .. call 阿叔 is ok ..

I know "uncle" sounds better then 阿叔 .. but .. same thing la..

作者: 聖德納撒 時間: 2011-3-9 10:35

弟兄﹐我幫你做一個分析。

首先從心理學既方向﹐中立地去了解﹐果位人兄既目的係要你份報紙﹐而唔係去利用份報紙而去踩低你既外表﹔咁樣做對佢係明顯無好處既。

你對佢既指控係你認為對方無禮貌。好﹐我地又嘗試下細心去分析下佢呢句說話。"阿叔
,你份報紙唔要呀?" 最無禮貌既說話應該係大聲喝問你﹐"唔要﹖"

但佢加個助語詞令雙方距離更近﹐唔要呀?

又加個名詞令到佢既目的更加清晰﹐報紙唔要呀?

又加個代名詞令到令到你﹐明白佢知道﹐你先係報紙既主人﹐你份報紙唔要呀?

到最後﹐佢既童年成長可能有人教過佢同人溝通要先叫人﹐所以佢先打量閣下既外表與行為而比你一個稱號﹐阿叔,你份報紙唔要呀?

總括離講﹐你對佢(無禮貌)既指控並唔存在。

其實﹐陌生人對閣下既一個稱呼係無價值既﹐不如一笑置之。一個人只要有自信﹐其他小人對你既褒貶係無影響既

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2011-3-9 10:39

Yeah .... just 一個稱號 ..

Unless you are a man, and someone call you "madam" .. otherwise, no hurt feeling la..

^_^

作者: ricrick 時間: 2011-3-9 11:16

年輕化的代名詞有：
Dee Dee, 你份報紙唔要呀?
細路, 你份報紙唔要呀?
小朋友, 你份報紙唔要呀?
契弟, 你份報紙唔要呀?

你想要邊個？

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2011-3-9 11:18

Or make it simple ..

doesn't matter what age ..

Just call people C hing or C fu .. or go wrong ... or C jai ... for women ...

(Not big C sister)

作者: matt72178 時間: 2011-3-9 12:51

呢d 咪做人唔得圓滑囉，40-80 都叫靚姐。3x要叫姐姐仔。

作者: 匿名 時間: 2011-3-9 15:29

有人叫我亞叔我一定會笑到跌左落地

作者: FiChai 時間: 2011-3-9 15:36

回復 mollinbaggio

....Quite often they charge me for Senior coffee
After all, I'm only 28+29

somewhereintime 發表於 2011-3-8 23:58

Shxt! I thought you're at about my age of 25, sorry to know that we have 1 generation gap!

LOL

作者: 匿名 時間: 2011-3-9 15:37

3 年就一個 GENERATION GAP 啦﹐有乜奇﹖

作者: FiChai 時間: 2011-3-9 15:42

弟兄﹐我幫你做一個分析。

首先從心理學既方向﹐中立地去了解﹐果位人兄既目的係要你份報紙﹐而唔係去利用 ...
聖德納撒發表於 2011-3-9 10:35

Obviously, to judge whether the statement is polite or not is not based on the tone or wordings, it's simply based on the "title". The guy should have asked: "靚仔! 你份報紙唔要呀?"

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2011-3-9 15:42

回復 15# FiChai

That's the reason many LYK call me uncle some

作者: B仔 時間: 2011-3-9 16:53

HABIT哥哥最識TUM姐姐仔。
嗰次我拿I3比佢，佢話我似未讀完書就比人搞大咗個肚生BB。（咁啱嗰期我剪咗嗰靚妹齊蔭頭LOL）

作者: FiChai 時間: 2011-3-9 17:15

HABIT哥哥最識TUM姐姐仔。
嗰次我拿I3比佢，佢話我似未讀完書就比人搞大咗個肚生BB。（咁啱嗰期我剪咗嗰靚 ...
B仔發表於 2011-3-9 16:53

Oops... implied that your hubby 衰十一!

作者: B仔 時間: 2011-3-9 17:29

Oops... implied that your hubby 衰十一!
FiChai 發表於 2011-3-9 17:15

冇人知佢衰咗，因為佢比D客戶問佢讀完書未～LOL

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2011-3-9 18:50

呢d 咪做人唔得圓滑囉，40-80 都叫靚姐。3x要叫姐姐仔。
matt72178 發表於 2011-3-10 04:51

40-80 要叫靚女, 3x 要叫妹妹仔啊!

作者: FiChai 時間: 2011-3-9 19:38

40-80 要叫靚女, 3x 要叫妹妹仔啊!
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2011-3-9 18:50

So 十八、廿二嗰啲叫 baby! LOL

作者: matt72178 時間: 2011-3-9 19:58

40-80 要叫靚女, 3x 要叫妹妹仔啊!
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2011-3-9 18:50

大佬John,
恕細佬道行未夠

作者: Purpleheart 時間: 2011-3-9 20:50

相同感受~ 幾個月前我行超市, 有個BB女週圍走唔小心踩到我, 佢阿媽見到即刻講:

" 你踩到姨姨喇, 快D同姨姨講 sorry 啦 "

哇~ 師奶~ 我得罪你o的乜野~ 我三十歲都未夠就叫我姨姨~~ 叫姐姐得唔得~ 冇計啦~ 都係因為拖住隻羊, 加上右手無名指隻戒指太閃, 閃親個師奶~~~

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2011-3-9 21:02

回復 25# Purpleheart

Lucky Sheep

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2011-3-9 21:19

So 十八、廿二嗰啲叫 baby! LOL
FiChai 發表於 2011-3-10 11:38

冇錯! 見到d 18-22, 一定要記住叫"come on, baby!"

作者: sheep 時間: 2011-3-10 08:56

回復 26# somewhereintime

唔好玩我喇

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