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作者: utopia 時間: 2008-3-18 10:19 標題: Twin: I just read your blog

Twin,

I read your blog. you are so cute and make me smile and I read your entire blog. I wish I could have hold you tight and let you cry all you want.

Ai..., man will never understand little things like these ~~
It happens to me all the time that caveman have no idea why I get so upset for things he thinks it's not matter.

I think it's not just the hair part upset you but the feeling being sick for so long and still have to cook for more plus burning the hair is just a combination of depression.

Your hubby just won't understand, ask him to imagine if his hair got shave off in an ugly pattern..then perhaps, he will understand.

Awww, I can imagine the picture, heehheheeh, it just make you so adorable

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-18 10:33

OMFG

i just woke up.... (i'm home all week as you know)....go on LYK
and the FIRST topic i see is this!!! LMAO

Thanks Twin... I'm so glad you're here! Although i don't get to see you often, it's so happy to chat with you!

you know, before, my blog didn't show all my previous entries ga. but one of my friends wanted to read it, so i edited the option to show all the posts lor.

no worries...me no puffy eyes lu. but that night, i cried & cried & cried until my eyes are red & puffy, & my nose was red.

sometimes guys will never understand. even last night, when i got over it, my hubby was talking to me about the incident....he still thinks it's no big deal. but all my girl friends who read the blog said if it was them, they would be freaked out!

men will always be men.

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-18 10:37

Time to go read some blog after lunch :p

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-18 10:45

OMG!! whatz the matter with u? It is not even a big deal LOL
totally agree with ur hubby.

/shrug

作者: myversa 時間: 2008-3-18 10:50

Where is the blog? I am bored in the office...

作者: Hyde 時間: 2008-3-18 10:52

go post on ur facebook

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-18 11:11

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-3-18 10:45 AM 發表
OMG!! whatz the matter with u? It is not even a big deal LOL
totally agree with ur hubby.

/shrug

死男人！！！！！！

i didn't know you know where my blog is bor~~

作者: sko 時間: 2008-3-18 11:20

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-18 11:11 發表

死男人！！！！！！

i didn't know you know where my blog is bor~~

stalker LC

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-18 11:21

原帖由 sko 於 2008-3-18 11:20 AM 發表

stalker LC

sko ar
mun die me la!!!! why are all men like this?!?!!?
ARGGGHHHHHHHHHh
me gonna go crazy!!!

作者: utopia 時間: 2008-3-18 11:24

They just won't understand , give it up la~~~

It must be super bored to stuck at home whole week
Too bad I submit my notice too late or else I will be off whole week now la ~~~~~~~~~ damnit

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-18 11:26

today, my friend will take me hair cut to make me feel better

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-18 11:28

原帖由 sko 於 2008-3-18 11:20 發表

stalker LC

lol, you never post, and you suddenly pop outta nowhere just to dis me! DIE!!!

btw, Alcol, I hope you hubby reads this (or I should just post it on your wall)
"The back is not burnt yet. Should make a good use of the lighter when Alcol goes to sleep"
Muhahahah~~

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-18 11:30

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-18 11:26 發表
today, my friend will take me hair cut to make me feel better

Oh!!! a little burn after the hair cut will be perfect too. whaahah

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-18 11:34

蝦女人丫！！！！

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-18 11:42

No.... just funny that you girls make little things such a big deal. haha... don't you think it would be funny if I start crying for forgeting to shave?

Note: Do not make fun on comic books, virtue items in game, carton collection. You girls won't understand it.

作者: myversa 時間: 2008-3-18 11:45

I do not know what happen here but I will not toy or joke around my wife's hair. She treasured her hair.

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-18 11:48

Oh!! that reminds me sth.

I tried to cut my honey's hair with my teeth one day (you know, just take a bit and start biting), and she beat the crap outta me... ROFL~

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-18 11:49

原帖由 myversa 於 2008-3-18 11:45 AM 發表
I do not know what happen here but I will not toy or joke around my wife's hair. She treasured her hair.

FINALLYa 好男人，好老公

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-18 11:50

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-3-18 11:48 AM 發表
Oh!! that reminds me sth.

I tried to cut my honey's hair with my teeth one day (you know, just take a bit and start biting), and she beat the crap outta me... ROFL~

正衰佬！！！！！

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-18 11:53

Need to do sth new to keep life interesting...

作者: myversa 時間: 2008-3-18 11:56

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-3-18 11:53 發表

Need to do sth new to keep life interesting...

You do not have to toy with her hair to make your life interesting.....

作者: sko 時間: 2008-3-18 12:00

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-3-18 11:28 發表

lol, you never post, and you suddenly pop outta nowhere just to dis me! DIE!!!

btw, Alcol, I hope you hubby reads this (or I should just post it on your wall)
"The back is not burnt yet. Should m ...

ino eh, too tempting! lol~

sighhh, i miss my long, straight, healthy hair

why did i mo la la perm it?

作者: sko 時間: 2008-3-18 12:02

alc, did you have to cut a lot cus of the burnt?

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-18 12:04

原帖由 myversa 於 2008-3-18 11:56 發表

You do not have to toy with her hair to make your life interesting.....

But she was mad, also found it funny too.

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-18 12:05

原帖由 sko 於 2008-3-18 12:00 發表

ino eh, too tempting! lol~

sighhh, i miss my long, straight, healthy hair why did i mo la la perm it?

Yes... staight-hair sko >>>>> perm-hair sko
Beauty and the Beast (oh crap... should shut up and hide now...)

lunch, later~

作者: sko 時間: 2008-3-18 12:08

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-3-18 12:05 發表

Yes... staight-hair sko >>>>> perm-hair sko
Beauty and the Beast (oh crap... should shut up and hide now...)

lunch, later~

actually, more people (including ht) said that they like my permed hair more. lol~

but i really miss my straight hair. @_@

and BEAST??

plus one more

for eating your wife's hair.

作者: kaimui22 時間: 2008-3-18 12:12

ha..i wanna read the blog..what happened exactly?

作者: utopia 時間: 2008-3-18 13:58

hehehe, my cute twin burned her hair while cooking at home

作者: Serenade 時間: 2008-3-18 14:45

Sko looks better with the permed hair really, makes her look more mature, but then again, you can always curl it with iron if you have striaght hair, more flexible... My GF always style her hair, and she looks great

Geez SAZABI, to us, to guys like you who probably have skin head probably doesn't really care about your hair, cause you probably don't have any. Even if you do have hair, you can still revert to skinning your head and nobody will laugh at you cause you are a guy!

But it's an absolutely different case for girls, hair is almost like their second life! It's their soul and source of attraction. A girl with long and sexy hair always gives them + points. Especially for ladies like Alc, having good hair = basic need.

Boys... If you can't understand girls with their hair... then you can pretty much forget about getting a pretty GF, it's gonna be damn hard for you to understand their logic.

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-18 14:55

原帖由 Serenade 於 2008-3-18 14:45 發表
Sko looks better with the permed hair really, makes her look more mature, but then again, you can always curl it with iron if you have striaght hair, more flexible... My GF always style her hair, and ...

1. burning a LITTLE BIT of hair =/= skin head. Why you assume people have no hair or skin head right away? Just because you shave you balls or love being gay doesn't mean other people would do so. (yes, if you want to start some flame war, I am up for it anytime.)

2. crap. So u are saying that me and alcol's hubby doesn't deserve a pretty wife? Ok, I will listen to you and try to get a divorce. I will contact alcol's hubby to see if we can get some sort of package deal from a divorce lawyer. wahahahha

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-18 20:20

that night, while crying for an hour, i had to trim off the burnt ends lor. aiiiiii

Kaimui et al,

i'll post up the entry here lah with some edit: (entry March 17)
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man.... last nite, cooked pasta 4 dindin. as usual, i cooked xtra so hubby could hv lunch da nx day. hubby ate all da pasta, so der was only sauce left, but no pasta. afta tv & shower, i put turned on da left outter range 2 put a pot of water 2 boil 2 cook more pasta. i lined my entired stove top/back wall wif tin foil, so wen i do my heavy kitchen cleanin, i can just rip off da tin foil, easier to clean, & less grease 2 scrub. as da pot of water was waiting 2 come 2 full boil, i noticed dat a corner of da tin foil wasn't stickin onto da back wall. so i reached over 2 press it down. yet da pot isn't boiling yet...bored & doopy frm being sick, i decided to just stand der 2 wait 4 it 2 boil, & look @ my split ends on my hair....

then

I SCREAMED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

(ME START TO BURST IN2 TEARS)

I BURNED MY OWN HAIR OVER MY OWN STOVE

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i didnt kno my hair was 2 long & it swept over my flaming gas range wif da pot on it as i reached over 2 fix da tin foil!!!

u do NOT understand how upset & pain i went thru. clutchin 2 my poor poor strand of hair, sm of da ends turned in2 a light brown color, curled & was so ****in CRISPY dat wen i touched it, da ends fell off.....................

i just wanna cry!!!!!!! (& i did. i wailed like a baby).

hubby came running 2 c wut i was crying abt. & i swear. stupid MEN. they will NEVER understand!!!!! not only was he not sympathic. he gave me stupid not-a-matter-of-factly-attitude!!!!!!

hubby: comon~ it's nth. it's only a lil bit

Me: wuuuu.....WUUUUUU.....WAAAAHHHH!!!

hubby: since u dunt hv work 2mrw, just go 2 hair dresser. it's abt time 4 u 2 trim anyways

Me: it's not abt trimming hair. it's abt BURNING UR OWN HAIR. SO CHAMMMMMMM ARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

hubby: dunt b a baby like ur lil cousin & cry over getting short hair

Me: (WAILING)I'M A GIRL!!!! U DUNT UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOT ONLY UR NOT TUM-ING ME, BUT UR BEING SO MEAN. U DUNT UNDERSTAND CUS UR NOT A GIRL....WUUUUU...WUUUUU....WAAAAAA....WUUUU

so i stood der 4 like 1/2 hr crying wailing bawling as i took my kitchen sissors & started 2 try & trim off all da burned ends hair by hair. finally, hubby came back wif betta attitude.

hubby: just stop crying, it's getting annoying. come inside 2 sleep...i sek fan u la

Me: ......wuuu...wuuu....wuuuu.....k......

so we walked in2 our room, i walk in2 our bathroom 2 brush teeth 2 get ready 4 bed. i decided 2 check on my rite side of my strand of long hair.....

Me: WAAAAAAAAA WWUUUUUUUUUUUWUUUUUU >___<" DA OTHER SIDE ****IN BURNED 2!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

so i spent another 30 mins or so crying..... i couldn't sleep @ all. i was so sad. u do not understand. it was already like close 2 midnite...i didn't wanna call ppl dat would kno how 2 comfort me cus it was so late already. hubby will NEVER EVER understand... so i just wrapped myself in my blankie, & took my KeiKei snowman doll 2 pui me outside 2 sit on da couch 2 cry sm more. *sigh*. even by 2day...ya, it's a funny story. but im still upset. gud thing only a LIL bit burned. but still, a LIL is TOO MUCH!!!!!!! aiii.

@least my hair still looks ok.... aiiii... i still wanna cry thinkin abt it.
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作者: Intelstan 時間: 2008-3-18 21:46

I don't understand, the sadness is from needing to cut your hair to make it short or of embarrassment due to burning your own hair?

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-19 03:44

原帖由 Intelstan 於 2008-3-18 09:46 PM 發表
I don't understand, the sadness is from needing to cut your hair to make it short or of embarrassment due to burning your own hair?

obviously guys will not understand...because you're a guy too

but at least, you pointed out the 2 different points of view, guy perspective VS girl perspective....

the issue is:
GIRL, BURNING YOUR OWN HAIR

作者: big_tooth 時間: 2008-3-19 06:55

Problem is your husband doesn't understand you, not men don't understand women.

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-19 08:12

原帖由 big_tooth 於 2008-3-19 06:55 發表
Problem is your husband doesn't understand you, not men don't understand women.

So, you do understand? Congratz then.

作者: big_tooth 時間: 2008-3-19 08:22

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-3-19 08:12 發表

So, you do understand? Congratz then.

Sazabi, I don't have to understand Alc.

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-19 08:25

原帖由 big_tooth 於 2008-3-19 08:22 發表

Sazabi, I don't have to understand Alc.

No, I mean if you understand why it is such a big deal, b/c I don't obviously

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-19 09:17

原帖由 big_tooth 於 2008-3-19 06:55 AM 發表
Problem is your husband doesn't understand you, not men don't understand women.

噢~ 原來你做過問卷調查我唔知
真搞笑。

知道既男性朋友個個都話唔係大問題,係咪遲早都要剪頭髮
知道既女性朋友個個都話如果係佢，一定好似我咁喊。我有朋友similar case, but her hair got caught inside blow dryer. she was crying...she thought her fiance would carefully cut off the tangled strands...but NO. he frigging YANKED out her strands of hair extensions. at the end, he put down the pulled out extensions & only said to her: "還給妳".

The problem is you try to apply your 道理 to everything. 太自我中心.

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-19 09:21

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-19 09:17 發表

我有朋友similar case, but her hair got caught inside blow dryer. she was crying...she thought her fiance would carefully cut off the tangled strands...but NO. he frigging YANKED out her strands of hair extensions. at the end, he put down the pulled out extensions & only said to her: "還給妳".

I can understand this one... that is very rude...

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-19 09:30

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-3-19 09:21 AM 發表

I can understand this one... that is very rude...

not just rude.
ok, maybe he was just eagered to get his fiancee's hair out asap
but the fact is that guys just don't CARE for girls' hair. as my friend said, why can't he just cut it off quickly? the results are still the same you know.
of course, the part about "here's your hair back" is kinda rude. but it's not like he's mean geh... at the end, he said to my friend the same thing: it's ok, hair will grow back anyhow....and the extensions are not your own hair anyways.

we girls are upset cus even if it was our fault of getting our hair damaged, at least be a little more sympathetic and a little more gentle on girl's hair.

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-19 09:35

So... what happens when you girls grow old and start to lose hair?

Poor Alcol hubby... gonna hear those "blah blah blah" all day...

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-19 09:41

when we grow old
we will learn like the old grannys lor....
電髮，make it volumous, high & puffy

作者: myversa 時間: 2008-3-19 09:58

I can understand girls treasure their hair preciously.

My wife has some kind of hair problem and every night I have to put on some lotion. I always put on gently and comfort her that it will be solved.

If the same thing happened to my wife, she would cry too because it takes her 20 something years to grow those hairs.

作者: big_tooth 時間: 2008-3-19 10:30

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-19 09:17 發表

噢~ 原來你做過問卷調查我唔知
真搞笑。

知道既男性朋友個個都話唔係大問題,係咪遲早都要剪頭髮
知道既女性朋友個個都話如果係佢，一定好似我咁喊。我有朋友similar case, but her hair got caught inside blow drye ...

Look back at your own words. Have you done a survey to show men don't understand? Your male friends don't think it's a big problem doesn't mean they don't understand why you think it is. And secondly, your male friends don't represent the majority of men, let alone ALL men.

How am I being self-centered? Because I have an opinion? That I'm implying that there are many men out there that do understand? What?

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-19 10:48

原帖由 big_tooth 於 2008-3-19 10:30 發表

Look back at your own words. Have you done a survey to show men don't understand? Your male friends don't think it's a big problem doesn't mean they don't understand why you think it is. And secondly, your male friends don't represent the majority of men, let alone ALL men.

How am I being self-centered? Because I have an opinion? That I'm implying that there are many men out there that do understand? What?

I think it is pretty common that women claim men don't understand them. And, I would like to point out that there is a difference between knowing and understanding. e.g. I know girls love shopping, but I don't understand why. I know girls care about hair, but I don't understand why to a degree they need to cry like a baby.

So, based on your opinion, all survey out there must be crap as they can never survey all the samples available, or that you can always question about the sample selected. Well... that's ok, people have choice to believe what they believe. However, I don't think the "All men" quoted from Alcohol is inappropriate, as All men in her circle don't understand. So what do you expect? Expect her to believe that there are still LOTS or MAJORITY of men out there who would understand like some other girls who come from la la land? LOL

I don't know if you are self-centered, but picking minor details or "holes" in some statement to debate like she is trying to publish a thesis to conclude "All men don't understand women" is just simply lame.

作者: big_tooth 時間: 2008-3-19 11:23

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-3-19 10:48 發表

I think it is pretty common that women claim men don't understand them. And, I would like to point out that there is a difference between knowing and understanding. e.g. I know girls love shopping ...

You're putting words in my mouth. I'm not suggesting surveys are useless. It depends on the sample size. If you are to say my friends are this way and therefore people are this way, then I would say that "survey" is crap.

Having said that, I do think it is lame to start all these survey talk.

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-19 11:46

原帖由 big_tooth 於 2008-3-19 11:23 發表

You're putting words in my mouth. I'm not suggesting surveys are useless. It depends on the sample size. If you are to say my friends are this way and therefore people are this way, then I would ...

When your friends or the people you know are this way. It is hard to make yourself to believe the majority of the people are not this way.

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-19 11:56

so funny
so what's YOUR opinion sin? you "understand" or "not understand" sin.
so what's the purpose of you generalization that "husband doesn't understand" VS "men don't understand" when you didn't even make an opinion related to our discussion, 咁叉隻腳埋黎做乜先? 你咪仲lame.

一個女人，唔開心，問下身邊D朋友，講下故仔，真係咁岩所有男既答同一個答案，所有女既有同感。

在線上輕鬆討論下搞笑痛苦經歷，無啦啦又D人以先撩者賤既姿態大搖大擺。你唔需要鑊鑊gam硬apply你既理論落別人身上，要既，麻煩你慢慢apply落你屋企個件。

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-19 12:04

b/c according to the lamer, before you make such conclusion, you must do a survey with every man on this planet (or at least a decenct sample size) to convince him so that he won't pop out some worthless reply

作者: utopia 時間: 2008-3-19 12:12

Perhaps, someone really have a boring life and his/her only fun is try to make an argument with my twin. Since Alc can go on and on and on and on with her endlessly, heheehhe, Hey, not everybody have this strenght to gather a good "debate".

But seriously, I don't see this topic worthed to debate anyways.

I brought up this thread because I find twin's blog entries is very funny and worth to share with everybody here to have a good laugh or smile. Not to launch a debate lor

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-19 12:17

Some people's fun is to look for tiny stuff/mistake to bring it out so that they look like geneius.
But on topic like this? save save la.

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-19 12:46

Twin ar....
i got hair cut ar~~~ la la la la la~~~

it's much thinner now (not that i have thick hair to begin with). but you know what?! I will buy a professional curling iron & styling iron! next time we can play together ar! we still haven't played with our hair yet even though last time we played with makeup! you still need to show me how you do those clips that you bought from hk!!!

you know, sometimes even though my new hair cut looks good, but i still feel 肉赤 to layer off so much

作者: big_tooth 時間: 2008-3-19 13:20

原帖由 utopia 於 2008-3-19 12:12 發表
Perhaps, someone really have a boring life and his/her only fun is try to make an argument with my twin. Since Alc can go on and on and on and on with her endlessly, heheehhe, Hey, not everybody have ...

I wasn't even trying to debate with your twin. Just an opinion that it is her husband not understanding her. Is there something wrong with that?

作者: big_tooth 時間: 2008-3-19 13:22

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-3-19 11:46 發表

When your friends or the people you know are this way. It is hard to make yourself to believe the majority of the people are not this way.

Alright, so maybe my friends do understand and that's why I say what I said. What is the problem?

作者: utopia 時間: 2008-3-19 13:29

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-19 12:46 發表
Twin ar....
i got hair cut ar~~~ la la la la la~~~
it's much thinner now (not that i have thick hair to begin with). but you know what?! I will buy a professional curling iron & styling iron! next ...

Ho la ho la, let me kiss you back la

We should play our hair together la since you are forbidden at home and got lock up. I will pick a day this weekend and drove by to watch that VCD together la ~~~~

My hand is itchy that I keep thinking should I perm my hair again. It been 3 years since my last perm but caveman keep saying I look better with straight hair. Curly hair only make me look old or auntie

作者: big_tooth 時間: 2008-3-19 13:31

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-19 11:56 發表
so funny
so what's YOUR opinion sin? you "understand" or "not understand" sin.
so what's the purpose of you generalization that "husband doesn't understand" VS "men don't understand" when you didn't ...

I did give my opinion.  I don't believe my opinion has to be either "understand" or "not understand" wor.  Are you setting the rules of internet posting?  Now that is lame.

If I must answer one way or the other, then yes, I do understand.  And since there are couple men in the forum understood, I don't see why it is a man problem.

I'm not applying my logic on you lor.  I'm just giving opinion jir.  You can say men don't understand while I can't say your husband don't understand ah?  In fact, you are forcing your "men don't understand" logic onto people wor.

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-19 14:29

原帖由 big_tooth 於 2008-3-19 13:22 發表

Alright, so maybe my friends do understand and that's why I say what I said. What is the problem?

You have proof?

作者: kmo 時間: 2008-3-19 15:00

can anyone tell me what's happening here ????

作者: myversa 時間: 2008-3-19 15:25

原帖由 kmo 於 2008-3-19 15:00 發表
can anyone tell me what's happening here ????

Read top of page 4.

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-19 16:07

原帖由 kmo 於 2008-3-19 03:00 PM 發表
can anyone tell me what's happening here ????

無聊輕鬆搞笑topic內有廢人懶正經，撩潑婦

作者: utopia 時間: 2008-3-19 16:09

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-19 16:07 發表

無聊輕鬆搞笑topic內有廢人懶正經，撩潑婦

Twin,

You better make it clear that who's 潑婦 here... or else we will draw huge attack from someone. But then, oh well, hehehehe, you have whole week time to defend at home.
You should appreciate someone keep you busy at home mah

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-19 16:13

原帖由 big_tooth 於 2008-3-19 01:31 PM 發表

I did give my opinion. I don't believe my opinion has to be either "understand" or "not understand" wor. Are you setting the rules of internet posting? Now that is lame.

If I must answer one way ...

又唔見其他男人(understand or not understand)好似你咁冇幽默感兼咁小氣?
又唔見其他男人(understand or not understand)好似你咁feel offended?
又唔見其他男人(understand or not understand)好似你咁搵野拗一餐?
你覺得offended既話咪唔好搭deh，過主囉。
搭deh後比人stab,唔關我事架bor.

[ 本帖最後由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-19 16:18 編輯 ]

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-19 16:15

原帖由 utopia 於 2008-3-19 04:09 PM 發表

Twin,

You better make it clear that who's 潑婦 here... or else we will draw huge attack from someone. But then, oh well, hehehehe, you have whole week time to defend at home.
You should appreciat ...

i don't mind identifying who is 潑婦

but then i'm afraid to be fair, i need to label the 廢人 too ga bor

i don't have that much time ga jah~ need to relax, recover, & 扮靚~
but since have someone entertain me once every few hours while getting himself frustrated, i don't mind

[ 本帖最後由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-19 16:20 編輯 ]

作者: Intelstan 時間: 2008-3-19 21:24

To be honest, I think some women just like to say "men don't understand" or "men will never understand" just for fun. Those women enjoy the thought of not being understood by the other sex while thinking they are extra special or have some secret.

Clearly, it's not surprising that I don't have a girlfriend.

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-19 22:48

原帖由 Intelstan 於 2008-3-19 09:24 PM 發表
To be honest, I think some women just like to say "men don't understand" or "men will never understand" just for fun. Those women enjoy the thought of not being understood by the other sex while thin ...

not just for the fun of it.
as i said before.... i told my girl friends, they all freaked out
the guys that i know just came up with the exact same reason (hair will grow eventually etc etc)
even my girl friend's men who heard the story, had similar incident also thinks it's no big deal.
so to me, from the people i know, the guys really don't understand ga wor & gives the exact same supporting reason.

and besides, it's not like we girls "want to be special"
guys just don't value their hair as much as us girls.
most guys don't understand why we spend so much time & care on our hair. and they don't understand that girl's hair can affect our appearance/image significantly. which guy will spend $ on treatments, making sure their hair is as healthy as possible, try to match hair style to clothing, wear hair style that our other half thinks we look pretty, color dye it not too just look "cool" but to make your complexion more pretty?

in conclusion guys don't understand why girls 貪靚 in 各方面。

作者: kaimui22 時間: 2008-3-19 23:08

don't you think lately there's a lot of 火藥味 in a lot of posts? people are nitpicking at the SMALLEST details, making lots of assumptions without fact and judging people left and right just by ONE post.

It's ridiculous that no single topic can be just a 灌水 post anymore. A lot of posts in LYK that have voiced an opinion or stated an occasion has turned into an argument or debate of what's considered right and wrong.

can't we just read a post, digest it internally and just leave it as it is? why must we all argue what's right or wrong? And what's with the non-stop judging of people lately?

講錯一個字就會被五馬分屍...

作者: big_tooth 時間: 2008-3-20 02:30

又唔見其他男人(understand or not understand)好似你咁冇幽默感兼咁小氣?
I do have a sense of humor, it's only because you fail to see that I might be poking fun.

又唔見其他男人(understand or not understand)好似你咁feel offended?
I wasn't offended wor, just making comment jir.  You seem to be the one offended by starting to call people self centered and 小氣

又唔見其他男人(understand or not understand)好似你咁搵野拗一餐?
And I don't see other women arguing like you two twin.  So what's your point?

你覺得offended既話咪唔好搭deh，過主囉。
Likewise.  If you don't like people making comments that don't suit you, then don't post on the internet.

[ 本帖最後由 big_tooth 於 2008-3-20 02:34 編輯 ]

作者: big_tooth 時間: 2008-3-20 03:54

Let me clarify my comment:

There are many men out there who are sensitive enough to understand situations like this.  Whether they agree with it or not is a different issue.

It does not matter if other men understand or not, their non-understand do not affect you one bit.  The key is for the husband to be sensible enough to his wife.

Generalizing it as a group behavior will do you no good, however, narrowing it down to an individual level could help correcting the problem (i.e. help your husband to understand it).

Thus the comment: It’s not a problem of men that don’t understand, it’s a problem with the husband not understanding his wife.

I did not feel offended, however some comments made toward me were hitting below the belt.  If I were meant to attack people here, I would’ve made fun of burning the hair instead.

作者: utopia 時間: 2008-3-20 08:08

Some people just won't get it... ai..
This morning, I climb up from my bed....super sleepy.......
then when I arrived at my work place, go to LYK.

There is a "REMINDER" of someone's comment on this post..
I think he/she is very kind to me, and keep me updated on the newest news going on this topic. I thank you. It took me few second to understand what he/she was trying to say referring 廢人.......as I am really sleepy this morning and don't even remember this post right the way.........until I received the kind reminder....

But, dude, please get a life. We don't attack you because you have a different opinion. It is your stubbornness and passion in debate drive people crazy here on LYK, and PLEASE, do not ask me to provide example and survey. I do have a life and I don't want to do a survey here on LYK that ask who are annoyed by you or not.

I mean, I'm not sure how my twin feel. The reason why I bring this up, is I wish you can understand how my twin feel in last post regarding the sparkle card.
This is exact thing you done to her, keep biting her until .......... I dunno, until nobody want to listen to the debate anymore....

[ 本帖最後由 utopia 於 2008-3-20 08:13 編輯 ]

作者: myversa 時間: 2008-3-20 08:16

I totally agree with kaimui22 here. Here is no need to fight.

I agree with Alc that men does not understand women. Even for me who always thought in place of my wife in most situation, there is still times I do not understand her. I do not think there is one single man in the earth can say he unerstand women completely. Unless he maybe placed in woman's shoes and live as her for some period of time.

I understnad why woman wants to look pretty and that's why I always do my best to let my wife look pretty. I do believe some men 貪靚 and more serious than woman too.

作者: big_tooth 時間: 2008-3-20 08:20

I did not mean to debate, but I made 1 comment and I got personal attacked.

So now I clarified my comment lor, and you have to tell me to get a life? What's the point of another personal attack?

If you guys don't want comments that you don't like, don't post it up here. Geez.

作者: utopia 時間: 2008-3-20 08:20

Big_tooth,

Please, if you have any comment, feel free to post it here instead of message me. That's getting irritating.

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-20 08:28

I do have a sense of humor, it's only because you fail to see that I might be poking fun.

Dude, if other people (oh, i will be specific or you gonna have another little thing to bitch at. I mean me, alchol, utopia, or whoever made a comment indicating you are a trouble maker) fail to see you are poking fun, you are lack of sense of humor. This so funny that you are claiming you have it, but other people (see above) just don't see it. 國王的新衣??

I wasn't offended wor, just making comment jir. You seem to be the one offended by starting to call people self centered and 小氣

Nice. 先撩者賤, 仲可以掉轉頭話人先係 self centered. 你既 debate skill 真係同小學生哎交果d差唔多.

And I don't see other women arguing like you two twin. So what's your point?

你既 circle 都好特別. 男人又好 sensible. 女人又唔識 argue.

Likewise. If you don't like people making comments that don't suit you, then don't post on the internet.

下, 唔post, 仲邊有得睇聖人?

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-20 08:29

原帖由 big_tooth 於 2008-3-20 08:20 發表
I did not mean to debate, but I made 1 comment and I got personal attacked.

No one mean to do personal attack either.

作者: big_tooth 時間: 2008-3-20 08:31

原帖由 myversa 於 2008-3-20 08:16 發表
I totally agree with kaimui22 here. Here is no need to fight.

I agree with Alc that men does not understand women. Even for me who always thought in place of my wife in most situation, there is s ...

I think the key is for the husband to attempt to understand.

作者: big_tooth 時間: 2008-3-20 08:44

原帖由 SAZABI 於 2008-3-20 08:29 發表

No one mean to do personal attack either.

Dude, all I'm doing here is defending myself.  Stop attack me then I'll stop defending, it's as simple as that.

If I fail to see your guy's humor then I lack sense of humor, if you fail to see my humor, then it's still me that lack sense of humor?  Your logic works very well.

先撩者賤? You don't understand my original post, fine, I've already clarify.  Still want to attack me?

And please don't put words in my mouth.  I never call Alc self-centered.

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-20 10:19

唔好意思，我地好多LYK C9 (like us Twins) 係現代女性，係識包拗頸架喇... 做淨係識喊唔出聲既黃面婆? no way.

我老公雖然有account但係好少reply. 佢係公司睇完個post得dam笑返到屋企同我講左一句："又得佢啦，條友鑊鑊都係咁"

本小姐岩岩起身，心情好，用D soft D 既語氣解釋比你聽：
- you can have your opinion all you like. fine with everybody here.
- just because other people tell you how they disagree, doesn't mean they're debating/attacking you.
- if people end up attacking/debating with you, it's because you just have this annoying hobby of breaking down every paragraph said by other people, disecting it down to phrases & words, & analyze it bit by piece. even if it's your opinion, it just gets on people's pet peeves when we're just all happily here 吹水he he ha ha 過一天at work/home。if you really think you have a sense of humor, then maybe you should just relax, & just 輕鬆咁吹下水, 凡事唔好點點滴滴都用放大鏡挑剔一餐。

作者: big_tooth 時間: 2008-3-20 11:55

Alc, since you saying it in a soft tone, let me reply in a soft tone

I think telling people that they disagree isn't a problem, but when disagreeing by calling people names (like 廢人) does seem like personal attacks. Understand that you guys didn't "end up" attacking me, you started off attacking.

When it comes to that annoying habbit, I don't think you and I are much different since I felt the same way about your discussion style. I mean, all I said was one sentence and you disected it into this whole thing about survey. Manny people on the internet are the same way. My respond to your survey point was further disected by someone else.

Hey, I'm sorry if you felt offended by my initial comment, it was not meant to be an insult.

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-20 12:21

Dude,
First, I don't mean people here were intended to make personal attacks against you.
Why don't you think about the reason you are in this kind of "debate" a lot? Just that we hate you so it doesn't matter what you post, we start the heat debate with you automatically? duh...
Oh btw, you may want to add a little detail to your logic. "If you don't want other opinion, don't post on internet; if you don't want personal attack, don't act like a _____."

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-20 12:28

你睇一個簡單post, 可以解釋同大部份既人唔同語調係你既事/問題。

你鍾意對號入坐廢物寶座，你喜就得喇。我冇指人bor，你夠僵咪指返我係潑婦囉~

我有我格，有時係可以衰衰格格架喇~
至少，係黎個post個個吋你冇吋我先啦~

比人群毆，你覺得offended/attacked, 好正常姐~

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-20 12:38

If I fail to see your guy's humor then I lack sense of humor, if you fail to see my humor, then it's still me that lack sense of humor? Your logic works very well.

Problem is... not just me not seeing your humor. When a person try to be humor, but the people around him fail to see it... do you know what we call that person? lol

先撩者賤? You don't understand my original post, fine, I've already clarify. Still want to attack me?

Quite a few people mis-understood you then. We will seriously consider to give u an apology.

And please don't put words in my mouth. I never call Alc self-centered

I mis-read that LOL

作者: big_tooth 時間: 2008-3-20 13:03

原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-20 12:28 發表
你睇一個簡單post, 可以解釋同大部份既人唔同語調係你既事/問題。

你鍾意對號入坐廢物寶座，你喜就得喇。我冇指人bor，你夠僵咪指返我係潑婦囉~

我有我格，有時係可以衰衰格格架喇~
至少，係黎個post個個吋你冇吋 ...

You're entitle to be 衰衰格格, and I'll just be a jackass. If you think you and your friends represent everyone than I have nothing else to say.

I'll stop discussing with 潑婦s. No point.

作者: utopia 時間: 2008-3-20 13:24

Sazabi,

welcome to our 潑婦s team

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-20 13:26

That wasn't even a discussion to begin with LOL

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-20 13:29

原帖由 utopia 於 2008-3-20 13:24 發表
Sazabi,

welcome to our 潑婦s team

野~~~ 好鬼衰架~~ 咁話人地架~~
佢一個人既睇法都唔代表全部人架嘛... 你無實實在在既data support, 我告q你架
EEE~~~

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-20 21:39

原帖由 big_tooth 於 2008-3-20 01:03 PM 發表

You're entitle to be 衰衰格格, and I'll just be a jackass. If you think you and your friends represent everyone than I have nothing else to say.

I'll stop discussing with 潑婦s. No point. ...

你鑊鑊都覺得句句generalization statement都要盤問過全世界幾丫十億萬人先可以証明你可以代表所有人make一個generalization，咁先有point, 你喜囉~

Sincerely,
潑婦Alc

潑婦U

潑夫S

<--哈哈哈哈哈哈

作者: SAZABI 時間: 2008-3-20 23:29

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