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作者: 匿名 時間: 2008-3-25 06:44 標題: ur bf's EX

how will you react if all of a sudden, his ex appears on a gathering...
will you try to get to know her?
would being frds with her be a good idea?

guys please leave a msg too.
Share what will you be impressed by... ((when ur current gf & ex are in the same place..))

作者: puZZle 時間: 2008-3-25 07:18

HAHAHA HELL NO
dang that sucked
was at a funeral too
(i'm the bf)

作者: daimo 時間: 2008-3-25 08:28

smile, behave normally, never negative, but never dig deeper than necessary.

just like you dealing with a customer. No more, no less.

作者: myversa 時間: 2008-3-25 08:33

My ex is in HK and we will hardly see each other since we will hardly go to Hong Kong.

However if she does meet my wife, I would introduce them to each other and chat and that's about it. I will not do anything more.

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-25 08:35

what's the big deal?

be natural & big square

i like some of my hubby's xgfs. they're very nice & friendly...we have good laughs.

but there's one i'm not impressed with, cus of what happened before. but even if i ever see her again, i will just do my own thing, & just not socialize....however, i will still keep my basic manners.

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2008-3-25 08:50

More important thing, did your bf know about that beforehand? And how did he react sin?

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2008-3-25 09:37

My wife always ask me to introduce my EX GFs to her ....

And same story .. my EX GFs always ask me to introduce my wife to them ..

Well .. I guess my wife just want to BEAT THEM UP .. LOL .. since they dumb me .. and now my wife take the "orange under basket" ..

And same as my EX gfs .. I am sure they want to know .. who is that dumb ... took the "Orange under basket" .. and relief their bundle ..

作者: raima 時間: 2008-3-25 09:42

原帖由 daimo 於 2008-3-25 08:28 發表
smile, behave normally, never negative, but never dig deeper than necessary.

just like you dealing with a customer. No more, no less.

yea, if you try to do things to impress your bf, or to do something on purpose to show off to the ex, you'll end up making a fool out of yourself. because when you're acting, you're not yourself and everybody will see how uncomfortable you are, and you'll end up being the "odd" or "werid" one in other people's eyes.

作者: hpyung 時間: 2008-3-25 10:13

i would just be myself..
if she comes and talk to me then i will be friendly

作者: utopia 時間: 2008-3-25 10:15

Just be natural and big square lor.
If I'm in the position, I will be very natural and say hi to her or smile.
That's it. If she wants to continues on a conversation, I will briefly response with a smile like she is just another stranger on the road lor.

The more big square and natural you are, the better you look.
Try not to show off or impress your bf in front of them. It will only make you look ugly.

p.s. then at the end the night, alone at home with my boy. I will tease him hahahahahaha

作者: Hyde 時間: 2008-3-25 11:34

one of my ex gf actually b!tch slap the previous ex in public for talking **** about me....

i wish my current gf would do the same to my last last ex...... too bad we are in hk.... that b!tch deserves a slap much more

作者: 匿名 時間: 2008-3-25 11:34

原帖由 Ultraman 於 2008-3-25 08:50 發表
More important thing, did your bf know about that beforehand? And how did he react sin?

he didn't
he was soo surprised as well but then I don't know...
I tried to just behave... & when his frds were teasing him.. I was laughing as well... =/
I don't know.
but it was a long long time ago ex...
& he went to have a chat with his best frd after we left the gathering...
~~!
so... I don't know.

作者: 匿名 時間: 2008-3-25 11:37

原帖由 raima 於 2008-3-25 09:42 發表

yea, if you try to do things to impress your bf, or to do something on purpose to show off to the ex, you'll end up making a fool out of yourself. because when you're acting, you're not yourself and ...

that's true!!!!
ya... I just smile & say hi
& take it as getting to know a new frd.
I just don't know if I did it smooth enough... =/

作者: 匿名 時間: 2008-3-25 11:40

hyde>>> WOW.................
that's some seriuos thing going on with ur EXes.
so was the slapping EX became the b!tching at you EX?

coz like... B slapped A
& now u wish ur current gf will slap another EX or B?

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-3-25 12:17

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2008-3-25 11:40 AM 發表
hyde>>> WOW.................
that's some seriuos thing going on with ur EXes.
so was the slapping EX became the b!tching at you EX?

coz like... B slapped A
& now u wish ur current gf will slap anothe ...

didn't you know that there's some SERIOUS thing going on about Mr. H? i'm surprised that you don't know about him since he's all pimping on LYK wor~

didn't you know that some people are just about bluffing & drama?

作者: Rainy 時間: 2008-3-25 12:29

lols~ 很無理頭的 reply .....

I actually never experiences such thing... but I guess I would just ignore the ex ga..... but isn't that really depends on if you know she's his ex? I mean if you never know that girl is his ex.. then I guess you would just act so normal and treat the whole event as 'meeting another new friend'

作者: Hyde 時間: 2008-3-25 12:56

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2008-3-25 11:40 發表
hyde>>> WOW.................
that's some seriuos thing going on with ur EXes.
so was the slapping EX became the b!tching at you EX?

coz like... B slapped A
& now u wish ur current gf will slap anothe ...

no, the slapping one broke up peacefully

my current one will not slap that ex for sure. just walk in front of her will already make my ex feel and look like **** in comparison. LOL

作者: E-anne 時間: 2008-3-25 13:36

I would say hi and smile. That's about it. If I am in a party and my ex-bf's gf sees me, I would do the same.

Either way, be big square.

作者: 匿名 時間: 2008-3-25 18:07

Just as I posted in other topic.

My gf's bestfriend know my exgf and the girl I liked before...

I will just avoid going out...
If not possible...I will call my work place and urgently call me to work

作者: 匿名 時間: 2008-3-25 21:33

我試過啦﹐
他的 ex 開婚紗店﹐
我故意去她的店試婚紗﹐
想認識她﹐看看她是怎樣的人。
後來﹐發現她遠遠不及我呢 (樣貌高度身材等各方面)﹐
就像勝利者般離開﹐
也沒給她發現我的身份。
想起那時都幾幼稚﹐
可能係基於一種動物性吧﹐
給我再多一個機會我相信我不會了。

作者: Serenade 時間: 2008-3-25 22:47 標題: 回復 17# 的帖子

yeah Hyde!!!
of course your ex is really uncomparable... many of us know who it is... couldn't even believe that you would go for such a girl... frankly, I don't think very many of her "guys" are gonna call her a GF neither...

But then again, any single girl could have beaten that ex of yours with no problem... why is there such a need to boast? have fun showing off!

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2008-3-25 23:13

原帖由 Serenade 於 2008-3-26 14:47 發表
yeah Hyde!!!
of course your ex is really uncomparable... many of us know who it is... couldn't even believe that you would go for such a girl... frankly, I don't think very many of her "guys" are gonn ...

Serenade兄, 每個人既女朋友都唔同, 小弟覺得Hyde兄有權選擇自己所愛既人. 我地呢d 外人又點可以指指點點呢?
就算個女仔係幾咁uncomparable都好, 只要Hyde兄係同佢真心相愛, 小弟一定會衷心祝福佢地架~

作者: angeldevil 時間: 2008-3-26 00:31

hummm......
now I really wanna know about what happened between Hyde& his ex...

I'm really out in the real life lyk social circle...

作者: rs1985 時間: 2008-3-26 16:30

i will prefer my gf act normally
possible be frds wif her
act "DAI FONG", will make my gf that much better when i look at her seriously

作者: Hyde 時間: 2008-3-26 17:28

原帖由 Serenade 於 2008-3-25 22:47 發表
yeah Hyde!!!
of course your ex is really uncomparable... many of us know who it is... couldn't even believe that you would go for such a girl... frankly, I don't think very many of her "guys" are gonn ...

you are right, heard she recently got dump by her doggy bf

poor bitch...

作者: Intelstan 時間: 2008-3-27 09:59

I'd just pretend there is nothing unusual.

作者: 匿名 時間: 2008-3-27 21:10

Mr. H,

她曾經是你的女朋友，也會一點點愛過她吧ｏ你怎可以說出這樣的說話。

[ 本帖最後由匿名於 2008-3-27 21:14 編輯 ]

作者: Intelstan 時間: 2008-3-28 08:51

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2008-3-27 21:10 發表
Mr. H,

她曾經是你的女朋友，也會一點點愛過她吧ｏ你怎可以說出這樣的說話。

Maybe he never loved her. Only wanted her money and/or her body.

作者: Hyde 時間: 2008-3-31 11:54

why would i want her money when i got more then her?

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