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作者: TEO'z 時間: 2012-2-21 03:28 標題: 同台灣人做朋友...唔知大家有冇咁既問題

唔知點解我越黎越覺得自己,唔係好識同台灣人做朋友=.=唔係話佢地唔好,
姐係以前未黎加拿大之前,我都好易同人做FD,好易同人混熟,
因為我係d都幾多野講既人~~
可能始終大家係共同語言,就算第一次識既,一傾開計就好多野傾咁,
唔知點解我黎左加拿大之後,識到既大部份都係台灣人多,
但我覺得同佢地好似...冇計傾咁,
我對住台灣人真係唔多識搞笑=.=...
因為好似大家D笑點都唔同,
真正熟既都係得戈2~3個,
而且唔知點解成日一班人出去唱K呀~
篤波呀~開PARTY呀~都係得我一個講廣東話,
我普通話唔差,
但係佢地講笑戈陣,我就係get唔到個笑點,但係佢地會一齊癲笑....

搞到最近覺得好挫敗好depress咁=.=
好似覺得自己慢慢連同其他人都溝通都有問題咁...

其實有問題戈個係咪我?定係我諗多左??

好懷念戈種一班FD咩都傾得一餐,
咩都笑得一餐,真真正正覺得好開心,覺得有朋友真好既既感覺...

作者: pkphilip 時間: 2012-2-21 06:44

There is definitely a language barrier, unless you all speak English.

Philip

作者: blue20ae 時間: 2012-2-21 08:58

人夾人緣姐

作者: Surreal 時間: 2012-2-21 10:46

我認為大家興趣唔一樣姐
唔關人種 / 語言事

作者: fibbi 時間: 2012-2-21 12:00

language is an issue here...
When I first come here...hang out w/ all CBC...I can't say a word during 3 hours in bubble tea place....By the time I manage to respond they already jump to another topic. Of course I can't blame them just I'm too slow. I so want to leave right away.

Btw...there are still lots of Taiwanese you know? I thought they all go back

作者: FiChai 時間: 2012-2-21 14:18

This is a global matter, not limited to Taiwanese!
An English in a group of Cantonese; a Taiwanese in a group of Japanese; an Italian in a group of Filipino..... . The scenarios are all the same.
It's about culture and language.

作者: rainbow-davie 時間: 2012-2-21 18:18

I have no problem. one of my best friends is TW. and my project partner is from TW. we made a lot of jokes..etc.. and dirty jokes. my ex is also from TW.. so miss him. lol

Well.. One easy way to break the barrier is to talk dirty jokes. Dirty joke is universal and a powerful tool to bring people from different culture together. If go further, talking porn and boobs will even have greater affect.

作者: lo_pak 時間: 2012-2-21 19:28

本帖最後由 lo_pak 於 2012-2-21 19:29 編輯

人同人相處永遠都係一種學問，無話邊一種族人，大部份都攸關性格。

當然，同聲同氣更加好...

作者: 嘉嘉 時間: 2012-2-21 22:55

get唔到笑點無問題架
叫是但一個朋友解話比你知咪下次會識笑囉~

我都有時同成班朋友出去時，試過其中有一個係唔識聽廣東話，有o的朋友都會成日幫手同佢地解話
等o的聽唔明既朋友都可以容易o的開心埋一份

作者: TEO'z 時間: 2012-2-21 23:18

language is an issue here...
When I first come here...hang out w/ all CBC...I can't say a word durin ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-2-21 12:00

對呀!就是這種感覺!!
就好似一班人去食HOT POT,
佢地成班台灣人吹水,我都好似插唔到嘴咁=.=...
搞到我都想即刻走

我識戈D好多都係移民黎呢邊,所以佢地唔會go back to Taiwan=.=

作者: TEO'z 時間: 2012-2-21 23:23

I have no problem. one of my best friends is TW. and my project partner is from TW. we made a lo ...
rainbow-davie 發表於 2012-2-21 18:18

Actually my best friend in Van is Taiwanese,
I have no problem with her too!!we always make fun of each other~~
And she always introduce her other friends to me,
But some how I don't know why I feel hard to start conversation with her friends....=.=

I know most of the Taiwanese are super nice~~!
maybe it's because I always say thing straight without thinking!
so~~I guess it's my problem la!

作者: IcySugar 時間: 2012-2-21 23:24

haha I wanna find some tw frd wor...
I realize ngor ho chi mo mud tw frd... lol

作者: TEO'z 時間: 2012-2-21 23:24

get唔到笑點無問題架
叫是但一個朋友解話比你知咪下次會識笑囉~

我都有時同成班朋友出去時，試過其中有一 ...
嘉嘉發表於 2012-2-21 22:55

因為我覺得如果成日要人解釋比我聽,好似會令人覺得我煩咁....= =

作者: 嘉嘉 時間: 2012-2-22 00:14

本帖最後由嘉嘉於 2012-2-22 00:16 編輯

係朋友既就唔會覺得煩啦

didn't you just say your BEST frd is taiwanese too?
or maybe you can watch more taiwanese drama and learn more about this language from it

作者: TEO'z 時間: 2012-2-22 00:30

回復 14# 嘉嘉

問題黎啦,我以前十幾歲戈陣都會睇台灣劇,
但係依家慢慢已經對普通D偶像劇失去興趣了....=.=

同埋我個人D喜好比較怪~~@@
我比較鍾意睇D懸疑查案科幻同埋講親情既劇~~
無奈台灣好似冇咩呢類型既drama....so.....

作者: peter236 時間: 2012-2-22 00:46

It is a chance to learn the common language.

作者: fibbi 時間: 2012-2-22 01:06

最弊就係佢哋間唔中會夾少少台語。。。

作者: TEO'z 時間: 2012-2-22 01:37

最弊就係佢哋間唔中會夾少少台語。。。
fibbi 發表於 2012-2-22 01:06

係呀!!!= =
一出台語真係聽唔明~....

作者: FiChai 時間: 2012-2-22 14:11

I won't call it's "your problem". As I said, it's about culture and language. Why "force" yourself to get along with another culture and language if you're not really comfortable with and interested in?? Because you have no other friends? You may try to make new friends whom you truly like to.

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2012-2-22 16:14

TW girls are

wor ..

作者: lo_pak 時間: 2012-2-22 16:40

回復 20# Catpiano

女神??

作者: TEO'z 時間: 2012-2-22 17:11

haha I wanna find some tw frd wor...
I realize ngor ho chi mo mud tw frd... lol
IcySugar 發表於 2012-2-21 23:24

我反而想識多D廣東話FD~!因為o係呢邊我冇咩廣東話FD!

作者: ani 時間: 2012-2-22 18:10

i am taiwanese, but i hang out with cantonese ppl.. i don't have feel like i don't fit in.. maybe it's really the language.

where did you learn your mandarin?
maybe it's the terms used that's different between taiwan and other places..
sometimes it's the new slangs/terms..
or do they sometimes speak taiwanese in between the mandarin??

作者: IcySugar 時間: 2012-2-22 20:40

我反而想識多D廣東話FD~!因為o係呢邊我冇咩廣東話FD!
TEO'z 發表於 2012-2-22 17:11

99% of my frd are from HK...
I dunno why... lol...
or mayb ur rite... sometimes... dun fit in...

作者: fibbi 時間: 2012-2-22 20:40

回復 23# ani

I guess my mandarin is not good enough. I can speak but somehow I can't get 100% of what other people says...especially when it comes to name and some terms...

And of course no idea of Taiwanese...it's really difficult!

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2012-2-22 21:25

回復 20# Catpiano

Chi-Ling Lin and 馮媛甄

作者: imvitasoy 時間: 2012-2-27 09:46

在下在北京上海浦過好幾年，工作&大路開會，用煲冬瓜基本上應付自如，
但係，當地同事講笑話時，我完全唔識笑，
等於佢哋睇mandarin配音嘅周星馳電影，佢哋係唔識笑嘅。

作者: et1984 時間: 2012-4-4 20:43

回復 1# TEO'z

TEO'z
Don't worry it's TOTALLY NOT your problem ^_^ lots of people replied and the main issue it's just the laughing point is different

because sometimes even if they translate it back to Cantonese the meaning would be different from why it's funny.
That happens so don't think that you have a problem. You are totally normal ^_^

Also where do you live? I always wanted to know more 台灣人 so I can get my mandarin better but everyone around me all speaks cantonese.

作者: cha_wan_mushi 時間: 2012-4-10 10:16

I thought I was the only one!
you know what....
these three years I met a Taiwanese girl~ She and I get along just fine.. but she's quite absorbed into the Canadian culture.. so we have something in common la.
PLUS we're both in a dragon boat team~ ... we share common team mentality

I used to think that I can't seem to bond well with TW group.....
there's just very little thing to talk about.. and the feel is totally.. mmm. strange and distanced.
At the end of the day, it's the personality, and your common likes and dislikes that make determines your compatability.

errrr.. if u know what i mean :p

作者: smurf 時間: 2012-4-10 12:51

Cultural and language barrier...........

Most Taiwanese cannot speak fluent English, and some
may be considered being insulted if you speak English
but not mandarin in front of them, as they believe
you are Chinese and should speak mandarin.
(Yeah, the same great mandarin Northern China mentality!)

作者: fibbi 時間: 2012-4-10 13:35

回復 30# smurf

Well, most Taiwanese I met speak VERY GOOD English. Just depends on what people you met.

作者: 嘉嘉 時間: 2012-4-10 18:06

Cultural and language barrier...........

Most Taiwanese cannot speak fluent English, and some
may ...
smurf 發表於 2012-4-10 12:51

you sure those are taiwanese........?

I so far has not met a taiwanese person who can't speak english wor
I speak english/cantonese to all my taiwanese frds too

作者: 小叻 時間: 2012-4-10 19:00

I think language is not the barrier la.. just that you and ur tw frds might not be the same type and have the same interest jeh~ I got 2 great buddies (from TW), and i speak to them with my BROKEN mandarin lol and one of them even said "errr.. i cannot bare with ur broken mandarin.. it's driving me nuts"... but we can still bs on the phone for 2+ hours... hahaa..and then when i hang out with them (usually i am the only cantonese in da group) we have no gap at all! I do not feel left out or anything..even I do not watch any Taiwanese drama nor listen to any Taiwanese songs.. no problem at all.. XD coz we have all girls talk!

this can be a non-stop topic XD

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