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作者: falalalala 時間: 2012-4-2 20:45 標題: 上司

Under一個你對佢完全冇好感嘅冇料扮有料同大牌上司，近乎去到憎嘅程度，完全冇意討好佢（最憎討好人），見佢前面憎佢後面，有咩辦法令自己好過D？P.S.我從未憎過一個人

作者: 快樂牛郎 時間: 2012-4-2 21:19

quit your job

作者: falalalala 時間: 2012-4-2 22:21

If quitting is not an option, everyone else is super nice, I don't see why I should quit because of this.

作者: 快樂牛郎 時間: 2012-4-2 22:22

then avoid as much contact as possible

作者: falalalala 時間: 2012-4-2 22:36

Already did, but still make me feel frustrated at times

作者: imvitasoy 時間: 2012-4-2 22:38

同上司唔夾注定無運行
(1) 在香港 ———> 炒佢魷魚。香港好奇怪，左搞搞右搞搞，點都會搵到D 燈油火蠟唔會死人。
(2) 在瘋葉 ———> 睇錢份上good 聲吞，稔下下個月又要交醫療保險, 忍忍忍忍忍忍.....

作者: imvitasoy 時間: 2012-4-2 22:43

本帖最後由 imvitasoy 於 2012-4-2 22:50 編輯

買本星座書返屋企研究下，從另一個角度去認識對方，可能有新發現....
例如：
(1) 冇料扮有料
其實好多人都係，冇料而唔扮，繼續保持無料者，通常唔會成為上司。有料而唔扮，亦係通常唔會成為上司，因為比人踩扁左....
(2) 扮大牌
呢個係personal preference，有人天生中意指指點點，另一方面呢類人又會幾有義氣(可能因為要面唔輸得)

以上全部開下玩笑，唔好咁認真

作者: rainbow-davie 時間: 2012-4-2 22:55

change job

作者: 快樂牛郎 時間: 2012-4-2 23:00

同上司唔夾注定無運行
(1) 在香港 ———> 炒佢魷魚。香港好奇怪，左搞搞右搞搞，點都會搵到D 燈油火蠟唔會 ...
imvitasoy 發表於 2012/4/2 22:38

醫療保險果一百幾十都要忍?

作者: lo_pak 時間: 2012-4-2 23:03

本帖最後由 lo_pak 於 2012-4-2 23:08 編輯

可能你同你上司一樣能力咁普通，又或者你普通過你上司…
我…唔係講笑…
千里馬遇伯樂，伯樂遇千里馬…

作者: imvitasoy 時間: 2012-4-2 23:13

工作很多時只是手板眼見功夫，除非你既工作係研究甚麼太陽黑子DNA 細胞突變之類......否則，一般工作，待人接物人事關系非常重要，team work 丫馬~~~

作者: lo_pak 時間: 2012-4-2 23:19

回復 11# imvitasoy

你又誇左小小…其實你係唔係想講大方向正確?

作者: FiChai 時間: 2012-4-2 23:24

Think:
Why all the rest of your colleagues are nice to you except him?
How is the relationship between your other colleagues and him?
How do your other colleagues think about him?
Why other colleagues can tolerate him except you?
Unless your big boss is stupid, why he is nothing good but he can be positioned to be your supervisor?

作者: imvitasoy 時間: 2012-4-2 23:26

回復 12# lo_pak

其實在下自己都唔知自己想講咩

誇小小，笑一笑，世界更美妙.... 之馬。

作者: 快樂牛郎 時間: 2012-4-2 23:47

其實我唔明點解經常聽到有人話上司冇料
除非真係老細個仔果種
如果唔係冇料又點解做到你上司?
個上司可能唔識做你D基本工夫
但係本身基本工夫就係留俾D下屬做
上司自己既工作就係溝通同埋管理

作者: blue20ae 時間: 2012-4-3 00:12

普通野嗟, 人夾人源. 唔 like 咪轉工羅. No hard feeling. 一日八個鐘係office, 忍得多無益.

作者: chunsh 時間: 2012-4-3 01:12

一日八個鐘係office, 忍得多無益. ...
blue20ae 發表於 2012-4-3 00:12

係呀
真係唔好忍呀
I mean﹐當然係如果搵到份更好既

作者: 嘉嘉 時間: 2012-4-3 18:38

just do your job.......

作者: falalalala 時間: 2012-4-3 19:49

可能你同你上司一樣能力咁普通，又或者你普通過你上司…
我…唔係講笑…
千里馬遇伯樂，伯樂遇千里馬… ...
lo_pak 發表於 2012-4-2 23:03

咁即係點呀？

作者: falalalala 時間: 2012-4-3 19:55

工作很多時只是手板眼見功夫，除非你既工作係研究甚麼太陽黑子DNA 細胞突變之類......否則，一般工作，待人 ...
imvitasoy 發表於 2012-4-2 23:13

其實冇咩事我都唔會見到佢嘅，但係佢做D好少嘅動作已經令人覺得佢大牌

作者: falalalala 時間: 2012-4-3 19:59

Think:
Why all the rest of your colleagues are nice to you except him?
How is the relationship betw ...
FiChai 發表於 2012-4-2 23:24

1. No idea why, maybe I'm just a trainee at this moment?
2&3. I know some of my colleagues don't like my supervisor either, have the same feeling as I do
4. I don't know if they're tolerating him or not, not much of gossip at work

作者: falalalala 時間: 2012-4-3 20:10

其實我唔明點解經常聽到有人話上司冇料
除非真係老細個仔果種
如果唔係冇料又點解做到你上司?
個上司可能唔 ...
快樂牛郎發表於 2012-4-2 23:47

從佢經常問D白癡問題就知佢有料極有限
冇料可以做到上司可以係因為靠人事關係
如果唔係唐英年邊會喺政府做九年就有機會選特首
佢嘅工作依家似係令大家嘅溝通更加困難，因為太大牌

作者: 嘉嘉 時間: 2012-4-3 20:26

no matter what you say

there are only two choices for you
either you live with it or you find another job

but there is no guarantee that you wouldn't have another boss that you hate/or with someone even worse

作者: kimball 時間: 2012-4-3 22:03

回復 21# falalalala

You said you are a trainee so I think you probably just entered the job market. If you work long enough you will find that all the bosses are the same no matter where you go unless he's your uncle. You should instead use this opportunity to train your temper and patience and concentrate on learning stuff from your job rather than wasting time on these silly personel matters. Also try to give more patience to your boss and give him some due respect (although you hate him inside your heart) and show him your skill. You'll be surprised that you will get along much better with him in a short time. If you can handle this boss successfully, it means you have matured and you won't be afraid to face another difficult boss if you leave this company.
Remember job skill you learn will benefit you for the rest of your life. Wasting your time looking down on your boss or any colleague for that matter will only cast a bad image of yourself and you gain nothing from it.

作者: FiChai 時間: 2012-4-3 22:04

不如咁講啦，無論你覺得佢幾冇料、無能、白痴、兼黃馬褂都好，佢就偏偏係你上司，即係響老細心目中有啲嘢係佢有你冇嘅，包括人事關係。所以亦唔駛諗住自己有日要取代佢，或者覺得自己懷才不遇呀咁。你係堅有料嘅就一定會有日出人頭地。依家響呢度做，唔單只凈係做你份內嘅工作就等出糧，其實係一個好好嘅機會俾你學習下同啲你唔鍾意嘅上司呀、同事呀、下屬等相處，到你第日管人時就必定叻過你宜家個上司啦！

作者: blue20ae 時間: 2012-4-4 06:50

從佢經常問D白癡問題就知佢有料極有限
冇料可以做到上司可以係因為靠人事關係
如果唔係唐英年邊會喺政府 ...
falalalala 發表於 2012-4-3 20:10

甘又睇下mud叫白癡問題啦. 幾年前, 我老細叫我帶支team. 我問點解比我做。佢話我每事問,同個瓣1D都唔識。佢要嚟個大改革.

作者: Nam 時間: 2012-4-4 14:03

If it's co-workers, i dun care, as long as I have good relationship with the boss.
If it's the boss that I have issues with, I will just flip to another department or look for another job.

作者: falalalala 時間: 2012-4-5 22:44

Thanks for everyone's comments and opinions. See if I'll feel better if I care less

作者: Nam 時間: 2012-4-6 04:27

以前都好火，經過十年洗禮，終於明白咩叫做天下烏鴉一樣黑，當自己本身做好本份，人哋想插隊你都會有難度，兜份糧者，儲夠經驗同學歷，學盡所有嘅野咪撇囉，如果你係trainee，更加唔可以得罪佢，將來仲要佢份reference。。。。

最近學咗一樣野，就係100％focus 係份工度，無謂focus 係啲negative 嘅野，個人真係開心啲，我早兩個星期先無啦啦被老細屈，無啦啦同我講，公司係7點返工，所以我唔可以on the dot，七點準時到，6:55到，我個個同事第一個反應都話無見過我遲到，亦無見我即刻去飲咖啡，但算啦，唔開心點都有啲，過咗一日就無野，家吓咪當小朋友心態，早過佢返工，霸鬼佢個favourite stall當平恆吓心情，講到尾，都係為份糧，唔開心嚟做咩，當睇猴子戲！

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