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作者: 匿名    時間: 2008-4-5 00:47     標題: well, what else can i do?

i am not hot,
i am not "c-man",
i hate it when they play mind games on me,
i hate it when they take advantage of me.
i don't want them cheating on me,
i don't want any emotional traumas.

so...

if that means don't giving a sh*t about the other person, i'll do it.
if that means participating in those stupid mind games without falling into the trap, i'll do it.
if that means i have to forget about the person after a fu*k at the hotel, i'll do it.

i guess that's the only way for me to cope.... does anyone else feels that way?
after all, being a bitch is always better off then being a nice person, isn't it?

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作者: 山羊座    時間: 2008-4-5 01:31

What else can you do...
The best thing you can do, is to be happy with what you are.
Why you have to alter yourself into someone you don't want to be?
If you are not born to be a bitch, you will just get yourself suffered when you force yourself to become one.

Look at the bright side.  
Things that bother you, let it go.
Treasure the moments of happiness.
Life could be tough but could be easy too depends how you look at it.
作者: utopia    時間: 2008-4-5 08:46

Don't change yourself into a slut or b*tch, if that's not you.

I used to be like you, and wanted to turn myself into one of those girls. I know exactly how to play those game and how to play it well after all these years.... but is it worthed it?

I'm not sure how old you are but life has better things to do rather than stay focus on relationship and love. The best yet to come, that's what I always believe even after all the dramas, betrayals and tears.....

A nice person will be reward one day and the one who hurted you,the karma will come after them. Trust me, I waited 7 years, I thought karma will never go after someone......... then when I almost forget about it...completedly into a new life...then, that someone paid for her price....

What I'm trying to say is, when you expected something, it will most likely not gonna happen. When you focus on yourself (not being selfish), focus on the development on yourself, educationa or career or to make your life better, you gain your confident and your happiness... Then, you will run into the right person or better man.

It's all up to you. I found that if I don't improve myself on knowledage and such, and don't turn myself into a happy person. I will constantly ran into jerks. When you don't care about men anymore, the good one will go to you.

Trust me, it work. Just take a deep breath and stop thinking about the past. It takes time to heal the soul and it will be. There is not scar that cannot be heal, there is no past that cannot be forget. Even the most painful one, time will wash it away. I mean, why wasting time to get upset for some a$$holes when you have better things to do?

[ 本帖最後由 utopia 於 2008-4-5 08:49 編輯 ]
作者: puZZle    時間: 2008-4-5 10:52

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2008-4-5 00:47 發表
after all, being a bitch is always better off then being a nice person, isn't it?


no it isn't
you know it better than anyone else
作者: Littleprince    時間: 2008-4-5 20:33

放開懷抱﹐忘記不開心的事囉。
作者: E-anne    時間: 2008-4-15 09:53

you don't have to turn yourself into be a bitxh if you are not...that is not being true to yourself la. this is what i learn over the years, no matter how nice you are and how bitxhy you are, you are not responsible for other people's action.  i don't know if there is karma and i won't know if the person who betrayed me will have his fair share. i decided to move on with my life and focus on myself (not being selfish here) i focus on my career and studies. jerks are not interested in me because they see that i will give them shxt just as i was not looking for someone, i met the good guy in my life.  good luck to you
作者: snowtree    時間: 2008-5-5 12:00

為咗一啲唔識欣賞自己嘅人, 而要改變自己係好無謂, 就算吸引到人, 自己都唔會開心



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