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作者: fibbi 時間: 2012-10-8 02:27 標題: 隔離飯香

唔知你哋身邊有無咁嘅朋友。好多嘢都係覺得隔離飯香，自己嘅就永遠好似無咁好。係要呻吓先安樂。我明，人哋啲結婚相可能係靚啲，大佬呀，人哋俾多你成十倍＄，如果啲相唔靚就慘啦。不過我覺得啲相都唔係十倍咁靚嗟。
想要童話婚禮，一係就自己好有米，一係就嫁個有＄人，無得恨得咁多嗰喎。
"早知擺西式靚咁多就唔擺中式啦。" 鬼唔知酒店婚禮比起中式酒樓啲decoration靚啲，grand啲咩，但係upfront要俾嘅＄都多成闕。又唔係十八二十，無理由唔知咩係睇餸食飯。咁就唔好恨咁多啦。

我都明，作為朋友，聽佢呻吓係ok，不過聽埋聽埋好多樣嘢都係咁，真係有啲頂唔順。

其實係唔係我嘅容忍度低？

作者: matt72178 時間: 2012-10-8 09:17

修為問題，不能知足常樂。既然不能知足，就要發奮
。"與其羡慕，不如擁有" 呢八個字很有用

作者: ayako 時間: 2012-10-8 17:20

幸福的人特別多苦要訴...
佢另一半辛苦d 囉... 仲要大半世要聽呢d 說話...

作者: Prelude 時間: 2012-10-8 21:37

知足常樂 is the most valuable thing you can have. If you got it, then you will be happier than most of the people whether they are rich or poor.

作者: ricrick 時間: 2012-10-8 22:54

相靚吾靚，絕大因數是主角的樣貌

作者: fibbi 時間: 2012-10-8 23:49

除非好醜或者好靚樣，一般都唔會差好遠啦。化行妝喎。

作者: ricrick 時間: 2012-10-9 00:15

一般就是一般law

作者: fibbi 時間: 2012-10-9 00:36

回復 7# ricrick

過萬嗰批相啲取景特別啲掛。其實我覺得個friend少睇西人啲結婚相嘅style 所以覺得特別。我個人唔覺得值萬幾蚊。

Dream wedding 其實個個都想，都會恨下，正如我都會發下夢想中六四九。但係現實歸現實，做人都係要睇餸食飯。

作者: Surreal 時間: 2012-10-9 00:48

"不過聽埋聽埋好多樣嘢都係咁"

你朋友要搞清楚佢既老公同佢expectation有些微出入啵
我怕佢以後會一直埋怨佢老公...

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2012-10-9 08:15

She has to realize that she already made her decision back then by picking the photographer and her banquet. So she needs to learn (and grow up!!). Thus she has to live with what she had chosen.

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2012-10-9 08:16

Song for her

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作者: chunsh 時間: 2012-10-9 09:56

唔知你哋身邊有無咁嘅朋友。好多嘢都係覺得隔離飯香，自己嘅就永遠好似無咁好。係要呻吓先安樂。我明，人哋 ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-10-8 02:27

how about u? what do u think about your wedding (if u have married already)

作者: pkphilip 時間: 2012-10-9 22:18

I find this very illogical, and simply find trouble for him/herself: I assume most of us here have been to/helped out in weddings, I think we all have expectations of what we are going to get for X amount of money. Obviously, the more funding you have, the more grand the wedding is (regarding if it will look pretty).

If we already know what we want by looking at others, why envy others when we are in control?

Similar to myself, I don't want my wedding to be similar to others, therefore I find something different to do: taking pre-wedding photos in TW, planning a destination wedding, choosing only to involve people in arms-length etc. I have total control. I won't envy others because I know mine is unique and to my friends, it's memorable.

I do envy the other wedding photos shown on the catalog from my photography company. What will I do about it? I will go there and spend more $$ to do it the 2nd time! I know the tricks, and I plan ahead to ensure my fiance and I are ready for this!

Philip

作者: fibbi 時間: 2012-10-9 23:12

其實我聽到佢對結婚相的"不滿"，我自己都有啲唔開心，畢竟攝影師是我介紹的。當時我結婚我真的覺得我的photographer ok喎。相片未必是一流，但態度、價錢都ok，我家人都很滿意。不過可能到今時今日個photographer 做得多，overbook 以至比較耐才有相睇，朋友對此有點不滿。我自己也很無奈。自此我對"介紹"都會小心點。我只能分享當時的情況，至於今時今日的情況是怎樣，麻煩各朋友自己deal with 嗰個business. 但每一次她提到對結婚相、video 的不滿，或者是提到別人的比自己的好上多少倍時，我老是覺得她是在埋怨我似的。也許她沒有這樣的意思，也許是我想多了。

我又唔覺得朋友會哦佢老公，所以咪同啲朋友呻囉。

作者: fibbi 時間: 2012-10-9 23:25

回復 12# chunsh

I feel blessed. 我好滿意我wedding 嘅安排。亦好感謝朋友的幇忙令當天的程序進行得很順利。當然，我嫁嗰個唔係李家誠，無世紀婚禮。不過我會容易滿足啲：沒有hotel的banquet不過都有afternoon cocktail.我已覺得好滿意。

作者: yuusaku 時間: 2012-10-9 23:31

how many married couple have taken out their wedding day photo/video and view more than 20 times for themselves(not for guest) since they got married...

作者: fibbi 時間: 2012-10-9 23:45

回復 16# yuusaku

Video 真係好少睇，相都會間唔中睇下，睇下嗰時有幾瘦⋯

作者: chunsh 時間: 2012-10-10 00:07

回復 chunsh

I feel blessed. 我好滿意我wedding 嘅安排。亦好感謝朋友的幇忙令當天的程序進行得很 ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-10-9 23:25

well, thats good for u. the thing is, even in this modern days, most chinese couples would just married once, and hence would just have one or two wedding parties (western and Chinese traditional)

What does that implie?
that means helding such a mostly-once-in-a-life wedding party would easily go wrong for many couples because they are totally inexperienced. In most occasions, it would just make the newly married couples a little scar in their married lives; in some extreme occasions, some of those couples even break-up before their wedding day.

I am quite surprised that you got married but you dont know how much conflicts between the couples themselves, their families have to be mashed together gracefully so that the couple can have a happy weddings and you sounds like your friends shouldn't complain.

One explanation is, all of yours and your husband's relatives (closed ones, distanced uncles/aunties dont cound) treat both of you so good that they let u guys do whatever u want in your wedding......which is good for u, seriously.

作者: fibbi 時間: 2012-10-10 00:58

回復 18# chunsh

I don't mean my friend should not complain about her wedding vendors. My point is that she whinnied about that her wedding is not as grand/extravagant as her other friends to begin with. To me, that is getting a bit annoyed because, I guess myself will never complain about something that I can't afford. If I were to complain, I should have blamed myself not picking a rich husband instead.

As for the photographer, I actually feel bad because it sounds like I have caused my friend's not so good wedding memory. I can't do much about it at this point perhaps I can just be more careful about referral in future.

作者: chunsh 時間: 2012-10-10 01:10

回復 chunsh

I don't mean my friend should not complain about her wedding vendors. My point i ...
fibbi 發表於 2012-10-10 00:58

oh, I see your point now

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2012-10-10 08:04

At the end of the day ..

No one cares about wedding pic after a yr or 2 la..

Will you look at your wedding pic now, and then " E E all all " or "V V wah wah" ??

No ga ma... they are all in your storage room .... you won't be interested to view again, your other half won't be .. your parents won't be .. your kids won't be ..

The ONLY person will care abour your wedding pic?? Your Bridemaid .. LOL

作者: fibbi 時間: 2012-10-10 08:43

回復 21# Catpiano

I don't know about guys, but I do take a look at the wedding pic once a while...
until i have my kid then i care baby pictures the most

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2012-10-10 09:40

Um ... I am the other way .. as u .. just once a while .. look back our wedding pic .. but only look at those either I took myself, or pic of my buddies .. only think I regret is .. I didn't take much picture of my mom ....

Baby pic .. true .. both my wife and I look at them all the time ... but at the end, mostly iphone pic .. or Andriod pic.. (even I upgraded my iphone to And, but pic from iphone still better)

^_^

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2012-10-10 09:47

Um ... I am the other way .. as u .. just once a while .. look back our wedding pic .. but only l ...
Catpiano 發表於 2012-10-10 09:40 AM

yeah... I only look at wedding day pictures on FB... LOL
And our wedding was just in Jan.

作者: 大C姐 時間: 2012-10-10 09:56

好多人結婚似做show係一個＂打飛X＂心態。其實唔係好多guest真係咁appreciate你果啲大龍鳳，當然，新娘（通常都係女仔比較care）會話＂一生人一次係留俾自己一個美好回憶＂做藉口，但係講到尾，有幾多成心態係唔想衰俾親戚朋友睇，想show off自己嘅經濟能力或者自以爲好有taste嘅特別效果。

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2012-10-10 10:19

打飛X ??

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2012-10-10 10:38

自以爲好有taste嘅特別效果。
大C姐發表於 2012-10-10 09:56 AM

LOL we may have done that. It's an empty white room with not much in it. LOL

作者: fibbi 時間: 2012-10-10 10:53

回復 23# Catpiano

I made photobook with baby pic so I look at it all the times...and my baby likes to flip that book all the time too...

作者: tapioca 時間: 2012-10-10 14:25

Is her wedding photo that bad? Is she complaining about the technique of her photographers? If she thinks her wedding is not as grand, as extravagant as others, then photo might show up not as nice as others, since all the wedding decors and arrangements were not as good in the beginning.

作者: pkphilip 時間: 2012-10-10 22:30

I actually have my pre-wedding photos printed on canvas and posted on my wall. Although they look good, but I know it could be done better! I also have designed 2 photo books, I am happy.

Philip

作者: fibbi 時間: 2012-10-11 16:40

回復 29# tapioca

I don't think her pictures are that bad. I won't even use the word "bad" to describe them. I guess as you said, without a "extravagant" venue/backdrop the pictures are not the "same".

作者: tapioca 時間: 2012-10-11 20:44

then don't feel bad about recommending your photographer to her, as it would just turn out the same no matter who took her wedding photo.

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