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作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-5-13 12:03 標題: 好耐無黎

有無人掛住我呢﹖

我這一年做D咩﹖點解o甘忙﹖

唉~ 一言難盡。。。

在網上識左一個賤男﹐
剛剛先走返出來咋。。。

我勸大家響網上識人真係要帶眼﹐
好彩無咩損失﹐
但係﹐
真係看清
他是徹底的一個賤男!!!

我死心了!!!!!!

作者: fibbi 時間: 2013-5-13 12:09

Welcome back.

作者: Guy 時間: 2013-5-13 13:56

Takes you a year to realize and leave this 賤男....

I guess my friend was right about generalizing women only 對賤男死心踏地

對好男就不理不問

作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-5-13 14:20

賤男一般比較識得 tum 女仔﹐甜言蜜語讓你以為他真的深愛你。。。

其實我心知道﹐哪有可能短時間深愛一個人呢﹖

加上﹐他對我的認識很淺﹐連我 FB 都唔多看﹐了解我內心這麼少會怎樣深愛﹖ 怪只怪自己真的好易 tum﹐人家說得對﹐愛不是用耳聽的﹐口裡說得多漂亮都是假。。。要用眼看﹐看他為人怎樣﹐觀察他是否真的愛。。。

他是台灣人﹐我不熟悉台灣歌曲﹐他寫歌詞我還誤以為那是他為我寫的情話﹐只能怪自己白痴 XDDD

這一役傷亡慘重﹐好彩無失身﹐失的只是心而已。。。 XD

作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-5-13 14:22

Guy﹕ 男人太好真的缺乏了吸引力﹐我也不知怎解﹐這是很難解釋的感覺。。。

目前有好男在極力追求﹐可是沒感覺就是沒感覺。。。索然無味的戀愛不如不愛﹐免得多了負擔。。。

只能向一眾好男 say sorry 了。。。

作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-5-13 14:24

我大大力刮醒自己﹐不要再理他﹐不要再理他﹐不要再理他!!!!

我倆真是欲斷難斷太久了﹐久得連我也討厭我自己

作者: BiscottiGelato 時間: 2013-5-13 16:22

U sound young.~ Only young gals can afford to like bad guys~?

作者: Purpleheart 時間: 2013-5-13 21:36

唉, 又令我諗起 "一世人流流長, 總會愛上幾個人渣! " 最緊要識得醒同放手! 唔好因為一些人渣令自己失去得到幸福的機會!

作者: sheep 時間: 2013-5-14 10:04

唉, 又令我諗起 "一世人流流長, 總會愛上幾個人渣! " 最緊要識得醒同放手! 唔好因為一些人渣令自己失去得到 ...
Purpleheart 發表於 2013-5-13 21:36

哂幸福

作者: randommike 時間: 2013-5-14 13:33

成年都冇失身???

作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-5-14 14:24

他住台灣。。。若果大家在同國家則好大機會了

作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-5-14 14:25

其實都差一點就買了機票去台灣﹐幸好最後關頭取消了﹐日子過去才發現他是賤男

作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-5-14 14:29

其實遙距愛情﹐他肯維持一年已不容易了﹐因為他過去的女友﹐超過半年已很不錯了。。。但他說以前的都很快就同居了﹐我在起初認識應該知他是這樣的人﹐因為他都沒向我隱瞞過﹐是我自己以為他待我不一樣而已。。。或許有人講得對﹐個個女仔都以為自己應該不同﹐應該可以令他改變﹐自己是他最後一個﹐但結果往往不是這樣。。。

作者: Guy 時間: 2013-5-14 16:28

Guy﹕ 男人太好真的缺乏了吸引力﹐我也不知怎解﹐這是很難解釋的感覺。。。

目前有好男在極力追求﹐可是沒感覺就是沒感覺。。。索然無味的戀愛不如不愛﹐免得多了負擔。。。

只能向一眾好男 say sorry 了。。。
Icebaby 發表於 2013-5-13 14:22

好男人缺乏了吸引力..i agree..

but....好男人.... not always give you 索然無味的戀愛 ....

JSYK so many 好男 out there is currently being friendzoned.

作者: randommike 時間: 2013-5-14 17:26

Ah, long distance. I see I see.

作者: Purpleheart 時間: 2013-5-14 21:27

其實佢做過啲咩賤野? 即係一邊話愛你, 一邊又攬住第二個女仔?

作者: 4boybun 時間: 2013-5-14 21:45

呢的男人通常有吸引力，起碼表面睇是精品，大把女人答糖。
另一個角度睇，佢肯同你玩，亦證明你有返咁上下，
否則人地連玩你都嫌費事。咁諗，會會舒服點？
人生路中好多事情，留個美好回憶，已經好好啦。

作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-5-14 23:12

其實佢做過啲咩賤野? 即係一邊話愛你, 一邊又攬住第二個女仔?
Purpleheart 發表於 2013-5-14 21:27

嗯。。。差不多是這樣。。。其實我和他分手好多次﹐因為遙距對雙方都好大壓力﹐但係他起初講埋晒甜言蜜語﹐令我以為他真的很愛我﹐哪知可以短時間內識一個女仔兼同居﹐我先看清呢個人﹐其實都係肉慾至上﹐無咩了不起

作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-5-14 23:13

呢的男人通常有吸引力，起碼表面睇是精品，大把女人答糖。
另一個角度睇，佢肯同你玩，亦證明你有返咁上下 ...
4boybun 發表於 2013-5-14 21:45

你這樣說也對的﹐以前我也把持著愛過就好﹐不求結果﹐但係整年的情緒的起伏令我覺得我對他的付出很不值得﹐很生氣啊

作者: 4boybun 時間: 2013-5-15 14:30

唔好生氣啦過左就算啦，
可能好多人想比佢玩，都無資格㗎.

作者: ricrick 時間: 2013-5-16 14:42

回復 1# Icebaby

要不要我介紹個男人比你玩反下？

作者: chunsh 時間: 2013-5-16 16:59

Guy﹕ 男人太好真的缺乏了吸引力﹐我也不知怎解﹐這是很難解釋的感覺。。。

目前有好男在極力追求﹐可是沒 ...
Icebaby 發表於 2013-5-13 14:22

no need to sorry to others, u just need to be sorry to yourself

作者: chunsh 時間: 2013-5-16 17:06

好男人缺乏了吸引力..i agree..

but....好男人.... not always give you 索然無味的戀愛 ....

JSYK so ...
Guy 發表於 2013-5-14 16:28

let me put it this way, some women just dont enjoy the "normal" relationship. They like to "conquer" those 賤男 and think they can be the last woman of that 賤男; and some women like those relationship with the feeling of excitement, guilt, 冒險，轟轟烈烈....Its their choices

作者: Purpleheart 時間: 2013-5-16 22:37

回復 23# chunsh

冇錯, 到最後被傷害到遍體鱗傷, 然後就概嘆世上所有男人都係壞人....其實當初不是你自己選擇鐘個頭埋去嗎?

作者: ricrick 時間: 2013-5-17 09:28

回復 24# Purpleheart

女人都可以玩男人，不要扮弱者

作者: 4boybun 時間: 2013-5-17 21:56

有的女人會古惑，製造失身，然後又喊又死，逼男人負責任...

作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-5-21 15:04

我不是這樣啊

我對愛情只是憑感覺﹐沒有你們上面所講的。。。既不是想 conquer or be his last woman...trust me, I never thought of that...

但係﹐他的甜言蜜語的確吸引人。。。我愛上他是憑一份感覺而已。。。

有無人會比晒自己所有密碼你﹖ 他就是這樣信任我和完全敞開﹐這方面我有感動過。。。

作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-5-21 15:05

他寫了 5 年 blog﹐ 他認識我第一天就給我密碼﹐連秘密留言﹐他過去怎溝女﹐全部讓我知道。。。

之後﹐他所有 FB 帳號的密碼也給了我﹐對我全無秘密。。。

作者: chunsh 時間: 2013-5-21 17:20

他寫了 5 年 blog﹐ 他認識我第一天就給我密碼﹐連秘密留言﹐他過去怎溝女﹐全部讓我知道。。。

之後﹐他 ...
Icebaby 發表於 2013-5-21 15:05

你又真係能夠肯定你所知既，真係佢所有嘅blogs and 密碼？
佢可能對每條女都有一 set 嘅blog 同密碼
只可以咁講，小姐你天真o左啲，同埋你遇到高手.
Oh well, just treat it as a lesson

作者: Guy 時間: 2013-5-21 18:03

你又真係能夠肯定你所知既，真係佢所有嘅blogs and 密碼？
佢可能對每條女都有一 set 嘅blog 同密碼
只 ...
chunsh 發表於 2013-5-21 17:20

作者: 4boybun 時間: 2013-5-22 00:24

咁都信

作者: 4boybun 時間: 2013-5-22 00:27

阿拉網上識得個福街仔，搞完阿二，然後扮浪子回頭，搵阿大出來執手尾

踢走阿二。

作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-5-28 13:18

本帖最後由 Icebaby 於 2013-5-28 13:19 編輯

阿拉網上識得個福街仔，搞完阿二，然後扮浪子回頭，搵阿大出來執手尾踢走阿二。 ...
4boybun 發表於 2013-5-22 00:27

o甘又真係衰D。。。他是不同的﹐他真的想同我做人世架。。。只係我知道﹐呢個男仔係勁想結婚那種﹐由他的 BLOG 知道的﹐自十七歲識第一條女已想結婚﹐所以我又唔算係好特別﹐只能夠講他好恨有穩定的感情吧了。。。

他放棄我最大原因﹐係覺得自己養我唔起窩。。。因為他在台灣很辛苦賺一個月﹐不吃不喝﹐都唔夠我買半個手袋

而我差不多每兩三個月就買一個新手袋。。。

不過講真﹐為左愛情﹐我以後都唔買袋又點話唧﹖ 我最激氣係﹐他可以響那邊識得一條女唔夠一個月就同居﹐算點窩﹖ 好鬼濫囉。。。

其實換個角度看﹐這對我是好事吧﹖ 看清了他的人格囉。。。

咩愛情唧﹖ 愛情根本只是假話。。。

夢醒了。。。

作者: chunsh 時間: 2013-5-28 22:21

o甘又真係衰D。。。他是不同的﹐他真的想同我做人世架。。。只係我知道﹐呢個男仔係勁想結婚那種﹐由他的 BLOG 知道的﹐自十七歲識第一條女已想結婚﹐所以我又唔算係好特別﹐只能夠講他好恨有穩定的感情吧了。。。

他放棄我最大原因﹐係覺得自己養我唔起窩。。。
Icebaby 發表於 2013-5-28 13:18

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作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-6-19 10:45

講明我唔係港女﹐我的包包自己賺錢買的﹐唔會要男人買﹐而且一D都唔貪心﹐只係他響我面前他自己自卑而已﹐所以我成日問人﹐係咪好多台灣男仔都係大男人﹐唔受得女仔唔需要他養呢﹖

作者: Quest 時間: 2013-6-20 09:28

﹐他可以響那邊識得一條女唔夠一個月就同居﹐算點窩﹖ 好鬼濫囉。。。,

Yup, I agree that he's not meant to have long term relationship with you...he can do that behind your back (or back in TW), there's no guarantee that he won't do that after you 2 got married...

Trust me on that part (I've seen some of my friends suffered because of that, and even some auntie currently into similar situations even after they were married for over 20+ yrs.....pity)

Q.

作者: chunsh 時間: 2013-6-20 09:55

....after they were married for over 20+ yrs.....

I think this is the key point that those aunties are suffering now. Look at it in another way, maybe they enjoy this kind of suffering, that would bring them back their feeling of love when they are teenagers....

作者: Quest 時間: 2013-6-20 10:09

Maybe you are right, but from the outside: they (some of these aunties) are swallowing hard just because of the family, their kids (yeah, now into their 20s), and lifestyle, etc. so much that they cannot put down or let go....so they are still going along even though their unfaithful husband has 2-lai outside ....

I'm not in a position to criticise, just more like an observation.

Q.

作者: Ovaltine 時間: 2013-6-25 03:15

It is very hard to be sweet talking on the phone or on Whatapps weChat if men don't reward ourselves with some kind of females. I mean, sweet talking is a lot of work, you know Icebaby, those words just don't come out of our head, but from our heart, and our heart has to be lubricated with female caressing, the feeling of being touch by a women. Its much harder for the guy to keep the Long distance relationship because female can go for ages without sex if she feels wanted, but the younger the guy the more caressing he needs.

作者: 4boybun 時間: 2013-6-25 18:23

Maybe you are right, but from the outside: they (some of these aunties) are swallowing hard just bec ...
Quest 發表於 2013-6-20 10:09

如果个男人穷到裤穿窿，饭都无得开，你讲嗰的aunties 就会较脚㗎啦

作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-6-26 01:03

It is very hard to be sweet talking on the phone or on Whatapps weChat if men don't reward ourselves ...
Ovaltine 發表於 2013-6-25 03:15

pretty true

I think the main problem between me & him is this, I looked for sweet talking and his words warmed my heart, I have the feeling of love but on his side, he needs someone to be hugged, to be kissed and to be made love with.

Therefore, I let him go...

作者: 4boybun 時間: 2013-6-26 05:54

請問，女人所謂其喜歡之sweet talking，其實是怎樣的說話？請說明之並舉實例解釋。謝謝。

作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-6-27 15:35

很多很多﹐例如說今生只有你一個啊﹐遇上了你就可以忘記所有前度包括最深刻那個﹐等等。。。現在看來全部得淡笑﹐因為他已有第個了

真的這麼愛怎麼可能愛上別人﹐還要在短期內愛上兩個。。。真是不知所謂的男人﹐不知甚麼叫做愛情!!!

他還對最新這個 (FB 有看到照片﹐剩女兼不漂亮) 說甚麼肉麻說話﹐眾裡尋她﹐我聽見太嘔﹐兩個都封鎖了。。。他還說過甚麼女人教會男人甚麼叫做溫柔﹐要每個月 14 號慶祝情人節﹐這樣嘛。。。他倆剛好 7 月 14 ﹐快可以慶祝了﹐一起落去鬼域慶祝吧

作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-6-27 15:36

早知他的愛這麼 cheap 我不會墮入這種陷阱

作者: Ovaltine 時間: 2013-6-27 17:07

回復 43# Icebaby

Did you get into any intimacy with him after a year of "relationship"?If you didn't, I don't think you want a boyfriend, you should get a Barbie Ken talking doll. You expect him to entertain you with the sweet talking but he doesn't get anything in return. Obviously he is willing to downgrade and get an uglier girlfriend, because he considered you as his failure already. You did not fall into the trap, you created the trap yourself because your view of love and his view of love is different.

作者: 4boybun 時間: 2013-6-28 03:20

好搞笑

作者: Quest 時間: 2013-6-28 11:08

IMHO maturity takes time and experience (like encountered some relationships) before one can wise up.

Q.

作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-6-29 19:27

回復 Icebaby

Did you get into any intimacy with him after a year of "relationship"?If you di ...
Ovaltine 發表於 2013-6-27 17:07

他之前的情話是很動人的﹐但也許只是因為我對台灣歌曲不熟悉﹐他可能只是抄歌詞吧了 (我後來發覺)

作者: Icebaby 時間: 2013-6-29 19:29

回復 45# Ovaltine

You did not fall into the trap, you created the trap yourself because your view of love and his view of love is different.
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我認同你說的這句﹐因為我後來也感覺是這樣。。。是經過年多的相處之後﹐他看見我好像沒可能去台灣找他 (因為要上班﹐未能拿到假期) 所以他失去了哄我的耐性﹐干脆在台灣是但找一件算了

作者: Ovaltine 時間: 2013-6-29 21:28

我都成日抄詞tum女仔。我用catonese opera的

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