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作者: ACC-HE 時間: 2008-5-12 09:40 標題: connection connection connection, 關係的重要...

小弟入世未深，能否分享下connection在工作或生意上的重要性？

thank you

作者: akshea 時間: 2008-5-12 10:03

Do not have special 關係 /w ur co-workers. 1st rule.

作者: myversa 時間: 2008-5-12 10:54

If you have good connection, it will be easier for you to find a job.

One of my friends has good connection with people and he does not have to LOOK for job. Jobs will come to him.

作者: shutterbug 時間: 2008-5-12 10:55

I don't think connection means "special relationship" in this context...

IMO, having more connections will get your further, landing a better job, more opportunities.

In terms of a biz, you get more clients, easy/faster access to info/resources, better suppliers, etc...

You know the Chinese saying "At home rely on parents, away from home rely on friends"

作者: akshea 時間: 2008-5-12 12:02

High EQ lead to connections .. and connections lead to opportunites..
I think EQ is very important.

作者: shutterbug 時間: 2008-5-12 14:11

原帖由 akshea 於 2008-5-12 12:02 發表
High EQ lead to connections .. and connections lead to opportunites..
I think EQ is very important.

wah...drifted a bit far wor...if high EQ -> more connections, how about living in West End -> go to private schools -> go to a famous "brand" university -> get to know sons/daughters of billionares???

In fact, I think some people are going this route lei

作者: siumaibb 時間: 2008-5-12 16:46

Think about going to a dim sum place and you know the manager or 帶位, then you'll know how important is connection!

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2008-5-13 00:19

人緣 & 識做人 is the key!

[ 本帖最後由 Ultraman 於 2008-5-13 00:21 編輯 ]

作者: ACC-HE 時間: 2008-5-13 00:55

原帖由 Ultraman 於 2008-5-13 00:19 發表
人緣 & 識做人 is the key!

點為之"識做人"?

對上一代來說，識唔識做人似乎是很重要

現今世代又如何？

覓高見~

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2008-5-13 01:33

原帖由 ACC-HE 於 2008-5-13 00:55 發表

點為之"識做人"?

對上一代來說，識唔識做人似乎是很重要

現今世代又如何？

覓高見~

Oh.... not really 高見, hehe. But my pov is, why "識做人" is different from 上一代 to 現今世代? Don't think that "識做人" means use money to buy relationship wor! In fact, it doesn't necessary related to money issues. For example, show your friendliness to all rank of your co-workers including your boss (but not to polish his/her shoes), your supervisors, your same ranks, your lower ranks, and even lowest ranks. But on the other hand "識做人" doesn't mean you have to 蝕抵 too much! For example, you don't need to make someone happy so you try to do extra work that not belongs to your own duty every time. Just like, you need to know when to say yes and when to say no. Remember, people don't value much for hard working cows but smart monkeys! Another rule is, try to keep good relationship with almost everyone but don't get one person jealous. (yeah I know, it's easy to say than do.) Cuz you never know where your better opportunity will come from.

作者: pigheadbone 時間: 2008-5-13 06:51

how do you measure if you have good connections with people?

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