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作者: koyawah 時間: 2008-8-28 11:33 標題: 明白香港女咁遲先嫁得出

而家我明白香港女咁遲先嫁得出...或者三四十歲仲係單身....
今年番香港有機會識到兩位女性朋友

某一個係叔伯朋友的女.....仲未見面....她話先要 send photo 俾她先
又話如果不合眼光..便不用約會…哇..我想她以為自己係香港小姐..電視明星呀…##@@@..***
三十五歲人老餅仲以為自己後生女….另一個去過街,不過又要乜….又要七….
所以明白咁多香港男人上中國搵老婆…

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-8-28 11:51

and as they age, they panic

, & leech onto some poor unfortunate souls, & push them on the marriage train.
well, if the guy is soft heart, gum mai succeed & lucky lor.

if not, then those old women just pushes the guys to their very own younger competitors

recently, i've seen 2 of my guy friends in this situation...HAHAHA... the only thing i can say to them is: ho mix ng mix a 18, mix a 28+.... rofl

作者: fibbi 時間: 2008-8-28 11:52

so sad that I know nicer girl friends(won't ask for picture, won't ask for gift ...)but still single la...

作者: chunsh 時間: 2008-8-28 12:12

原帖由 fibbi 於 2008-8-28 12:52 發表
so sad that I know nicer girl friends(won't ask for picture, won't ask for gift ...)but still single la...

nice friend doesn't imply to be a nice gf or wife

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2008-8-28 12:22

U went HK to " SHUEN TIGH " ?

作者: siumaibb 時間: 2008-8-28 12:28

你唔好彩嗟。。。
正所謂"合則來，不合則去"，好平常，唔知你怨乜？

作者: ravemother 時間: 2008-8-28 12:39

yeah, whenever u ask young hk gf out (no matter u wanna chase her or treat her just a friend), they expect u to pay for everything. when the bills came, they had intention to take our their wallet.

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-8-28 12:45

they make sure you have a decent job, have a car, pay the bills, pay all the dinners & eat outs, buy them expensive gifts, change your lifestyle for them, have incentive for family, kids, most importantly MARRIAGE.

and the fact is that most of these old women are capable of supporting themselves. yet, they find desperately look for a mate, regardless if they love or not... as long as they can get married. i look down & dis these ridiculously independent but lack of confidence women. it's not something that you must go with the flow, you old ho's...

[ 本帖最後由 Alcoholic 於 2008-8-28 12:48 編輯 ]

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2008-8-28 13:27

I am not one of them.. but some how I feel un-easy while reading these posts...

does it mean that when you are over 28, you need to change your attitude? but it's OK to be like that if you are 18????
I think it's generally wrong to expect SO MUCH from just a male friend even when one is YOUNG!

作者: chunsh 時間: 2008-8-28 13:37

原帖由 布小熊 於 2008-8-28 14:27 發表
I am not one of them.. but some how I feel un-easy while reading these posts...
does it mean that when you are over 28, you need to change your attitude? but it's OK to be like that if you are ...

reality is always cruel, this apply to men and women

作者: fibbi 時間: 2008-8-28 13:42

原帖由 chunsh 於 2008-8-28 13:12 發表

nice friend doesn't imply to be a nice gf or wife

I mean they are nice girlfriend type, not only being a nice friend to me.

In case of "sheung tai", is it normal to see picture first?? That's the traditional style isn't it? (i haven't done that myself though..)

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-8-28 14:59

if you need to "sheung tai", you mind as well should lock yourself up in the tiny crack next to your stove & make yourself comfy there for the rest of yourlife

作者: 小叻 時間: 2008-8-28 15:16

懾灶罅?

well i guess the girl in hk now are too materialistic~ they only look up but not look down.. and too much demanding from their bf la.. expected too much? Want to be another 徐子琪?

but once they passed probably around the age of 35 as they are getting old.. not competitive to those young teens.. (around 35 la..) they start to worry.. worry abt the criticism from others...唔想比人寸老姑婆﹐無人要.. so lower their standards?

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2008-8-28 15:51

Guess "sheung tai" is not OK but "Just Lunch" is alright.

I have never done either.

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2008-8-28 18:56

其實香港D女仔上大陸找老公仲好啦

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2008-8-28 19:07

其實未見面先睇下對方既相片有乜問題?
如果個女仔耍睇男仔既相, 男仔都可以叫個女仔比相你睇丫.
好公平...

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-8-28 20:33

when you're desperate, you shouldn't ask for too much....hahaha

作者: sheep 時間: 2008-8-28 20:33

你咪問佢鐘意邊類型
俾張碧咸費達拿奧巴馬既相佢囉

作者: Nox 時間: 2008-8-28 21:07

我認識幾個女仔個個都怨氣好重, 成日怨無人送花啦, 陪佢啦, 關心佢, 娶佢.....呢D女仔唔係無人追架, 不過送花比佢, 陪佢, 關心佢個D佢地唔中意之嘛

there are food in their fridge, but just they still cry and whine that they're hungry just because the food in the fridge is not what they wanna eat.

Best way to deal with these kind of girls, turn your back, don't listen don't look.

有錢有車有樓既男仔會唔會突然愛上你? 睇太多戲啦.
呃人話自己有錢有車有樓, 上完床借埋錢先消失既賤人就大把.

[ 本帖最後由 Nox 於 2008-8-28 21:13 編輯 ]

作者: koyawah 時間: 2008-8-28 22:45 標題: 回復 6# 的帖子

yes you are right

"正所謂"合則來，不合則去"，好平常，唔知你怨乜"

我冇怨乜...不過我覺得使唔使咁吋.....
因為我生活於加拿大10年好鬼…享受一支公生活....開心

今次回香港以為搵工作.屋企人話識多人好似識個朋友咁啦.
我諗住 ok la
不過當我send 照片及電話後,,她冇任何消息.....
俾我感覺好似當我好想識佢咁.....@@@@###***
如果真係 "SHUEN TIGH "...都要大家見過面先啦.....
我點知佢係唔係豬扒????

點解唔得大方一些????
我番香港前也和一個中國女孩一起...而家也有連絡....

作者: librazhy 時間: 2008-8-28 23:15

maybe next time its better to use photoshop to fix ur eye,ear,mouth,nose b4 u send the pic to her. then u wont fail the sheung tai.
i guess most hk females dun like ugly males. however, u hav better chance in vancouver cuz most females in here will accept ugly guys(with talents). i'm not saying ur ugly, but i think u'll hav more chance in van(if ur with talents).

[ 本帖最後由 librazhy 於 2008-8-29 00:35 編輯 ]

作者: koyawah 時間: 2008-8-29 01:18 標題: 回復 18# 的帖子

哈哈...我有諗過寄...劉華... x 富城....既相俾佢

你有冇興趣識呢個港女?

我能俾佢電子郵件俾你....等佢以為好多人想識佢...哈哈

作者: shutterbug 時間: 2008-8-29 07:43

I don't think requesting a photo is too much...you go to some agencies they will show you lots of photos la....

I think in general HK girls are more and more independant these days. They can live with or without a husband! With the financial stability and social status, they can do anything they want, just like a man used to. However, I think the quality of HK guys have gone downhill more.

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2008-8-29 09:07

Actually, "average" quality for HK girls in HK .. isnt that bad ..  Especially when compare to HK guys in HK quality ..

Eve income ...  most friends I know, ~ 30 yr old range .. women vs men .. their incomes are pretty close wor ...

Of course, we can't compare the "faces" of HK girls to Tokyo or TW .....

However, if we are going to compare HK guys vs Tokyo guys ..  the different is even bigger la.. Tokyo guys are so so much more "ying", handsome, taller, cooler, then HK guys ... Tokyo girls are much hotter too .. but more or less because of make up ..

Dont get me wrong, as a Honger, I like japanese/tw/korean girls over HK girls, that is for sure ..  but in the same time, girls like Jap guys/korean guys more then HK guys as well wor ...  ( not TW guys this case .. lol )

One funny post my wife saw in a japanese forum, a stupid Honger, was trying to know japanese girls, so he post his own stuffs, and said he wants to date a japanese girls .. and he is "bluh bluh bluh bluh" with money ..  nice cars ..  bluh bluh bluh etc ..

However, those replies are funny, of course, japanese girls dont like honger ..  and even some replies said " we dont like chinese, we like white guys, we like big dick, not small penis! " then many more funny replies .. (well, mostly in japanese .. so we dont really understand more )

作者: starbug 時間: 2008-8-29 10:50

I have found some interesting educational materials about 港女 from some HK websites such as 香港網絡大典, very informative and entertaining indeed.

作者: Purpleheart 時間: 2008-8-29 12:11

is there any difference between HK 港女 and Vancouver 港女 then?~

作者: puZZle 時間: 2008-8-29 12:39

原帖由 starbug 於 2008-8-29 11:50 發表
I have found some interesting educational materials about 港女 from some HK websites such as 香港網絡大典, very informative and entertaining indeed.

http://evchk.wikia.com/wiki/%E6%B8%AF%E5%A5%B3

作者: starbug 時間: 2008-8-29 12:46

原帖由 Purpleheart 於 2008-8-29 13:11 發表
is there any difference between HK 港女 and Vancouver 港女 then?~

I think the pretty much the same, differece is the Vancouver 港女 like crawling around W-guys and even finance the relationship as long as they can show off in front of their 同胞, you may observe it a lot in the restaturants, the 港女 always pay the bills instead.

I feel sad to say those smart guys surely know the 港女's weakness very well and take advantage from them.
Well, what can I say, it is all just 抵死 and they still enjoying it.

作者: GAClone 時間: 2008-8-29 15:51

原帖由 koyawah 於 2008-8-28 23:45 發表
yes you are right

"正所謂"合則來，不合則去"，好平常，唔知你怨乜"

我冇怨乜...不過我覺得使唔使咁吋.....
因為我生活於加拿大10年好鬼…享受一支公生活....開心
今次回香港以為搵工作.屋企人 ...

Exactly b/c you've lived here for so long, and got used to how Canadians behave, that your mindset is more Canadian-ized. HK is full of rude people, so they will tend to be more cruel when it comes to telling you how you look or things like that, it's just a fact of life. I prefer girls in Vancouver MUCH more I'm sorry to say.

I think everyone has their preferences. Us guys think that HK girls want this and that, and when girls in general look at guys, they'll think that all we want to do is get them into bed. So I guess it's just a mind game for everyone.

Not everyone's the same though. Me and my girl are fine, we split the bills, no unreasonable requests, we respect one another's privacy and freedom, and everyone lives happy. Isn't that how life's supposed to be?

作者: slamdunk6 時間: 2008-8-29 17:48

"明白香港女咁遲先嫁得出"

嫁得出就已經好彩喇

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2008-8-30 09:01

原帖由 Purpleheart 於 2008-8-29 13:11 發表
is there any difference between HK 港女 and Vancouver 港女 then?~

FOR SURE LA !!!

Big different between Alberta 港女 and Vancouver 港女 tim! (include Macau)

作者: Purpleheart 時間: 2008-8-30 10:10

my calgary cousin says Alberta 港女 is more innocent....is that true?

some Vancouver 港女always look for rich guys.....but just not agressive as HK 港女

作者: Alcoholic 時間: 2008-8-30 19:41

if one is a 港女, then one is not innocent la

作者: MoiRhapsody 時間: 2008-8-30 22:51

俾人追慣，
係咁嫁喇。
食慣鮑魚，
螺頭點入口？？？

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2008-8-31 17:22

原帖由 Purpleheart 於 2008-8-29 13:11 發表
is there any difference between HK 港女 and Vancouver 港女 then?~

如果以高登的“港女”定義﹐我相信住在哪兒的港女也只是港女

作者: siumaibb 時間: 2008-9-3 09:57

原帖由 koyawah 於 2008-8-28 23:45 發表
yes you are right

"正所謂"合則來，不合則去"，好平常，唔知你怨乜"

我冇怨乜...不過我覺得使唔使咁吋.....
因為我生活於加拿大10年好鬼…享受一支公生活....開心
今次回香港以為搵工作.屋企人 ...

唔好怪我直言。。。其實佢要你send相俾佢，你覺得佢吋，你大可以睬佢有味唔send俾佢。你send俾佢因為你覺得自己OK，你有希望，但係你send完俾佢之後佢無覆你，你覺得受辱，所以你先咁慶。講真，你想佢點覆你？唔通佢同你講"sorry，你好樣衰，我唔係好想見你喎"你會好開心咩？算啦，就晌你send相俾佢果一刻，你已經接受左呢個選舉，落左選咪算囉，好似見工咁，人地唔請你，唔通你周圍同人講果間公司吋咩。。。

祝你早日搵到個岩心水既女友

作者: siumaibb 時間: 2008-9-3 10:00

原帖由 MoiRhapsody 於 2008-8-30 23:51 發表
俾人追慣，
係咁嫁喇。
食慣鮑魚，
螺頭點入口？？？

狗公造就港女，另外要多謝傳媒(電視電影)加女明星既好榜樣。。。

作者: 老友四號 時間: 2008-9-4 18:45

其實都好合理啫，以我輩麻甩佬為例揾工都希望揾份人工高福利好又唔駛乜做喇，

將心比心港女揾老公都係一樣啫佢哋都想揾番個好老公，又靚仔又有錢。婚後除咗勤力做爱之外其他嘅嘢都唔駛乜点做。

試問有邊個女仔唔想做徐子淇第二啫。

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2008-9-4 19:38

人人要求唔同.
有d 女仔鍾意靚仔, 有d 女仔鍾意有錢仔, 但最好就係又有錢, 又靚仔啦~

現實就係咁, 謝霆鋒同八兩金, 你係女仔會揀邊個丫?
掉番轉, 鍾嘉欣同白韻琴, 我咁只係得謝偉俊會有可能揀後者.

相睇之前, 睇到你個樣唔啱心水, 打退堂鼓, 又有乜問題呢?
佢又唔係將你張相post去高登, 同其他人一齊奚落你...

作者: sunsing 時間: 2009-3-12 03:47 標題: 呵呵好中聽

呢D問題好現實，依家我地男人都無知她地系都選物，做物！

作者: tiffiant 時間: 2009-3-14 11:42

how about meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
???????????????????????????????????????????????

:'( :'(

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