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作者: Nokia    時間: 2008-12-15 17:41     標題: 中國藉 (國內)女友

請問有無人有中國藉 (國內)女友?
可唔可以比較下同香港女仔感覺上, 思想上ge 分別?
我好似中左招, 掙扎緊...
作者: Catpiano    時間: 2008-12-15 18:13

What do u mean 中左招??  means you are dating a MAINLAND chinese girl??

Good for you ..    even the famous Mitty .. is mainlander la..   

You should show us some trick, how to chase mainlander la..  since I think they mostly like white guys ??
作者: Nokia    時間: 2008-12-15 18:30

not dating la.

"since I think they mostly like white guys ?? "
That's exactly what I thought too.
作者: KY+NY    時間: 2008-12-15 20:19

中國藉 (國內)女友?!?!    伱0地係咪都會覺得港女好D? 搵女朋友都一定會想搵番香港人?
作者: Littleprince    時間: 2008-12-15 20:23

大家香港人當然同聲同氣D啦﹐起碼有共通話題嘛。。。但也不代表她們不好﹐很多國內的女孩都很好﹐特別是皮氣比起香港女仔溫婉吧﹖當然只係一DD 喇﹐每個人都有他的獨特性的嘛。。。我覺得你喜歡她就得﹐兩個人若果相處得到﹐不管是哪個國籍或生長地方應該都不構成問題
作者: matt72178    時間: 2008-12-15 20:23

點解你覺得中國女生喜歡白人?
我見親D 辣野都係跟返D 同鄉, 當然0個批同鄉係比較光鮮D 啦..
作者: matt72178    時間: 2008-12-15 20:27

Nokia,
你其實係咪問緊兩個問題? 0甘樣會比較清楚D。

1) 請問有無人有中國藉 (國內)女友?
可唔可以比較下同香港女仔感覺上, 思想上ge 分別?

2) 我好似中左招(花柳 or 霉毒), 掙扎緊...(好唔好睇醫生)。
作者: KY+NY    時間: 2008-12-15 20:36

原帖由 matt72178 於 2008-12-15 21:27 發表
Nokia,
你其實係咪問緊兩個問題? 0甘樣會比較清楚D。

1) 請問有無人有中國藉 (國內)女友?
可唔可以比較下同香港女仔感覺上, 思想上ge 分別?

2) 我好似中左招(花柳 or 霉毒), 掙扎緊...(好唔好睇醫生)。 ...


Nokia 0既第二個問題唔係話佢中0左招(鍾意0左個中國籍國內女仔)咩???
作者: Catpiano    時間: 2008-12-15 20:45

I want Honger woman too ga ..(my original plan )

However ..  they dont like me .. as I am not rich, not engineer ...  not as "HONGER style .. " don 't watch TVB .. don't smoke nor play MJ  don't drive asian car  

And you guys all know .. my wife is not Honger .. ( Chinese from malaysia )  may be that is why,  she doesn't care I am poor and bad education ...  most important ..  doesn't mind I need to eat soft rice ..  

What I notice, Honger girls usually prefer guys (honger guys?) know how to play MJ, watch TVB, smoke + drink, and drive asian, and ACT rich ...

Not too sure about mainlander ..  I just know lots of mainlander women .. they are pretty .. but once after marraige .. they want to control everything over their husbands ..

As qouting from Ar Lik ..  TW girls seems B O B  ( Best of the Best )  as they know a bit HK culture, they speak both mandarin and cantonese ..  they are pretty and pity ..   bluh bluh bluh ..  and somehow .. TW girls like Honger guys ..  
作者: Hyde    時間: 2008-12-15 21:38

my last ex is mainlander....  but she's different from the normal local mainalnders....for one thing she's rich, and studies in vancouver, even stays in hk 90% of the time.  she doesn't watch tv from china channels and only tvb, she have better sense of fashion then most honger girls.... she talks in taiwanese accent.... the only thing that makes her a mainlander is that she carries a china passport.... for us, our only problem is that she likes to speak mandarin more then cantonese....  and i couldn't communicate with her
作者: Nokia    時間: 2008-12-15 22:37

原帖由 KY+NY 於 2008-12-15 21:36 發表


Nokia 0既第二個問題唔係話佢中0左招(鍾意0左個中國籍國內女仔)咩???


少少啦...唔係幾知佢諗緊咩.

"2) 我好似中左招(花柳 or 霉毒), 掙扎緊...(好唔好睇醫生)。 ..."

OMG...Matt 哥唔該唔好咁 interpret 我講d 野啦, 我真係嚇親... 我無病呀...

我真係唔太識用 "引用"...
作者: MyOMy    時間: 2008-12-15 22:51

中國女仔 ＝ 半邊天 ＝ 開放

諾基亞大哥, 睇离你都係後生仔一名, 紅黄啡白黑, 有乜唔敢去馬啫。你唔去馬又點知佢啉乜嘢。人哋肯同你拍先算啦。真係拍時, 磨合磨合便是了。
作者: Hyde    時間: 2008-12-15 22:57

not really... all the normal mainlander girls i know are not open....

only the ones that work at ktv and nightclubs are open
作者: Littleprince    時間: 2008-12-15 23:57

What I notice, Honger girls usually prefer guys (honger guys?) know how to play MJ, watch TVB, smoke + drink, and drive asian, and ACT rich ...

CP﹕我唔知你響邊度聽返黎﹐但我猜你的看法錯了﹐唔係香港女仔鐘意呢D男人﹐係她們無得揀﹐因為通街的香港男仔都係呢種款咋。。。我識得的女仔就唔係好多個好似你講那樣選男朋友﹐只係有時鐘意起上黎﹐唔可以計較他們擁有的以上缺點而已。。。

如果比香港D女仔揀﹐點會選  ACT rich 呀﹖梗係揀“真 RICH” 啦。。。

即如“港女”(高登定義)﹐你估香港D男仔又真係好鐘意咩﹖那些又貪錢又沒內涵﹐只識用晒一個月糧買名牌自顯身價﹐之類之類 (不是講你﹐唔好對號入座﹐只係話一般人所稱呼的所謂港女而已)﹐不是香港男仔鐘意﹐只係兩害相衡取其輕。。。你話D男仔寧願無女友﹐定係寧願有個“港女”做女友呢﹖哈哈哈。。。
作者: ravemother    時間: 2008-12-16 00:00

my girlfriend is an international student from china. we have been together for 2 years now.

in the first few months of our relationship, we had a few problem communicating problem since i didn't know how to speak mandarin. Now, i speak it well because of frequent training.

my last 2 ex were both hongers.

if u asked me to compare honger girl to mainland girl, i would say mainland girls are less playful than honger girl. in my case, my current gf doesnt like to go clubing nor play MJ. to me, she is more innocent. she likes to shop but only buy cheap things. mainland girls can be very flexible too. she can bus to school and work under chilly weather like now with zero complain. I am not rich but she doesnt mind. she is happy to eat cheap food too, like food from the parker food court. also, she takes care of me very well...she cooks well etc.

for my 2 honger ex,one of them actually told me that she wanted to marry someone rich so she can go play for the rest of her life. they both had got 小姐脾氣 and  mad at me over little things. they both like to buy lots of expensive things (materialistic) like purse, etc. without a ride they cant go anyway.

i think being with mainland girl is worth trying if she is not a gold-digger. at least they could have less 脾氣 and more loyal to u.

of cuz, everyone is different. this is a generalization based on MY own experience.

[ 本帖最後由 ravemother 於 2008-12-16 01:01 編輯 ]
作者: mcjohnjohn    時間: 2008-12-16 01:10

ravemother, I am happy to hear that you have a good gf.
really happy for you as we are LYK!
作者: MoiRhapsody    時間: 2008-12-16 03:08

Find a honger girl who will bus with you is really hard .
And you can't really talk to them beside 吃喝玩樂.
Art??? they think it is boring.
Music??they only listen to pop.
Sport??Is Shopping a sport??
作者: yayaya    時間: 2008-12-16 03:19

you mean people speak mandarin????
作者: CWong    時間: 2008-12-16 03:36

你有錢的话，大可包起佢啦！
作者: mcjohnjohn    時間: 2008-12-16 04:54

原帖由 MoiRhapsody 於 2008-12-16 19:08 發表
Find a honger girl who will bus with you is really hard .
And you can't really talk to them beside 吃喝玩樂.
Art??? they think it is boring.
Music??they only listen to pop.
Sport??Is Shopping a sport? ...


my honger girl is a girl who will bus and MTR with me all the time.
Art? she likes art.
Music? she plays clarinet in orchestra and always go to classic concert with me.
Sport? she begs me to play badminton with me.

unfortunately for you guys, my honger girl is my wife already. hoho
作者: bbqfish    時間: 2008-12-16 08:26

原帖由 ravemother 於 2008-12-16 01:00 發表
my girlfriend is an international student from china. we have been together for 2 years now.

in the first few months of our relationship, we had a few problem communicating problem since i didn't kn ...

你咁講我會覺得我變了不像香港人的香港人.... 應該不是所有香港人都係咁的.
作者: ravemother    時間: 2008-12-16 09:18

原帖由 mcjohnjohn 於 2008-12-16 02:10 發表
ravemother, I am happy to hear that you have a good gf.
really happy for you as we are LYK!



hey MJJ! thanks!

i still remembered u giving me advice on lyk when i was chasing her!
作者: ravemother    時間: 2008-12-16 09:30

原帖由 bbqfish 於 2008-12-16 09:26 發表

你咁講我會覺得我變了不像香港人的香港人.... 應該不是所有香港人都係咁的.



of cuz, i repeat, this is based on my personal experience.
作者: Nokia    時間: 2008-12-16 09:45

原帖由 ravemother 於 2008-12-16 10:18 發表



hey MJJ! thanks!

i still remembered u giving me advice on lyk when i was chasing her!


Now this is more like the previous LYK that we are familiar with.
作者: Catpiano    時間: 2008-12-16 09:48

原帖由 Littleprince 於 2008-12-16 00:57 發表
What I notice, Honger girls usually prefer guys (honger guys?) know how to play MJ, watch TVB, smoke + drink, and drive asian, and ACT rich ...

CP﹕我唔知你響邊度聽返黎﹐但我猜你的看法錯了﹐唔係香港女仔鐘 ...



Wah .. little prince .. if I spend ~ my monthly income to buy stuffs .. then I die now la..   I always spend MORE then my monthly income la..  as my income is way BELOW average ..

That is why ..   men need marraige !
作者: Littleprince    時間: 2008-12-16 10:12

CP:

我說的是那些所謂港女﹐用晒一個月人工買一個名牌袋黎充大頭鬼﹐扮有錢人﹐有D甚至借到滿身卡數﹐是這種虛榮心不值得推崇咋。。。

好多人都是入不乎支﹐呢個係現實﹐大把人公一份婆一份先夠使喇﹐我唔覺得有咩問題﹐兩公婆 OK 咪得囉﹐除非你老婆想做少奶唔肯同你捱喇﹐如果是這樣的人﹐唔要都唔使恨喇。。。
作者: shutterbug    時間: 2008-12-16 11:58

Just my opinion, a lot of the China ladies "seem" to be more innocent and less materialistic (at the beginning) due to the fact that they came from a very restrictive country without knowing how the "real" world works.  Once they get used to it and found out about what they're really "worth", a lot of them just transform into something worse than "港女"....
作者: ravemother    時間: 2008-12-16 12:15

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-16 12:58 發表
Just my opinion, a lot of the China ladies "seem" to be more innocent and less materialistic (at the beginning) due to the fact that they came from a very restrictive country without knowing how the " ...


it is possible. many of mainland girls in Canada are actually extremely rich. some of them are already very superficial and materialistic in the beginning, especially those from shanghai.

anyway, i think some mainland girls make very good gf just like some honger girls can be decent too. depend if you can meet them and steal their heart

so, to the topic starter, it is worth a try.
作者: chunsh    時間: 2008-12-16 13:43

原帖由 mcjohnjohn 於 2008-12-16 05:54 發表


my honger girl is a girl who will bus and MTR with me all the time.
Art? she likes art.
Music? she plays clarinet in orchestra and always go to classic concert with me.
Sport? she begs me to play ba ...



hahahahhaha
is she also a LYK member and know which account u are using?
作者: chunsh    時間: 2008-12-16 13:45

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-16 12:58 發表
Just my opinion, a lot of the China ladies "seem" to be more innocent and less materialistic (at the beginning) due to the fact that they came from a very restrictive country without knowing how the " ...


I agree
作者: shutterbug    時間: 2008-12-16 15:44

原帖由 ravemother 於 2008-12-16 13:15 發表


it is possible. many of mainland girls in Canada are actually extremely rich. some of them are already very superficial and materialistic in the beginning, especially those from shanghai.

anyway,  ...

For those mainland girls...I don't think many of us here will have a chance...

I don't have 財 nor 才...
作者: ACooperFan    時間: 2008-12-16 19:21

原帖由 MoiRhapsody 於 2008-12-16 04:08 發表
Find a honger girl who will bus with you is really hard .
And you can't really talk to them beside 吃喝玩樂.
Art??? they think it is boring.
Music??they only listen to pop.
Sport??Is Shopping a sport? ...


i don't actually think honger girls mind bus"ing" bor...but it's just that when they have access to a car, why would they wanna bus??
作者: Hyde    時間: 2008-12-16 19:47

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-16 12:58 發表
Just my opinion, a lot of the China ladies "seem" to be more innocent and less materialistic (at the beginning) due to the fact that they came from a very restrictive country without knowing how the " ...


actually, honger girls are avoiding to look materialistic now, but in fact they are.  alot of them will now tell you that they don't need tiffany's anymore.  or LV is played out... blah blah blah...

but china girls don't really give care about that materialistic image, especially the poorer one, all they care about is who have money to support them and also their relatives.  the more they appear innocent and less materialistic is actually even worst.  they will try to milk every penny from you.

my bro told me a lot of stories on how those china girls will start asking their husband/bf that they need money for helping some sick relative in their home village, or some relative owe ppl money, or this uncle's wife's frd's bro's sister in law's son need money to fix his house...  so instead of financially supporting the girl, you'll have to support her family back home and also their relatives.

the materialistic ones (those that actually use REAL stuff) are usually already quite rich.  but they are usually expecting expensive gifts... also, the richer china girls are actually more sweet and innocent in heart.  since they are treated as a princess all the time.  

buying gifts is a lot better then solving problems for the girl's relative.  

for the rich one, you also have to beware of her family background.  any rich local china ppl are not average ppl.  for the china parents, they treasure their children like crazy.  they will risk EVERYTHING to protect them, including their life, so money to them is not even as a priority as their children.  you have to watch out if they are government officials, since they are rich, they probably have a lot of power.  if the parents don't like you, then you are screwed.  they can literally get rid of you and everything you have with one finger.   if her parents are rich as a businessmen, these ppl also know a lot of ppl in power.  otherwise they have no way to become rich doing business in china.  then there are the rich parents that operate underground activities... i don't need to explain why they are dangerous.  the ones that suddenly became rich, these are the most uncivilized ones, and their demands can be outrageous.

anyways, good luck, there are over 600 million girls in china, i'm sure there is always a good one somewhere.
作者: rockypath    時間: 2008-12-17 03:12

i believe the culture difference is something not easy to deal with.
作者: Catpiano    時間: 2008-12-17 13:21

原帖由 rockypath 於 2008-12-17 04:12 發表
i believe the culture difference is something not easy to deal with.



Um ..  should be ok gei .. I know few friends, they married japanese girls/Korean girls/TW girls/Singapore/White girls/indian girls.. (some are dating) big culture different too la..  

So ..  CHINA and HK ..  shouldn't hv problem la..

(of course, I saw many japanese girls/korean girls/TW girls dating with black guys .. not sure if they will get marry ..   )

But I hvn't seen any oe of my friend ..  married black woman yet ..

(my case is-> Malay wife)
作者: ilsanlytang    時間: 2008-12-18 02:29

大陸女孩講金的程度分分鐘勁過好多港女...特别係果D"獨生女"!!
作者: Nokia    時間: 2008-12-18 23:16     標題: 回復 36# 的帖子

ilsan: why did you say that?
作者: 小叻    時間: 2008-12-18 23:30

Not every hong kong girl is materialist la~ I dun mind my bf is poor!! as long as he treats me well.. there is no point to choose a rich guy..give u $$ but cheat on you.. (just my opinion only la)
No matter where the girl comes from.. the most important thing is her personality.
作者: shutterbug    時間: 2008-12-19 08:03

many girls believe that rich man will cheat, poor man will cheat, of course pick the rich one la...lol

"personality" is influenced by where you come from, like hk gal, tw gal, etc....
作者: Catpiano    時間: 2008-12-19 08:15

原帖由 shutterbug 於 2008-12-19 09:03 發表
many girls believe that rich man will cheat, poor man will cheat, of course pick the rich one la...lol



And 倪震 will cheat .....  
作者: tiffiant    時間: 2008-12-20 11:49

oh ****,. he got kidnapped in $$$$$$$$$$$



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