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作者: maggielikl 時間: 2009-1-7 14:55 標題: 想請陪月及鐘點清潔

本人家住溫西區, 7月第3個小孩出世, 想問下溫哥華有無陪月請呢?

另本人想請人做鐘點清潔, 一星期一日, 上午9時至2點, 可以在那兒請呢?

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2009-1-7 16:21

Actually .. can someone tell me . what the heck is 陪月???

I never heard about it .. but then of course, till now ..some people ask me .. if I hire someone to 陪月 ???

Is it s chinese culture stuff?? do white people do it?? Can I do it for my wife??

To me .. sounds la. 陪月 is 陪 my wife for one month ..??

作者: yungfourfour 時間: 2009-1-7 16:34

I have 1 recommendation for 鐘點清潔 cuz she works for my frd every 2-3 weeks, ho chi $16/hour
interested?

作者: low_B 時間: 2009-1-7 17:52

原帖由 yungfourfour 於 7-1-2009 16:34 發表
I have 1 recommendation for 鐘點清潔 cuz she works for my frd every 2-3 weeks, ho chi $16/hour
interested?

Oh! I'm interest too! Any min charge?

作者: shutterbug 時間: 2009-1-7 18:53

原帖由 Catpiano 於 2009-1-7 17:21 發表
Actually .. can someone tell me . what the heck is 陪月???

I never heard about it .. but then of course, till now ..some people ask me .. if I hire someone to 陪月 ???

Is it s chinese culture stuf ...

Is just a helper to help the mom with pretty much "everything" in the first month or so, might sleep at your place too.

作者: kaimui22 時間: 2009-1-8 00:34

I asked before I had my baby too...
there are many of these companies listed in the TV book issued by Fairchild...
you can choose from HK style, TW style and CH style 陪月 because each will use different ingredients and different foods

HK style is ginger+vinegar
TW style is rice vinegar, rice wine + sesame oil
CH style is mostly rice wine

minimum 4 hours a day, about $15/hour
plus $400 commission to the company who suggests the person to you...
and then about $1000 for the food/groceries
so probably around $3000 a month

in the end, I didn't hire them
i ended up ordering just the meal service for $2700/month
they delivery once a day in the morning, 2 bowls of chinese herb soups, 4 desserts, 2 rice, 7 dishes (including one fish) and also a pot of tea (like ginger tea)
it's enough to feed a family of 4...haha

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2009-1-8 00:46

陪月 same as "Sit  月"

Oh ..  ginger ..  rice ..  vinegar .. I dont like to eat those stuffs wor ..

But I like sesame ..

Oh no .. we need to eat those for a month??

Isn't steak or pork better for recover??

作者: kaimui22 時間: 2009-1-8 01:08

ha....no one likes those things la..
everyday I have to eat ginger rice, ginger tea, oily pork liver..etc etc
it's suppose to keep your body warm and help you contract and get rid of all the toxins and old blood in your body
but I must admit, the oily stuff does help me get rid of all the toxins faster than normal...but then you'll have diarrhea everyday >_< oh well, it will help you lose weight

also...proper "sit month" you are not suppose to wash your hair or take a bath/shower, and you should not go out at all....

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2009-1-8 01:10

not wash hair ?? oh no . .then I won't sleep with my wife ..

but no reason to do that wor ??

I never heard anything like that .. many of my co worker ..  with new born baby ..  just few days old .. bring to work la.. even the mom too ....

Don't play me la.. I am first time father .. and none of my co worker asked me or my wife to stay home wor ..

Um .. if my wife has to eat ginger stuffs .. then I better go out to eat sushi and steak la..

or just have a trip to Vancouver !

[ 本帖最後由 Catpiano 於 2009-1-8 02:12 編輯 ]

作者: kabuki 時間: 2009-1-8 02:08

原帖由 Catpiano 於 2009-1-8 02:10 發表
not wash hair ?? oh no . .then I won't sleep with my wife ..

but no reason to do that wor ??

I never heard anything like that .. many of my co worker .. with new born baby .. just few days ...

ai ya CP... "sit month" is very VERY important for a woman ga~~ i heard one TW star said.. she really followed all the old school rules after she gave birth... and her body is now much stronger then b4 she gave birth... esp those common woman problems are gone afterwards... so ask ur wife to be good ar~~ and most importantly encourage her to be good and don’t complain abt it to her~~

作者: kaimui22 時間: 2009-1-8 04:49

yeah...the no wash hair part is very hard to do..but its suppose to do something with not getting "wind" into her head...if she washes her hair too early she will have headache when older

and CP, you mention about not sleeping with your wife because she is dirty/oily? HA HA,..with a newborn you will hardly be sleeping AT ALL

but I have to agree "sit month" is very important...eventhough I don't listen to every rule my aunties give me. but it does make a big difference in the recovery. For my first baby, I took a shower in the hospital (the nurses told me to) and also I went out to buy diapers the day I got out of the hospital..ended up with a very slow recovery....

this time, I refused to take a shower in the hospital and didn't take one until 4-5 days later. Also I didn't go out until a week later and my body recovered 50% faster

also, the first time I didn't eat all the foods I was supposed to...and this time I ate everything I should and cut out everything I shouldn't (no cold foods) and now I am almost fully recovered (3 weeks after my c-section)

so..."sit month" DOES make a big difference. If you want your wife's body to be strong, make sure she follows at least some of the rules her elders might give her

作者: kabuki 時間: 2009-1-8 05:02

Actually from the tv show, the star said that she got one of those African braces for her hair, and she would rub it a few times a day with rubbing alcohol…. And also she used hot water with ginger? Or herbs? To wipe her body a few times a day...all done in a very warm room....
she didn’t go out and had all those Chinese herb soup for a month…. although it sounds crazy but if u do the math, it’s totally worth it~~ one month of suffering but healthy body for life~~

BTW, congratulations to all you new/soon to be mom + dads~~ ^^

[ 本帖最後由 kabuki 於 2009-1-8 06:04 編輯 ]

作者: maggielikl 時間: 2009-1-8 20:19

原帖由 kaimui22 於 2009-1-8 01:34 發表
I asked before I had my baby too...
there are many of these companies listed in the TV book issued by Fairchild...
you can choose from HK style, TW style and CH style 陪月 because each will use differ ...

多謝你的寶貴資料!

如你找到合適陪月/送月子餐的更多資料的話, 我否也給我有關資料嗎?

謝謝!

作者: nickylau98 時間: 2009-2-7 12:30 標題: 回復 3# 的帖子

Hello, would you be able to give the contact info of the 鐘點 you recommended? I am looking for a 鐘點 to clean my apartment once every other week. Than you v much!

作者: tofu 時間: 2009-2-17 01:13

if you type in 月子餐 at google.com.tw, you will find lot of 食譜.  from day 1 to 1 mth.

here is the basic idea.

第一週：（第一天至第七天）：本週為平補週，不宜大補特補，也不可以吃麻油類料理。

第二週：（第八天至第十四天）本週為-溫補週‧以麻油或茶油料理。

第三週及第四週：（第十五天至滿月）本週為-熱補週~滿月，以全酒或麻油料理。

in the old days, you shouldn't wash your hair for a mth.  b/c they don't have hair dryer ma.  now a day, just make sure you dry your hair asap.

if you don't really wash your hair, you can get some dry cleaning product from the korean/taiwenese hair products store.  clean your hair without water.

you can find a helper from the chinese newspaper, reasonable price but mostly are cash only.

作者: louiebb 時間: 2009-4-28 22:40

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作者: meowmeowmeow 時間: 2009-4-29 00:09

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louiebb 發表於 2009-4-28 23:40

sounds good bohhh

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