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原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-9 17:00 發表
There might be many bad examples out of this small forum. I didn't initiate to pin point anyone here particularly, but just talking about general case. If to point out anyone here with name, very lik ...
<- 這是麥莊莊~
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原帖由 mcjohnjohn 於 2009-1-9 07:20 發表
真開心, 到而家起碼都有三個人話我冇以上既問題.
而且都仲未有人話我 "背祖離宗、枉為國人" & "出賣尊嚴、自我作賤 "~
請大家繼續踴躍投票! 我一號麥莊莊, 一票也不能少!!!...
原帖由 habitrailspace 於 2009-1-9 10:01 發表
vow this topic just like the energized bunny, keep on going...
is not fair pointing fingers at christian only.
that "bad apple" doesn't represent their true god or followers.
it's hard to find a tr ...
原帖由 angeldevil 於 2009-1-9 13:57 發表
i'm a Christian...
& I disagree with the 8 accusations since I'm not doing these...
原帖由 BiscottiGelato 於 2009-1-9 04:04 發表
I believe we are talking Christians in general. 唔係你想對 number 坐就有得坐. 係成間呀, 個個位都講緊.
原帖由 daimo 於 2009-1-9 14:46 發表
Kudos to you. At least you are admitting that these 2 posts are focusing on ALL Christians.
原帖由 chunsh 於 2009-1-9 14:51 發表
its just depends
if u havn't done those 8 things, then u are not the one who is being targeted to
3)仇視科學、指鹿為馬
原帖由 angeldevil 於 2009-1-9 12:57 發表
i'm a Christian...
& I disagree with the 8 accusations since I'm not doing these...
原帖由 daimo 於 2009-1-9 14:53 發表
I'm sure you understand the difference between the 2 below:
a) Christians in general
b) Christians who have done the 8 things.

原帖由 samsung 於 2009-1-9 15:13 發表
salute to you, MJJ.
you want these ppl be free from being accused for hate crime?![]()
原帖由 daimo 於 2009-1-9 13:46 發表
Kudos to you. At least you are admitting that these 2 posts are focusing on ALL Christians.
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-9 15:41 發表
Of course, there must be a main subject for any discussion or else it becomes meaningless and time wasting. And thus as stated clearly on the topic title, that is the main subject for discussion. It ...
原帖由 daimo 於 2009-1-9 16:07 發表
Using your example, you are actually saying something like "do you think Canon cameras have 八大惡劣特徵?"
"It doesn't necessary has against or attacking act."
It's not up to you to determine if ...
) teach you what stereotype is and it is not a good thing? If not, I will tell you here.原帖由 BiscottiGelato 於 2009-1-9 17:32 發表
I'd think that it's useful for the group getting stereotyped to know why they are being stereotyped... Some people want to find out why other people think of them a certain way and possibly improve on that, other people just want to stay ignorant....
Isn't it to their benefit that people are being honest and willing to discuss this? Instead some BS is introduced to the thread to disrupt what is really to their benefit...

原帖由 chunsh 於 2009-1-9 14:42 發表
oh REALLY?!!
do u mind telling me your opinion about "Goonn Yum", "Guan Dai" and Buddah
and tell me about some churches of christianality disagreement about trinity, the actual birthday of Jesus and ...
well, I used to believe in Goon Yum, Guddah & Guan Dai...
I used to do fortune telling myself...
I believed in tarot cards, face & hand readings... kau chim & all that...
I eat veggie, go to the tem ...
原帖由 daimo 於 2009-1-9 13:53 發表
I'm sure you understand the difference between the 2 below:
a) Christians in general
b) Christians who have done the 8 things.
原帖由 angeldevil 於 2009-1-10 01:27 發表
well, I used to believe in Goon Yum, Guddah & Guan Dai...
I used to do fortune telling myself...
I believed in tarot cards, face & hand readings... kau chim & all that...
I eat veggie, go to the tem ...
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-10 02:46 發表
Now you assume that Christians in general don't have any of these 8 things. Who tell you Christians with one or more of these 8 things are abnormal? This might be the most general and common case of ...
原帖由 chunsh 於 2009-1-10 03:54 發表
good for you that u have find a way to be happy in your life
and I wish my observation to the christians/chirstianality/churches nowaday is correct: They won't do too much hard-sell to non-believers and spreading their religion by stepping on other people's religion.
let me share mine exp
instead of reading a book with nobody can claim he/she understand the true meaning of each sentence of the bible by the name of god. I would like to 體驗這個世界 by reading news, uncensored real-life video/pictures in battle fields, 3rd worlds 來斷定究竟神的愛是不是滿佈這個世界
if I think back, I think 我和你既相似又不像
我小時候在香港是在天主教 & 基督教學校度過了九年歲月
在開頭的7-8年我有用心上聖經課﹐早會時候會參與pray﹐我沒有領洗﹐不會每餐飯之
前都pray, 沒有每星期返gatherings。 但我對Bible teachings 並沒有抗拒。並覺
得世界應該真的是有神的愛exist somewhere。但最後的一年﹐我開始不信了﹐總覺得那些teaching有些不對勁。至於那些不對勁﹐我不知道﹐亦不理會。
後來到了加拿大﹐開頭的兩年比較多點時間去想些東西(即係無聊)﹐又開始留意時事﹐看電視新聞﹐讀報(正版同社論)開始更加對聖經teachings同關於神的愛的事情更加質疑。曾和一些基督徒討論﹐但都沒有結果。有人問我為何我不去找牧師討論呢。我有想過﹐但as time goes by﹐ 我覺得沒有必要。 先不說那些什麼神造論 / big bang 論﹐什麼自有永有成不成立﹐我發覺﹐這個世界﹐每天﹐每時每分每秒都有無辜的人枉死(被謀 / 屠殺, cancer, accident etc)﹐而那個常常都高高在上的﹐所謂滿佈慈愛的神﹐有能力去無所不用其極的對異己屠殺(自己看舊約聖經同last chapter of bible) 卻對現今的人見死不救!!!!
有基督徒和我說﹐那些人受苦 / 被殺害是因為人類自己作的"業"﹐好像那些挑起戰爭的政府﹐毒犯﹐etc。唔聽由自可﹐聽左把幾兩把火! 對﹐ 是人類自己挑起戰爭﹐所以他們的國民才會枉死﹐挨hungry and then die with agony。但看著那些在圖中 / video中被炸到所有粉身碎骨既兒童 / 老弱﹐我問﹐為什麼死的不是那些挑起戰爭的狂人﹐而是兒童呢? 為什麼受苦的﹐會是抱著自己孩子屍體的母親呢? 之後我有再問﹐但答案都只有令我更加失望同光火。我開始覺得﹐我小時候那9年的生活中﹐ 俾人昆左。俾人昆左﹐就梗係更加不認同那些teachings了
而今年﹐我有機會去參與2﹐3次一個教會的gatherings﹐ 有分享﹐有聽道。但更加發覺他們大部份所講的道理我都不認同﹐and無意間被我發覺信眾之中出現了那8個問題:
自命屬靈、排斥異己 (please note, I was not the one who was being targeted)
教派衝突、狗咬狗骨 (this is second time I heard about the disagreement
about some chirstianality teachings between different group of christian)
I was like...."forget it man. you guys have fun, see ya!"
但同時﹐我also發覺現今的教會對傳道和對其他宗教的表面態度有別與從前。起碼﹐並沒有好像我的中學老師那樣 insult 其他宗教。這是一件好事。
原帖由 samsung 於 2009-1-10 13:39 發表
chunsh:
while listening to your story, I feel bad for you...
至於那些不對勁﹐我不知道﹐亦不理會.
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-10 07:40 發表
Don't want to waste time to argue pointless defensive response. How about I change the title to "Most 基督徒's八大惡劣特徵"? Feeling better and more realistic now?
The fact is, since human is not per ...
原帖由 Austin 於 2009-1-10 19:54 發表
Regardless of how you change your title, the thread is still sterotyping a group of people, which, in our Canadian society is unaccetpable. The problem with sterotyping is that it cloud your mind i ...
原帖由 Austin 於 2009-1-10 19:54 發表
Regardless of how you change your title, the thread is still sterotyping a group of people, which, in our Canadian society is unaccetpable. The problem with sterotyping is that it cloud your mind i ...
原帖由 Austin 於 2009-1-10 18:54 發表
Regardless of how you change your title, the thread is still sterotyping a group of people, which, in our Canadian society is unaccetpable. The problem with sterotyping is that it cloud your mind i ...
原帖由 angeldevil 於 2009-1-10 00:27 發表
I understand where do all these 8 points come from coz i've been to this kind of situation...
but now i'm confident enough to say that I disagree...
原帖由 chunsh 於 2009-1-11 11:30 發表
really unacceptable?
I always heard some LYK always said that the people who work in Canada are more in slacking atttiude. THis is a sterotype too. um.....where were u, Austin
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-11 16:06 發表
You disagree because you had gone thru it. But then, this implies it is like a "must go thru stage" for all Christians? That means all these 8 points are somehow valid, at least in a certain stage.
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-11 14:00 發表
Moreover, how if I open a thread and say: "Most (or even all) Christians are kind people" and "Most (or all) Christians feel more mercy"? Would you (people) say I'm stereotyping and stop me saying that? People (maybe especially most Christians) just want to hear nice comments, they just bounce back all the negative even it's constructive comments. 問心la!
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-10 23:00 發表
I wonder if you know the meaning of stereotyping? Stereotyping means all of a kind, which I changed to most of a kind already, means not stereotyping.
Moreover, how if I open a thread and say: "Mos ...
原帖由 chunsh 於 2009-1-10 20:30 發表
really unacceptable?
I always heard some LYK always said that the people who work in Canada are more in slacking atttiude. THis is a sterotype too. um.....where were u, Austin
原帖由 Austin 於 2009-1-11 05:43 發表
Stereotype is simply a generalization opinion of a group of people. Whether it's "all" or "most", it's still generalizing them.
I'm sure if someone post a topic generalizing Christians as goodie do-gooders, people like yourself and Chunsh would jump in and argue the point. So no difference here.
For me, I think it's okay to talk about the bad things, but don't stereotype, talk about it case by case.
原帖由 Austin 於 2009-1-11 06:43 發表
I'm sure if someone post a topic generalizing Christians as goodie do-gooders, people like yourself and Chunsh would jump in and argue the point. So no difference here.
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-11 08:57 發表
How about I say "All cats like to eat fish" and "Most dogs will obey/listen to their owners"? Am I still stereotyping? Only because you people think those 8 things are not really existing at all. Or ...
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-11 09:25 發表
As BG mentioned, why there are some of these 8 characters have a lot less votes than others if people are stereotyping? Why the lowest has just 1 vote but the highest could up to 17 (up to now)? Peopl ...
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-11 23:57 發表
Of course, even I say there is only a few Christians have these 8 things in the whole world, there must be "someone" coming up and deny it. And that "someone" is very likely a Christian but not non-believer. Why? Cuz only people in that particular group will defend. Just like your comment, you don't think there will be a Christian saying "no, Christians are not kind and mercy" but only non-believers will. This kind of saying other people are stereotyping all because of certain people don't want to face the truth, not because of whether the issue is stereotyping or not, which it is always an excuse.
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-11 23:57 發表
How about I say "All cats like to eat fish" and "Most dogs will obey/listen to their owners"? Am I still stereotyping? Only because you people think those 8 things are not really existing at all. Or how about I say "1 out of 10 Christians have these 8 things" or "8 out of 10 Christians have these 8 things"? To you people, I'm still stereotyping, all because of you guys don't want to face the truth to non-believers' eyes.
原帖由 Austin 於 2009-1-11 17:32 發表
Yes, that is still stereotyping. My cats don't like to eat fish. And I know many dogs don't obey to their owner. So what make your opinion the "truth" and mine is not?
Look here, I am not denying those things and those Christians exist. Of course they do, but to say most Christians are that way is irresponsible. There are over 8 million Protestants in Canada alone, so how many you've come across to come to the conclusion that most Christians are how you described.
And let me make it clear to you, I'm not a Christian. I'm just sick of those anti-christians finding any and every way to attack people. Just like I'm sick of those anti-gay or racist attacks.
If you want to post your experience, that's fine, to stereotype a group of people is wrong.
原帖由 Austin 於 2009-1-11 17:53 發表
Because voters are probably voting based on their feeling of that group of people, not necessaily having ATTACK in mind.
The funny thing is, if like some people believe, that LYK are mostly Christians, and if Christians can't accept "the truth", then how come the highest vote isn't "none of the above"?
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-12 14:00 發表
This is kind of silly and childish argument.
For example, I say: "usually human have two eyes and one nose." And you say I'm stereotyping, cuz there are babies only have one eye and no nose in born. ...
原帖由 kisstherain 於 2009-1-11 22:22 發表
People stereotype because they are lazy to find out the truth.
They will 'remember' when they see people from a certain group doing things that fit their assumption. They tend to forget or ignore when people from certain group doing something not fitting their assumption. A lot of people goes "See, it's a Richmond c 9 driving again" when they see a Chinese woman not driving so well in Richmond. But do they say anything or even notice women drive alright in Richmond?
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-12 15:07 發表
Same to you, mjj. You're now stereotyping the possibility of how this result came out.
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-12 15:19 發表
Why there are troublesome people who like to make things more complicated, and even worse, turn nothing to a problem, and enlarge a small problem to a big one?
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-12 00:05 發表
You better watch out for your own words. Or someone will come up and whine, say you're now stereotyping people who stereotype are all lazy people.
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-12 17:20 發表
You said: "睇投票既數據, 就知道LYK既voter遇到差既基督徒既機會係大過遇著好既基督徒!"
To someone's pov, how do you know all "LYK既voter遇到差既基督徒既機會係大過遇著好既基督徒"? One of the other chances is, some LYK might 遇到好既基督徒, but just want to pump up the voting result? And lots more possibilities. So you're stereotyping there is only one possibility.
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-11 23:00 發表
This is kind of silly and childish argument.
For example, I say: "usually human have two eyes and one nose." And you say I'm stereotyping, cuz there are babies only have one eye and no nose in born. ...
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-12 00:19 發表
My knowledge and understanding of the meaning of the use of some adjectives are as below:
- almost all
example: There are 10 apples on my table, 9 in red, and 1 in green.
I would say "Almost all the ...
原帖由 Austin 於 2009-1-12 04:36 發表
1) Blonde are stupid
2) Most blonde are stupid
3) 8 stupid things that blonde are doing
4) People who don't think blondes are stupid just not willing to face the truth
原帖由 chunsh 於 2009-1-12 09:55 發表
in matter of speaking, I will use your example, and please 唔好又有一個走出來話唔知我講mud
no one here said "most blonde are stupid", but we, at least I said, every sterotype must not come from no w ...
原帖由 Austin 於 2009-1-12 03:36 發表
example: There are 10 apples on my table, 9 in red, and 1 in green.
I would say "Almost all the apples on my table are in red".
Question: Am I stereotyping?
Answer: No, you are not stereotyping bec ...
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-12 11:45 發表
Yes, both of us try to make solid and valid examples that are "countable".
However, how to describe some/many cases that are very general and popular in some/many people's mind? Such as, can people ...
原帖由 Austin 於 2009-1-12 11:10 發表
So based on what you said, people who would say that it's stereotyping to say "blondes are stupid" is just making things more complicated and turning nothing to problems.

原帖由 Littleprince 於 2009-1-12 13:14 發表
我認識很多人都對基督徒有很多不滿﹐可是要他們說“大多數基督徒都是不好”﹐或“耶穌/耶和華/基督教不好”﹐他們卻不同意﹐我都不明白點解呢﹐也許﹐他們心底也是有仔細想過的﹐而不是盲目和應別人吧。。。
可是不管如何﹐我們知道 ...
原帖由 Littleprince 於 2009-1-12 12:14 發表
...可是不管如何﹐我們知道無論信與不信的人﹐都是神所造﹐神所愛的﹐無論兒子如何不認父親﹐父親一樣以無私的愛愛他﹐那是因為他是父親所愛的兒子啊﹐我們要學效父親﹐所以都只會為不認父親的婉惜概嘆﹐卻不會恨他們﹐相反﹐希望他們有朝一日醒覺過來﹐重新認識造他又一直以不變的愛愛他的父。。。
原帖由 Austin 於 2009-1-12 14:02 發表
That's right. That's because I'm applying your logic.
Actually, I'm just saying this case is the same as the "blonde" case. I didn't apply to all cases
原帖由 Ultraman 於 2009-1-12 18:40 發表
To Christians/believers, all human are made by God; but to non-believers, not all of them think in this way.
From Christians/believers POV: no matter people believe it or not, all human made by God. ...

原帖由 Austin 於 2009-1-13 03:21 發表
Taste of meat and love of woman are personal preferences, the existen of God and whether God create human are not, but the belief of God and creation human is personal preference. In this case, obv ...
原帖由 Austin 於 2009-1-13 04:21 發表
Taste of meat and love of woman are personal preferences, the existen of God and whether God create human are not, but the belief of God and creation human is personal preference. In this case, obv ...
原帖由 soli 於 2009-1-13 14:08 發表
http://hk.youtube.com/watch?v=gNkoY6xuNO8
蘇穎智耶棍唔贊成咩personal preference 窩
仲想要阻止立法﹐話立法會令更多人同性同居(戀)﹐佢係咪痴左線呀?
唔通又係邪靈附體? ...
原帖由 soli 於 2009-1-13 14:08 發表
http://hk.youtube.com/watch?v=gNkoY6xuNO8
蘇穎智耶棍唔贊成咩personal preference 窩
仲想要阻止立法﹐話立法會令更多人同性同居(戀)﹐佢係咪痴左線呀?
唔通又係邪靈附體? ...

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