Is sex crucial in a relationship?

Caffie

如題. Many people can have sex without love, but how about the other way around?

Littleprince

有愛無性﹖ 當然可以喇 (我只係話女仔咋﹐男仔。。。難說得很。。。不如又整個 POLL問下人﹖)

unless you have a really good reason

rainbow-davie

Impossible..
Because what you ask is a something not in reality.

MyOMy

Well, put in this way, sex make love more loving. (That is why people say " having sex" is "making love").  love with or without sex is very much personal preference. But this preference should mutually acceptable to both parties in order to substain a relationship.

Ultraman

OK, I'm a guy. I do think 有愛無性 is not a problem at all. But 有性無愛 is surely is.

Caffie

My boyfriend and I are both Christians... we don't do it but we do have urges to sometimes.. he doesn't believe in pre-marital sex (My first time knowing a guy like this) and thinks that being too sexual won't build a strong relationship.

ACC-HE

It works, but not easy.

Set your limit, and both of you try your very very best to respect it.

Catpiano

Good to hear the other way around ..    ( usually is the girl side refusing ... )

MyOMy

原帖由 Caffie 於 2009-2-21 22:27 發表
My boyfriend and I are both Christians... we don't do it but we do have urges to sometimes.. he doesn't believe in pre-marital sex (My first time knowing a guy like this) and thinks that being too sex ...

If you have something of grandeur and both you guys share the same, it is good.