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標題: 《愛的承諾》有朝一日我們結婚，你會將所有收入交給我嗎? [打印本頁]

作者: daimo 時間: 2009-3-10 21:26 標題: 《愛的承諾》有朝一日我們結婚，你會將所有收入交給我嗎?

[ 本帖最後由 daimo 於 2009-3-10 22:40 編輯 ]

作者: 小叻 時間: 2009-3-10 21:27

二話不說: 我願意

作者: tofu 時間: 2009-3-10 22:20

why not, as long as he can handle the money better than i do and i have money to use

作者: daimo 時間: 2009-3-10 22:28

突然耳畔響起"怎麼天生不是女人" ....

作者: BiscottiGelato 時間: 2009-3-10 22:32

eh... 一人計短, 二人計長, 有商有量, 有話分邊個打邊個 D 錢, 比定唔比咁老土架咩?

I'm not married, that's why i'm asking...

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-3-10 23:41

I would, put my large portion and my other half's large portion to our join account (for general daily use), and leave my small portion and her small portion for our own use (our own separate a/c), so as to buy some small surprising gifts to each other from time to time without notice by each other! Hehe.....

作者: MiCo 時間: 2009-3-10 23:43

as a girl, i've been told that the dumbest thing u can do is to hand all ur money over to ur man

作者: ricrick 時間: 2009-3-11 00:10

女人愛結婚，也愛為錢結婚

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-3-11 00:31

原帖由 MiCo 於 2009-3-11 15:43 發表
as a girl, i've been told that the dumbest thing u can do is to hand all ur money over to ur man

do you think it is also the dumbest thing that a man hand all of his mone to a girl? hehe...

作者: sheep 時間: 2009-3-11 09:26

Why put an equal sign between commitment and money?

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-3-11 10:00

I do not have any personal account, all my accounts are joint account with my wife.

作者: 小叻 時間: 2009-3-11 10:00

原帖由 MiCo 於 10-3-2009 23:43 發表
as a girl, i've been told that the dumbest thing u can do is to hand all ur money over to ur man

It would be the dumbest thing if you choose a wrong husband..

作者: daimo 時間: 2009-3-11 10:23

The dumbest thing is to make a decision (to marry or ditch a guy) based on that one question/answer.

作者: MAXIMUS 時間: 2009-3-11 12:16

原帖由 tofu 於 2009-3-10 23:20 發表
why not, as long as he can handle the money better than i do and i have money to use

I would, when I met my Cinderella

作者: Hyde 時間: 2009-3-11 12:59

obviously her husband is her bitch....

i dont think i'll ever let my wife know how much money i have, she should be happy that i give her money to spend already.

作者: tapioca 時間: 2009-3-11 18:48

Not sure how exactly the husband gives all the money to his wife. Does he put all his money into her personal account? or it is a joint account but she just do all the financial management decision?

Having just a single personal account with all the money of the couple could be dangerous, what if one day the wife ran into an accident and unconscious, or stuck at another country and need emergency fund; then the husband would have no authority/access to the account, is that right?

haha.. back to this case, the husband is the boss of a company (if I don't remember it wrong). The wife probably doesn't know how much he is making each month as it won't be the same, so he might just give her a portion of his income and keep all the profits, bonus in his pocket...haha.. I just think too much..

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2009-3-11 19:49

OF COURSE LA!!

I didn't even think ..

" Honey, My loan is your loan, your loan is your loan .. my debt is your debt, your debt is your debt .. "

作者: MiCo 時間: 2009-3-13 00:49

原帖由 mcjohnjohn 於 2009-3-11 01:31 發表

do you think it is also the dumbest thing that a man hand all of his mone to a girl? hehe...

i agree with that too, either side having too much control over monetary issues within the household is relative to having a time bomb when one side can't take it anymore me thinks.

"ur money is my money, my money is my money <3"

作者: MiCo 時間: 2009-3-13 00:51

原帖由小叻於 2009-3-11 11:00 發表

It would be the dumbest thing if you choose a wrong husband..

unless u sign a pre-nup + share all his assets when divorce <3

作者: benyaoguai 時間: 2009-3-13 02:12

i think couple should have 1 joint account~ but .. i don't think it's necessary to put all income in that account maybe just portion of income into shared account for convenience purposes.. @.@
but everybody should still have their own financial freedom on some level @.@

作者: 蛋撻 時間: 2009-3-19 12:41

I guess I would... as long as she's not a gold digger and we get to SHARE the money...

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-3-19 15:06

我們經濟完全獨立﹐可是我的戶口全部加他的名只是為怕有朝一日我有咩事益左政府咋﹐係我主動提出的。。。

但係作為女性﹐就算另一半不會真的這樣做﹐只要“肯”這樣承諾我都會感到很感動了。。。

作者: prelude318is 時間: 2009-3-19 15:17

As a girl, in my personal point of view........ I think a relationship can't use money to "measure" the love from a guy...... I believe trust and respect is the most important........

作者: kidney 時間: 2009-3-19 22:40

我全副身家得雞碎甘多+0收入，鐘意咪lor去．．．ｈａｈａｈａ

作者: prelude318is 時間: 2009-3-20 21:29

as a girl, i've been told that the dumbest thing u can do is to hand all ur money over to ur man
MiCo 發表於 2009-3-11 00:43

你睇真d佢篇野寫係話,"有朝一日我地結婚，你會將所有收入交給我嗎？"
唔係佢同你一齊擁有。

我覺得佢有d係度晒緊自己老公，同埋我覺得佢有小小港女feel。個故事一d都唔感動，乜比晒d錢你就代表對你好咩？淨係用一個禁既問題去判斷個男人嫁唔嫁得過，真係有d草率。

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