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作者: 布小熊 時間: 2009-3-26 10:14 標題: 港男‧港女舌戰舞台

詹瑞文推新劇回歸根本談「愛」

【明報專訊】港男、港女話題近日再引發性別罵戰，一句說就刺中對方神經，招來萬箭穿心。舞台創作人詹瑞文乘這場爭論提前推出舞台劇《港女發狂之港男發瘟》，指出不論港男、港女，歸根究柢就是未婚尋伴侶人士眼中「不達標的男或女」，在消費主義作祟下，「揀人如揀貨」。當全城興高采烈狠批港男、港女淪為「次貨」同時，不如聽阿詹講一講緣分，回歸最基本問題講「愛」。
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詹瑞文認為，港女在早前討論港男、港女的《星期日檔案》節目中敗陣，港男變成電車男受害者，女性則貫徹其港女形象，...
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在消費主意下，男女關係變成一種買賣關係，「人人心目中都有一個list(清單)，就好像揀貨物那樣，購買一些要求，又因為內心欠缺安全感，用謾罵方式把自己呈現為有要求的現代人」。

靈感來自反港女/港男大聯盟
詹瑞文坦言《港女發狂》最終還是要回歸最基本問題講「相愛是什麼」，「如果大家死都不相信有緣分，所有事亦只是一種消費，人與人之間亦是一種消費」。

http://www.mingpaonews.com/20090326/gza01.htm

I remember that we brought up similar ideas in the previous lyk discussion. 港女 see themselves as a 貨. So how about true love?

作者: goldie 時間: 2009-3-26 10:29

we are not 港女, we are 加女,
加女 believes in true love.

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2009-3-26 11:40

so .. we are 加男 ?

作者: B仔 時間: 2009-3-26 11:43

Singles in Canada = 加禽？

作者: siumaibb 時間: 2009-3-26 12:54

Singles in Canada = 加禽？
B仔發表於 2009-3-26 11:43

男定女先？女就最好唔好做加禽啦。。。actually，男女都唔好啦

I think 港男港女 are social problems, not individual problems......

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-3-26 14:01

如果遇上真愛﹐呢D所謂條件都只係次要﹐因為當你愛上了某人﹐眼中所有缺點都會變成優點。。。聽落係好理想化﹐因為也許呢個年頭﹐真愛已經好難找到

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-3-26 14:05

呢個 FORUM 以前開過一個 POLL﹐男 LYK 都話情願娶外籍女都好過港女。。。但其實想深一層喇﹐娶了台女﹐她們會了解你說的集體回憶童年遊戲零食嗎﹖娶了日女﹐她們會懂得你懷念皇后碼頭的情懷嗎﹖總之講來講去﹐港男港女幾唔好都好﹐港男港女都係絕配﹐都係彼此最佳的伴侶

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2009-3-26 14:22

From the current use of the term, I think there is a difference between 港男港女 and ppl who were from/grown up in Hong Kong.

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-3-26 14:31

可惜整整下D人個個對號入座呢。。。
就算自己明明無所謂“港女”的特點﹐但聽人講“港女”都會覺得好慶﹐都會起來攻擊。。。相反港男亦如是。。。

作者: 小叻 時間: 2009-3-26 14:38

甘我都覺得香港D女仔唔抵爭~ 好似條片中訪問某D女仔覺得港男係點~其中有個女仔話D港男唔梳頭~但係果個女仔個頭都唔係好得去邊~ 眼角太高啦~

作者: B仔 時間: 2009-3-26 14:45

可惜整整下D人個個對號入座呢。。。
就算自己明明無所謂“港女”的特點﹐但聽人講“港女”都會覺得好慶﹐都會起來攻擊。。。相反港男亦如是。。。 ...
Littleprince 發表於 2009-3-26 15:31

冇入錯座丫～
果D咪拿來自己衰嘅港女港男囉～

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2009-3-26 14:50

可惜整整下D人個個對號入座呢。。。
就算自己明明無所謂“港女”的特點﹐但聽人講“港女”都會覺得好慶﹐都會起來攻擊。。。相反港男亦如是。。。 ...
Littleprince 發表於 2009-3-26 02:31 PM

Interesting wor... I haven't seen that case. I think those 港女 are so amm... "different".

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-3-26 14:55

本帖最後由 Littleprince 於 2009-3-26 15:56 編輯

其實我地移民前 (10+ 年前) 認識的香港女仔都無所謂“港女”的特點的。。。也許某D都只有些少﹐但現在看起來﹐有“港女”缺點的女孩的情況真的好普遍﹐看六師弟那部“得閒飲茶”有會心微笑。。。譬如有 D 女仔老奉使男人錢﹐出街唔帶銀包﹐或者要男人等許久﹐呢D都係好多港女的心態﹐好似覺得自己比人追就地位超然﹐其實都好唔要得。。。有時我會諗﹐會唔會係呢一代多數係菲佣湊大﹐父母沒有教育的後遺症呢﹖有天有個客人﹐係十多二十歲的香港男孩﹐講英文居然有菲律賓口音

﹐所以我諗﹐我猜的都可能有幾成中

作者: 小叻 時間: 2009-3-26 15:01

甘我想問下你地對於叫男友拎手袋有咩看法~ 依樣野係Vancouver 係very common gei...
我本人覺得手袋緊係自己拎番架啦仲乜要男友拎??

作者: 大支野 時間: 2009-3-26 15:07

依家我D朋友個個都北上揾女友, 難怪香港單生女士會甘多...

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-3-26 15:09

甘我想問下你地對於叫男友拎手袋有咩看法~ 依樣野係Vancouver 係very common gei...
我本人覺得手袋緊係自己拎番架啦仲乜要男友拎??
小叻發表於 2009-3-26 16:01

不如開新帖﹖

作者: 小叻 時間: 2009-3-26 15:11

不如開新帖﹖
Littleprince 發表於 26-3-2009 15:09

好

作者: cecity 時間: 2009-3-26 17:30

dont like 港女!! too selfhood

作者: Serenade 時間: 2009-3-27 17:18

呢個 FORUM 以前開過一個 POLL﹐男 LYK 都話情願娶外籍女都好過港女。。。但其實想深一層喇﹐娶了台女﹐她們會了解你說的集體回憶童年遊戲零食嗎﹖娶了日女﹐她們會懂得你懷念皇后碼頭的情懷嗎﹖總之講來講去﹐港男 ...
Littleprince 發表於 2009-3-27 07:05

I am sorry, but I will have to disagree. I have a Japanese GF, she might not understand everything I talked about back in the old days, but she will exclaim at what I told her, and same thing happens to what she tells me.

seriously, I just don't see a reason in HK guys continue to get abused by HK girls. as a second note, SOME PEOPLE, as I have observed on this forum, got a lot of HK girl qualities, of course they end up 對號入座, because it perfectly fits their description. Those have the problems may not necessarily accepts the fact that they hold such problems, you know what I mean littleprince?

作者: peter236 時間: 2009-3-27 17:59

I am sorry, but I will have to disagree. I have a Japanese GF, she might not understand everything I talked about back in the old days, but she will exclaim at what I told her, and same thing happen ...
Serenade 發表於 2009-3-27 18:18

Of course, when you live in Japan, you like everything Japanese, from Japanese raw fish to Japanese cream puffs. You should immigrate to Japan instead.

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-3-27 18:34

I am sorry, but I will have to disagree. I have a Japanese GF, she might not understand everything I talked about back in the old days, but she will exclaim at what I told her, and same thing happen ...
Serenade 發表於 2009-3-27 18:18

明白晒。。。就係你呢種心態造成現代男女關係係以“條件”掛帥。。。

人人只看見對方的缺點﹐有咩料﹐有咩資格。。。好似買賣關係一樣。。。若一個超級靚女﹐又比你揩油﹐就做埋觀音兵都無所謂﹐相反若是豬扒這樣﹐就叫她死開喇。。。是不是這樣呢﹖ 嘻嘻。。。。

首先﹐呢代D人有無諗下(特別係香港人)﹐人人都有缺點點解唔互相包容接納﹐或將伴侶改成更好﹐而係轉而投訴別人不夠好﹐去找別的國籍的男女 (對的﹐女仔一樣﹐聽講而家都北上找丈夫了)﹐講真﹐咩國籍的人都有好有唔好﹐若無心去愛人﹐永無辦法學懂真愛。

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-3-27 18:35

Of course, when you live in Japan, you like everything Japanese, from Japanese raw fish to Japanese cream puffs. You should immigrate to Japan instead.
peter236 發表於 2009-3-27 18:59

聽講日本好難移民架

作者: peter236 時間: 2009-3-27 19:09

I am sorry, but I will have to disagree. I have a Japanese GF, she might not understand everything I talked about back in the old days, but she will exclaim at what I told her, and same thing happen ...
Serenade 發表於 2009-3-27 18:18

In Japan, the girls/boys love LV bags even more than HK people. LV bags and other brand name stuffs can be seen everywhere. Japanese men usually give their monthly salary cheques to their wifes, and they themselves only get pocket money from their wives.

作者: tiffiant 時間: 2009-3-28 12:50

what would you do with them?
who is train man/lady here?

作者: 快樂牛郎 時間: 2009-3-28 22:47

詹瑞文認為，港女在早前討論港男、港女的《星期日檔案》節目中敗陣，港男變成電車男受害者，女性則貫徹其港女形象，...

詹sir冇野呀
港女贏成九條街
3萬一個月有幾撚多港男搵到
而且而家據聞有人出到9萬挖角
D港男仲係度十下十下

作者: shock28 時間: 2009-4-6 19:15

i like 港女, i want to control by girl now and be a 觀音兵~

作者: ricrick 時間: 2009-4-6 19:47

無所謂，遲d米個個做老姑婆law

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