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作者: 小叻 時間: 2009-3-26 15:17 標題: 會唔會叫男友拎手袋 ??

甘我想問下你地對於叫男友拎手袋有咩看法~ 依樣野係Vancouver 係好common既~~

我本人覺得手袋緊係自己拎番架啦仲乜要男友拎??

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-3-26 15:19

慘。。。我剛剛開左辯論﹐DUPLICATE 左添

作者: 小叻 時間: 2009-3-26 15:21

doesn't matter la XD I just want to know the answer~

作者: B仔 時間: 2009-3-26 15:23

一定唔會！好樣衰！！！！！
除非係譬如試衫，或者要佢幫我HOLD 一HOLD （WITHIN 一分鐘內），OTHERWISE，我好睇唔起拿著手袋的男人。

作者: 小叻 時間: 2009-3-26 15:28

一定唔會！好樣衰！！！！！
除非係譬如試衫，或者要佢幫我HOLD 一HOLD （WITHIN 一分鐘內），OTHERWISE，我好睇唔起拿著手袋的男人。
B仔發表於 26-3-2009 15:23

AGREE~ X100 我都好睇唔起拿著手袋的男人~ D女仔唔係甘樣先覺得男友錫佢好幸福呀???

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-3-26 15:32

I will help to carry the grocery and stuff but for purse? I do not think it is necessary and look good on the couples.

I will only help my wife when she goes to public washroom or changing room to try out some clothes.

作者: goldie 時間: 2009-3-26 15:44

Agree with #3, #4, #5, #6.

作者: renerene 時間: 2009-3-26 15:57

definitely NOT my purse!!! but for grocery or shopping bags, my boyfriend does help me carry some if i am carrying too much/too heavy..

LOL boyfriends carrying girlfriends' purses seems like an asian thing here in vancouver.. i don't see other ethnic group of people do that.....

作者: siumaibb 時間: 2009-3-26 16:34

it is just a bag, 洗唔洗睇唔起咁嚴重, my gf never asked me to carry her bag for her, but if she needs to use both hands and her bag got into her way, I wouldn't mind, and if she is tired and her bag is too heavy, I wouldn't mind too

作者: chobit 時間: 2009-3-26 16:39

Depends on the situation la, but I am probably too old to answer...! I would carry all kind of stuffs for my wife when it is needed..., but she carry my heavy camera bags occasionally as well. But I probably won't do it if she have empty hands..!

作者: bubblesalt 時間: 2009-3-26 16:56

一定唔會！好樣衰！！！！！
除非係譬如試衫，或者要佢幫我HOLD 一HOLD （WITHIN 一分鐘內），OTHERWISE，我好睇唔起拿著手袋的男人。
B仔發表於 2009-3-26 15:23

Totally...睇唔起拿著手袋的男人!!!

作者: Purpleheart 時間: 2009-3-26 17:02

唔得! 我男朋友會偷食晒我袋入面o的糖 and chocolate 架!! 唔制!!

作者: katamari 時間: 2009-3-26 17:06

就算我好多野拎，手袋一定係最唔想我老公拎。

老實講有Ｄ人覺得冇所謂，我同我老公係會笑Ｄ男人拎女人手袋，亦會笑Ｄ女人比手袋男人拎。

係呀我好衰架，不過肯定會笑呢Ｄ人唔止我一個哈哈！所以我唔去得ＨＫ，我會笑死哈哈哈

作者: Purpleheart 時間: 2009-3-26 17:10

我反而覺得呢度幫女仔拎手袋既男仔多o的woh....而o個o的女仔通常都係條裙短到就黎見到under 既~ 我有一次o係aberdeen 見過....

作者: fibbi 時間: 2009-3-26 17:26

I feel "unsafe" of not holding the handbag myself.
But grocery and stuff, definitely will ask hubby to carry if too heavy. But I'll also share the load if too heavy for him.

作者: Nam 時間: 2009-3-26 18:04

errr................ hmmmmmmmm............. I guess..... I'm odd here.
My mom and aunts all gang up on me because I asked my bf to hold my purse.

Ususally I will hold it but sometimes it's so heavy that it hurts my shoulder.
Then I just asked him to hold it for me lor.. ...

As long as I'm not asking him to hold a super gay looking purse, I dun see how ugly it can be wor..

Especially, guys always ask the gf/wife to put stuff in her purse, it add weight on it....

My mom and aunt said if that's the case, I should ask my bf to use a paper bag to carry his own stuff... which never happen....

作者: hium 時間: 2009-3-26 19:09

I don't like to ask my husband to carry my bag for me, i think the bag designs are usually matching for girls only

it just looks ridiculous to see men carry them around imo.

作者: ricrick 時間: 2009-3-26 19:19

errr................ hmmmmmmmm............. I guess..... I'm odd here.
My mom and aunts all gang up on me because I asked my bf to hold my purse.

Ususally I will hold it but sometimes it's so heavy ...
Nam 發表於 2009-3-26 19:04

agree... i would help if it is too heavy.. and i don' t mind to do it too. becos i am a good man! i don't feel i am a slave by doing this

but i really don't understand why girls love to bring so much stuffs????? they should use backpacks but not handbags

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2009-3-26 21:10

NEVER! well .. I think he held it for a min when I was going into the x-ray room and it was small enough that he stuff it into his pocket...
But ladies, try to put as much as you can carry into your own handbags. I usually try to use a smaller one to avoid my bf putting his stuff into my handbag. (

He dropped his camera once because he tried to put it in his jacket pocket... and it's NOT a small camera)

Anyway, I think men look super ugly when they carry female handbags. Especially those smaller size once or the pink and bling bling style ones.

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-3-26 21:30

Totally...睇唔起拿著手袋的男人!!!
bubblesalt 發表於 2009-3-27 08:56

我老婆既手袋入面, 通常都有一疊默書簿, 一疊中練簿, 又有好多文具. 除左手袋之外, 仲會有一個環保袋, 有作業, 工作紙, 週記...
一見佢拎住咁多野放工, 小弟一定會幫佢拎架! 我真係唔忍心要我既老婆拎咁多野, 無論d 人點諗都好, o係背後笑我又好, 我都冇所謂. 因為我知道自己咁做只係為左一個原因, 因為我愛我老婆.

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-3-26 21:36

唔得! 我男朋友會偷食晒我袋入面o的糖 and chocolate 架!! 唔制!!
Purpleheart 發表於 2009-3-26 18:02

谷肥他吧。。。哈哈哈。。。等第D女仔唔會看中他

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2009-3-26 22:00

我老婆既手袋入面, 通常都有一疊默書簿, 一疊中練簿, 又有好多文具. 除左手袋之外, 仲會有一個環保袋, 有作業, 工作紙, 週記...
一見佢拎住咁多野放工, 小弟一定會幫佢拎架! 我真係唔忍心要我既老婆拎咁多野, 無論d ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-3-26 09:30 PM

Should these go into a 手袋? May be they should go into a backpack or a luggage with wheels... This will be easier for your wife and yourself to carry.

作者: renerene 時間: 2009-3-26 22:09

but i often see guys carrying their girlfriends' small purses wor... not the big or heavy looking kind wor................... i doubt that the small purses they are carrying are heavy at all lor

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-3-26 22:19

Should these go into a 手袋? May be they should go into a backpack or a luggage with wheels... This will be easier for your wife and yourself to carry.
布小熊發表於 2009-3-27 14:00

我老婆果個"手袋"既容量係大過我揹緊既背囊.
佢通常都係一邊膊頭揹"手袋", 另一邊膊頭揹環保袋的.

佢有d 同事係拖喼返工, 不過我老婆話拖喼唔方便, 唔可以行得快...

作者: Nam 時間: 2009-3-26 22:25

咁手袋仔多數自己拎因為重得去邊?

但係我條頸同搏頭位成日痛，手袋重，拎一日就會更加痛，因為會累埋個頭一齊痛，仲要痛得好緊要！

可能我拎嘅袋一般都好中性化，所以我男友無咩所謂！
如果我拎名牌包包的話，又好重，我會叫佢扮拖我，咁變相一齊拎個袋，無咁覺！好少直接叫佢幫我拎！

同埋男人真係好興叫個女人幫手袋野（屋企人都係！）
銀包，手機，鎖匙，相機，shopping 嘅野，頸巾，NDS 乜鬼都話順便擠埋一齊！

有咩辦法唔重? 我細個個袋就真係多野啦，止汗，化粧袋（足夠化成個粧supply)，梳，銀包，頸巾，手機！而且我鐘意親嘅袋都傾向大袋／皮袋，質地會比較重！

作者: KY+NY 時間: 2009-3-26 22:51

我老婆既手袋入面, 通常都有一疊默書簿, 一疊中練簿, 又有好多文具. 除左手袋之外, 仲會有一個環保袋, 有作業, 工作紙, 週記...
一見佢拎住咁多野放工, 小弟一定會幫佢拎架! 我真係唔忍心要我既老婆拎咁多野, 無論d ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-3-26 22:30

你老婆同我一糢一樣咯

我就少個環保袋多個相機

作者: goldie 時間: 2009-3-26 22:54

默書簿、文具、相機……
呢個袋唔算係「手袋」，
而係工作袋喎

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2009-3-26 23:01

I carry my own bag even with a broken arm...

作者: KY+NY 時間: 2009-3-26 23:02

咁女仔係咁0既啦

咁算OK啦化妝果D女仔咪仲犀利成個化妝袋帶出街街

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-3-26 23:07

I carry my own bag even with a broken arm...
布小熊發表於 2009-3-27 15:01

你男朋友咁都唔幫你拎?...

作者: katamari 時間: 2009-3-26 23:10

默書簿、文具、相機……
呢個袋唔算係「手袋」，
而係工作袋喎
goldie 發表於 2009-3-26 23:54

係囉，你老婆個係手袋的話仲唔變晒形？

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2009-3-26 23:10

你男朋友咁都唔幫你拎?...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-3-26 11:07 PM

I won't let him... only when I went into the x-ray room, i gave it to him and he put it into his jacket pocket. I only carry a very tiny bag to hold ID, phone and $ cos I know I cannot handle more weight than that.

作者: katamari 時間: 2009-3-26 23:12

你男朋友咁都唔幫你拎?...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-3-27 00:07

唔比拎同唔幫拒拎係唔同架喎！

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-3-26 23:22

係囉，你老婆個係手袋的話仲唔變晒形？
katamari 發表於 2009-3-27 15:10

有冇變型就真係唔知, 因為佢原本係乜野型我都唔係咁清楚.
個手袋係老婆既妹妹去日本旅行送比佢既手信, 一收到就將舊袋(個樣仲殘的)既野塞哂入去, 果個時候就應該開始變型了.

其實變型都唔緊要, 千祈唔好變細左就得了.

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-3-26 23:22

唔比拎同唔幫拒拎係唔同架喎！
katamari 發表於 2009-3-27 15:12

斷左手都唔比男朋友拎手袋, 會唔會太tough 呢?

作者: giginium 時間: 2009-3-26 23:24

唔得! 我男朋友會偷食晒我袋入面o的糖 and chocolate 架!! 唔制!!
Purpleheart 發表於 2009-3-26 18:02

紫心女...妳轉o左新相啦...郝靓bor...

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-3-26 23:25

我老婆既手袋入面, 通常都有一疊默書簿, 一疊中練簿, 又有好多文具. 除左手袋之外, 仲會有一個環保袋, 有作業, 工作紙, 週記...
一見佢拎住咁多野放工, 小弟一定會幫佢拎架! 我真係唔忍心要我既老婆拎咁多野, 無論d ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-3-26 21:30

I think you confused "手袋" with "公事包" wor.

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2009-3-26 23:30

斷左手都唔比男朋友拎手袋, 會唔會太tough 呢?
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-3-26 11:22 PM

haha that's me. I will only take what I can handle myself.

作者: pc2426 時間: 2009-3-26 23:36

i will carry it myself, but sometime i will just ask to hold for some reasonable reasons (like going to washroom, talk on phone, etc)

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2009-3-26 23:36

唔比拎同唔幫拒拎係唔同架喎！
katamari 發表於 2009-3-26 11:12 PM

Actually for us, it's both ways. He doesn't want to carry it. I don't want him to carry it too.

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-3-27 00:04

Actually for us, it's both ways. He doesn't want to carry it. I don't want him to carry it too.
布小熊發表於 2009-3-26 23:36

So you two is a good matching couple! Congrats!

Actually, I admire gals who won't let their men carry their purse/handbags (provding regular situations, not exceptional cases); and I disdain those guys who enjoy doing so.

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-3-27 00:36

I think you confused "手袋" with "公事包" wor.
Ultraman 發表於 2009-3-27 15:25

應該係一個手袋型既行李喼...

作者: B仔 時間: 2009-3-27 07:57

女人手袋，有時我作為女人我唔明點解有D女人個袋咁多野。一個手袋有：電話，銀包，散紙包，鑰匙，化妝袋（內有：小鏡，粉盒，潤唇膏，唇膏，比多你一支LIPGLOSS喇。。。都夠啦？) 我當有D女仔愛自拍，擺埋個相機落去，咁都唔應該重到自己會拿到腰酸膊痛架。如有此現象，咁就要自己檢討吓，你個手袋，係咪太多廢物囉。。。
我真係唔明。。。

有時，我愛人擺佢個電話／鑰匙落嚟（個日我咩大D袋），都唔會話好重架。

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-3-27 08:01

I have seen many smaller sized girls carry huge big brand purse.

作者: B仔 時間: 2009-3-27 08:02

我聽問過，我男性朋友話，有次成班人去食飯，有個女人自認個袋乜叉都有。。。有位男仕問那女人：有冇剪刀？那女人從手袋那出一把。。。有位男士問：LASER POINTER 冇喇掛！？
那女人，居然拿出一支。。。天呀！

作者: claichan 時間: 2009-3-27 08:56

以前好慘,
個男友大男人到唔恨,
我又唔係叫佢攞住我個手袋遊街,
只係响我著褸,落車...暫時拎一分鐘都發我老脾,
話我好落佢面.
拎個手袋嗰一分鐘會落佢幾多面呀!
我後來稔,
佢個面都幾細喎!

作者: 小叻 時間: 2009-3-27 09:09

我聽問過，我男性朋友話，有次成班人去食飯，有個女人自認個袋乜叉都有。。。有位男仕問那女人：有冇剪刀？那女人從手袋那出一把。。。有位男士問：LASER POINTER 冇喇掛！？
那女人，居然拿出一支。。。天呀！ ...
B仔發表於 27-3-2009 08:02

叮噹百寶袋~~ XD

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2009-3-27 09:12

我聽問過，我男性朋友話，有次成班人去食飯，有個女人自認個袋乜叉都有。。。有位男仕問那女人：有冇剪刀？那女人從手袋那出一把。。。有位男士問：LASER POINTER 冇喇掛！？
那女人，居然拿出一支。。。天呀！ ...
B仔發表於 2009-3-27 08:02 AM

ging!!! Laser pointer

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2009-3-27 09:16

本帖最後由 somewhereintime 於 2009-3-27 09:20 編輯

ging!!! Laser pointer
布小熊發表於 2009-3-27 09:12

I've seen:
pepper spray. cuff links, leather whip, chains, foldable umbrella, conxxm, pills, drugs....

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-3-27 10:06

49# somewhereintime

what to do with leather whip, chains?

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-3-27 10:11

I've seen:
pepper spray. cuff links, leather whip, chains, foldable umbrella, conxxm, pills, drugs....
somewhereintime 發表於 2009-3-27 10:16

真有事我肯定她拿不出來。。。因為手袋太多野抄唔到

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2009-3-27 11:02

49# somewhereintime

what to do with leather whip, chains?
myversa 發表於 2009-3-27 10:06

SM gadgets, and syringe too

作者: B仔 時間: 2009-3-27 11:18

SM gadgets, and syringe too
somewhereintime 發表於 2009-3-27 12:02

那女人一定係做。。。。

作者: Caffie 時間: 2009-3-27 19:09

Not just 我睇唔起拿著手袋的男人.. but also 睇唔起 the 女人 that makes their man carry their purse.

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-3-27 19:25

Not just 我睇唔起拿著手袋的男人.. but also 睇唔起 the 女人 that makes their man carry their purse.
Caffie 發表於 2009-3-27 20:09

Give me 5

作者: Caffie 時間: 2009-3-27 20:02

55# Littleprince
*high fives*

作者: kaimui22 時間: 2009-3-27 20:28

I only give it to him to hold if I am...
1) going to the washroom not close by and don't feel safe
2) going for a medical exam (ultrasound, x-ray, blood test)

but usually on situations that I need to take my jacket off too..so he can cover my bag with a jacket

usually now, he just carries the diaper bag(s)..haha

作者: katamari 時間: 2009-3-27 21:54

Not just 我睇唔起拿著手袋的男人.. but also 睇唔起 the 女人 that makes their man carry their purse.
Caffie 發表於 2009-3-27 20:09

哈哈小心講野呢度有男人話自己鍾意拎手袋仲要爭住拎o個隻！

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-3-29 21:34

哈哈小心講野呢度有男人話自己鍾意拎手袋仲要爭住拎o個隻！
katamari 發表於 2009-3-28 13:54

小弟覺得最緊要拎果個拎得開心就得喇.

作者: abcvancouver 時間: 2010-5-12 09:46

本帖最後由 abcvancouver 於 2010-5-12 09:53 編輯

One time, me and my bf (now husband) went to 睇屋, my bf's parents were already
there.
Me and my bf was in my home and he asked me to drive since he was tired.
As usual, when I drive, I usually put my handbag on the passenger seat,
which he was siting.  So he very 順手to help me to take the handbag.  Once
we were there and got off the car, he was still helping me to carry the
handbag and went into the house, which was only steps away.

Then, after my bf was home, his dad scold him like crazy, said why you help her
to carry the handbag, there is no 男人尊嚴.  He said no one in Vancouver did that.  When I knew this, i was totally
pissed off.
I didn't really ask him to help me, he was just 順手 and I also didn't ask
him to carry the handbag for me in public area, like mall.  I also believe
carry handbag doesn't mean no no 男人尊嚴.  He scold his son like this is
more no 男人尊嚴. His dad also has double standard, my bf sister's bf did
so many things, which is more no 男人尊嚴.

Nowadays, my husband always help me to carry handbag because I always carry
my son around, which I am not able to carry my handbag.  I also want to
show his parents that he is the one who willing to do it for me, not I ask
for.

作者: habitrailspace 時間: 2010-5-12 10:03

i~ 男 <> 田+力 anymore la~

作者: MAXIMUS 時間: 2010-5-12 10:46

I dun mind at all

作者: sko 時間: 2010-5-12 17:01

本帖最後由 sko 於 2010-5-12 17:08 編輯

Crazy. You girls carry so much stuff in your bags! I try to make mine as light as possible: usually contain only a wallet, a phone, a handcream, and a chapstick.

Oh, and keys.

作者: kingkong123 時間: 2010-5-13 14:20

如果男人令手袋，不如买男装好过啦

女仔买手袋就没晒意义，不过间唔中拿下都ok的

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