Is it that hard ? to find someone you will die for?

tck

is it that hard?
i use to have one.... just because i can't give up my family and went back to hk
i gave her up
i don't know how to explain why i was so in love with her back then...
just the feeling that i still have... i am sure shes not in lyk so just want to say it out
sometime i dont' know whats the point when i have a gf and i know that
i won't die for her.. seems no point ....
seems like at my age i need to have a stable gf and thats why i need to have one
a got a few question for you ppl :
1: is that the one you are with right now that you will actually die for her if needed?
2:are you sure you will really do that when the time comes?
3: if 1 and 2 = no then whats the reason you still stay with him/her?
4:you dont' really need to post your answer but you will know by your heart
thanks for spendin your time here and hope you will found the one
thats important for you eventhough you just have one time to live only
JT

tofu

depend on what you are looking for:
1.  a lover - the one you love the most in the whole world/or the one you love the most beside your family and yourself.
2. a partner - the one you will spend the rest of your life
they can be the same person, but they don't have to.  therefore the one beside you can be your true love/partner, but doesn't mean you will die for that person wor.

i asked my friends why people choose a partner instead of a lover ar.  you find a lover when you are young, you spend all you have with that person, but finally it doesn't work out, so you hurt so much and you are so tired and sick.  when you get older, you are  smarter , you rather spend time with the one who love you more, so even it doesn't work out, you won't hurt that deep.  also you don't totally focus on that person and you can have some time on your career and other stuffs.  both of you will feel more relax.

find a new one la, will help

tck

i was like what they feel like a few years ago but then i found out what it may feel a bit relax but at the end theres nothing left ..... and i found out to relax..... right after you die theres 3 years you can relax.... whats what they call "rest in pace" don't get me wrong here i am not try to make front of ppl who try to have a relax life just that for me... if you just looking for someone who will stay beside you and relax.... i rather get a pet....
love without fire its just become a cup of tea
but basic water is what i need its a life for me if i won't give up my life for her
she become means nothing to me.....
by the way the look means nothing to me...  please dont think what i mean is a hot gurl or something




when life = water

小叻

i will die for my bf... coz if he dies i will die too..coz no point in living in this world without him..he saved my life from a miserable place..and treats me the way like a princess.. he taught me what is wrong and what is good... he will extremely mad at me if i try to hurt myself.. he will spend lots of time listening to me and helping me with my family.. so whatever he wants me to do..i will do it for him..coz I know he won't hurt me!

MyOMy

It is hard (not possible in a sense) bcause you just don't know whether you will give up your life at the final moment. You may chicken out for no reason. In my opinion, life Vs decision are more than what we think we could or what we desire we would.

tofu

小叻
so sweet

tck

小叻  lucky you and good luck with your life and please enjoy it
MyOMy when life = decision..... then it become decision = decision...

tofu

"""if i won't give up my life for her, she become means nothing to me"""

maybe i haven't find the one that I love more than my family.  I will die for someone if i can save his life.  but not you jump and i jump la.  i love my family & friends too, so how can i hurt their feeling ar.  if he needs to jump, i would rather to stay alive to take care the one he loves, like his parents.

my friends said that because they love someone so much before.  they experienced the horrible parts: jealous, lack of 安全感 & lack of confident....relax doesn't mean no love, just not loving that much and give themselves some space to breath. when you are focus on an object, a tiny spot became bigger and bigger.
when you see a fire in a distance, it looks so beautiful.  when you get closer, you feel so warm.  but if you try to catch the fire, you will get burn.
don't think too much la, no matter how good she is, she is your history.  let it go and look forward la.  if you till thinking of her, the girl(maybe boy?) can feel it, and you are finally hurting another one's feeling la.

mcjohnjohn

is it that hard?
1: is that the one you are with right now that you will actually die for her if needed?
2:are you sure you will really do that when the time comes?
tck 發表於 2009-4-14 13:23

1: yes.
2: yes.

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kabuki

你一定唔會為咗你個ex去死,因為你連跟佢返香港都做唔到...咁又何苦去諗呢個問題?

好彩我唔係樓主個女朋友...