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作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-4-27 08:15 標題: 外殼

一個外殼很重要嗎﹖
有人說很重要﹐
我們這裡也做過調查﹐
朋友說﹐
女孩子只要靚﹐
其他都只是其次﹐
是 BONUS。。。

我這樣說可能有點高調﹐
(要給人扔臭雞蛋的)

但我覺得外殼真是不像大家想象中的重要。。。

一個托屁﹐
無論換了多少馬甲﹐
大家還是把他認了出來。。。

許多熱心的網友﹐
雖然從未看過樣子﹐
但他們在我心中都是多麼的美或帥﹐
就是因為他們一顆正面的﹐熱心助人的心﹐
有人喜歡排解糾紛﹐
有人喜歡搞笑緩和氣氛﹐
有人喜歡哈啦﹐
有人喜歡聯群購物﹐交換情報﹐
也有更多的人喜歡就自己所識得的幫助迷茫中的朋友﹐
這都像是春天處處開放的花兒一樣﹐
散發著各種不同的芬芳﹐
是美好靈魂的芬芳。。。

也許有人不認同﹐
但人間有愛是多麼的好。。。

在這個春夏交替的早上﹐
發完了謬論﹐
繼續埋首工作。。。

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-4-27 11:04

"Appearance" is not important between friends.

However, "Appearance" is somewhat important when choosing bf/gf. At least one one wants to go out with someone whose appearance he/she hates.

Something I just thought of...
Appearance might get you friends fast but good personality will help you to keep friends longer...

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-4-27 12:15

Honestly, a good appearance (both sexes) would definitely be helpful for the opposite sex feeling more comfortable to know you more. But otherwise, it really takes time and it's a challenge of patience to others to spend time to know you more. And only if your personality is nice (or can fit into them well), then they're happy to accept you as their friend or even willing to go further relationship without minding your unpleasing appearance.

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2009-4-27 14:48

ha ha ..  I thought .. you were talking about TURTLE shell ..  etc tim ..

From our friends ..  一個外殼 is very important to girls ..  as before they decide to date with a guy . they always ask their other friends " DUCK NG DUCK ? " first ..

Sigh ...  why do girls care so much about 一個外殼 ? and care so much about how other people look at your other half????

For guys .. usually ..  they just go for what/who they like !

Men are just more simple then women ..  period.

TOPPY?  who knows if he is a guy or girl ??

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2009-4-27 14:59

3# Ultraman

Well, I'm ugly but I manage to be popular

People know that I'm sincere and accountable.

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-4-27 15:01

3# Ultraman

Well, I'm ugly but I manage to be popular
People know that I'm sincere and accountable.
somewhereintime 發表於 2009-4-27 15:59

也聽過有女仔說﹐找男友/老公要找醜的﹐因為有安全感

醜人有市啊。。。

其實王喜﹐劉青雲都醜﹐不過都幾得女仔歡心。。。

作者: somewhereintime 時間: 2009-4-27 15:21

6# Littleprince

I'm real ugly

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-4-27 15:34

6# Littleprince

I'm real ugly
somewhereintime 發表於 2009-4-27 16:21

it's your own comment only... what if... you post your picture and we give you comments? maybe we are more generous than yourself?

it's ok for guys being ugly I thought

作者: cinderelly 時間: 2009-4-27 15:41

appearance isn't that important with friends as long as that person looks clean and is well mannered..
but with bfs it's actually quite important to me... the odd thing is that it did not become important until i got a little older. (or should i say until i met my current bf. but now that i think about it i think he's the reason why i've raised my standards.)
i honestly believe that my honey of 6+ years is better looking than the majority out there =D and i have been warned by many ppl in the beginning that because of his looks he probably isn't the type who'd be happy in a long term relationship. hey but they were wrong~ he isn't only one of the best looking guys, he's also one of the best guys out there as well. <3 ^^

作者: Yui 時間: 2009-4-27 16:26

大致上認同Littleprince所講．　
不過我認識一個女仔，才２０出頭，但滿臉暗瘡油光，身型略肥，矮小，沒有打扮，不懂穿衣，外殼是個徹頭徹尾不顧儀容的師奶．加上性格內向，不善交際，所以朋友不多．
我自問不是以貌取人既人，但每次見到這個女仔，都有一種不想親近的感覺．只會打個招呼，不會多談．

注重儀表不一定用來吸引異性，朋輩閒亦可減少隔膜，容易讓人接受．

作者: rockypath 時間: 2009-4-27 16:40

3# Ultraman

Well, I'm ugly but I manage to be popular
People know that I'm sincere and accountable.
somewhereintime 發表於 2009-4-27 15:59

Whether you are sincere and accoutable is not up to you to "sell" yourself.

Looking at the stuffs you BS on this forum. We already know how "sincere" and "accoutable" you are.

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-4-27 16:54

大致上認同Littleprince所講．　
不過我認識一個女仔，才２０出頭，但滿臉暗瘡油光，身型略肥，矮小，沒有打扮，不懂穿衣，外殼是個徹頭徹尾不顧儀容的師奶．加上性格內向，不善交際，所以朋友不多．
我自問不是以貌 ...
Yui 發表於 2009-4-27 17:26

對的。。。一個人就算天生唔靚都應該保持整潔﹐使人樂於親近。。。

忽然諗起某天在車上遇上一位年紀大的男同事﹐成程車比他的口臭燻著﹐真的慘~~~

不過﹐我一向認同“三分人才﹐七分打扮”﹐天生十分的美人只有很少﹐給人感覺“靚”的女人通常是肯勤於打扮肯整理儀容的那種

作者: meowmeowmeow 時間: 2009-4-27 17:31

When I look for a partner, the appearance is important as to "I feel comfortable looking at him 24/7". And MUST be clean, tidy and with good manner.

Even if you give me a Daniel Wu or whatever, but if he is "flower heart", I'll just go and kick his a$$!

(maybe I'll give him a kiss before I kick him geh LOL

)

To be honest, my bf is not the handsome type, but to me, he's super cute

.
Especially, when he is doing stuffs for me (fixing my computer and washing dishes, etc.)

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-4-27 18:35

13# meowmeowmeow
無可否認﹐專心工作的男人最有魅力

作者: mucc1928 時間: 2009-4-27 19:56

我很醜﹐但是我很溫柔﹐可惜還是一條友。
外殼沒有的話﹐別人就看你有什麼家產。

我要加把勁!

作者: tofu 時間: 2009-4-27 20:17

appearance is important, it will give you more opportunities. if you don't attract other people to meet with you, how do they know your personalty wor. my former manager is a pretty woman, she doesn't need to ask for business, guys come to give her the business.
guys are more concern their other half's appearance than girls, since girls care about 安全感 & fall in love by heart. guys use their lower body to love.

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-4-27 20:55

3# Ultraman

Well, I'm ugly but I manage to be popular
People know that I'm sincere and accountable.
somewhereintime 發表於 2009-4-27 14:59

For the first sight? Or still need some time?

作者: Catpiano 時間: 2009-4-27 20:55

也聽過有女仔說﹐找男友/老公要找醜的﹐因為有安全感

醜人有市啊。。。

其實王喜﹐劉青雲都醜﹐不過都幾得女仔歡心。。。
Littleprince 發表於 2009-4-27 16:01

The I have to disagree with you ...  just a wrong impression ..  it doesn't matter ..  many ugly guys ..  ? they are tricky as hell! they may look like nice guys ..  but ..  still .. " STEAL EAT !"

The different is .. Ugly men -->  STEAL EAT, and will clean their mouth ..

Good looking men? --> Steal eat, and forget to clean their mouth ..  lol

Just like judging a guy with car ..  driving Porsche/M3/AMG  are not always playboy ....
Driving crappy civic/leon/sunfire/corolla/intregra etc ..  not mean they are NICE guys ...

In face, most decent guys I know, they do dress up themself, driving nicer car .. those who drive crappy riced cars ..  not that nice at all ..

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-4-27 21:22

The outside beauty can attract you in a second.
While you won't fall in love with one's inner beauty within seconds. Make sense?

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-4-27 22:51

本帖最後由 Littleprince 於 2009-4-27 23:52 編輯

The I have to disagree with you ... just a wrong impression .. it doesn't matter .. many ugly guys .. ? they are tricky as hell! they may look like nice guys .. but .. still .. " STEAL EAT !" ...
Catpiano 發表於 2009-4-27 21:55

你又說得幾對﹐男人﹐就係“家花不及野花香”﹐無論靚仔醜仔都無分別。。。

分別只係﹐靚仔多女痴埋去﹐誘惑比較多囉

但係我唔同意追女係靠D咩車呀那些(“港女”例外)﹐據我了解﹐成功追女的人﹐最重要係“把口”﹐練得把口精靈D﹐識 TUM人﹐又樣樣野都識D﹐當然還要細心﹐加上唔好花心﹐這樣追女仔就容易成功喇

作者: peter236 時間: 2009-4-27 22:58

it's your own comment only... what if... you post your picture and we give you comments? maybe we are more generous than yourself?

it's ok for guys being ugly I thought
Littleprince 發表於 2009-4-27 16:34

wahahahaha, I saw him on TV and in person many times already.

作者: ricrick 時間: 2009-4-27 23:09

我認為講咩都假，最重要係緣份，緣份一到，乞衣你都受

作者: meowmeowmeow 時間: 2009-4-27 23:27

20# Littleprince

I second that!

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-4-27 23:52

wahahahaha, I saw him on TV and in person many times already.
peter236 發表於 2009-4-27 23:58

是嗎﹖他是公眾人物﹖ 甘一於貼張相出黎大家評評分喇

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-4-28 00:10

但係我唔同意追女係靠D咩車呀那些(“港女”例外)﹐據我了解﹐成功追女的人﹐最重要係“把口”﹐練得把口精靈D﹐識 TUM人﹐又樣樣野都識D﹐當然還要細心﹐加上唔好花心﹐這樣追女仔就容易成功喇
Littleprince 發表於 2009-4-28 14:51

咁似講緊我既?...

不過, 小弟就屬於"只有家花香"既類型~
(同埋可能我生得比較醜樣, 所以唔覺有女埋身啦)

作者: 阿朱 時間: 2009-4-28 01:31

我覺得個人對自己的自信和氣質很重要。氣質可以有很強的感染力和吸引力（身邊的男性朋友的睇法）。

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-4-28 01:58

我覺得個人對自己的自信和氣質很重要。氣質可以有很強的感染力和吸引力（身邊的男性朋友的睇法）。
阿朱發表於 2009-4-28 17:31

話分兩頭, 好似夏蕙姨咁有自信&咁有"氣質"都唔係咁有吸引力乍woh......

作者: 阿朱 時間: 2009-4-28 02:08

話分兩頭, 好似夏蕙姨咁有自信&咁有"氣質"都唔係咁有吸引力乍woh......
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-4-28 02:58

你拿夏X姨做反面教材就。。。。。

作者: ricrick 時間: 2009-4-28 02:57

MJJ 超好男人，邊個嫁著佢有福
但係過於正直對於壞女人就好驚啦

作者: emailyahoo 時間: 2009-4-28 05:24

夏蕙姨早年好受歡迎，有林蛟，重有胡百全...

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-4-28 08:30

MJJ 超好男人，邊個嫁著佢有福
但係過於正直對於壞女人就好驚啦
ricrick 發表於 2009-4-28 03:57

通常呢D對壞女人完全無免疫力。。。很易被D壞女人攻陷﹐到時全軍覆沒

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-4-28 08:31

夏蕙姨早年好受歡迎，有林蛟，重有胡百全...
emailyahoo 發表於 2009-4-28 06:24

成日覺得若她從沒整過容可能會更靚﹐無甘似妖怪。。。

作者: fibbi 時間: 2009-4-28 10:53

I think avg looking, clean/tidy (as of appearance) are good enough ... too handsome or too pretty ...will have a lot more temptation...
Handsome bf is ok...handsome husband ....not good la...haha

作者: 小叻 時間: 2009-4-28 11:03

做老公.. 最好個樣cute啦 (唔需要靚仔或型仔)﹐有禮貌啦﹐對老婆+屋企人好﹐有愛心﹐有童真﹐識講笑就very good 啦

~~ 最緊要唔老積~~ 唔私私縮縮~~ 唔好小心眼~~ 唔好孤寒~

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-4-28 11:07

做老公.. 最好個樣cute啦 (唔需要靚仔或型仔)﹐有禮貌啦﹐對老婆+屋企人好﹐有愛心﹐有童真﹐識講笑就very good 啦~~ 最緊要唔老積~~ 唔私私縮縮~~ 唔好小心眼~~ 唔好孤寒~ ...
小叻發表於 2009-4-28 12:03

哇。。。小叻。。。超過十項啊

有人甘好彩得了這十項全能未呀﹖

作者: 小叻 時間: 2009-4-28 11:10

哇。。。小叻。。。超過十項啊
有人甘好彩得了這十項全能未呀﹖
Littleprince 發表於 28-4-2009 11:07

咪我囉~~ wakaka~

就快去領獎啦~~ (我發花顛~~唔晒理我

)

作者: rockypath 時間: 2009-4-28 17:54

I believe the appearance is important. At least to dress, talk and behave in a proper manner.

Another side topic relating to this – will you seek for help with plastic surgery if you are not satisfied with your look?

作者: meowmeowmeow 時間: 2009-4-28 18:00

咪我囉~~ wakaka~ 就快去領獎啦~~ (我發花顛~~唔晒理我)
小叻發表於 2009-4-28 12:10

hahaha... you are so cute

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-4-28 18:42

你拿夏X姨做反面教材就。。。。。
阿朱發表於 2009-4-28 18:08

阿朱, 小弟只係搞下氣氛乍~

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-4-28 18:43

MJJ 超好男人，邊個嫁著佢有福
但係過於正直對於壞女人就好驚啦
ricrick 發表於 2009-4-28 18:57

由Day 0 開始, 小弟已經知道自己一d 都唔鍾意d 壞女人.

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-4-28 18:44

通常呢D對壞女人完全無免疫力。。。很易被D壞女人攻陷﹐到時全軍覆沒
Littleprince 發表於 2009-4-29 00:30

點樣完全無免疫力法呀?
無免疫力到見到壞女人即刻甩褲?

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-4-28 18:46

I believe the appearance is important. At least to dress, talk and behave in a proper manner.

Another side topic relating to this – will you seek for help with plastic surgery if you are not satisf ...
rockypath 發表於 2009-4-29 09:54

小弟有個朋友(男人來的)開口埋口都話要去整容.
但係講左幾年都未去整law.

作者: Ultraman 時間: 2009-4-28 19:50

Did you guys hear about a news from HK that a HK guy had a plastic surgery done in Taiwan and turned out a big piggy nose, and he committed suicide twice?!

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-4-28 20:07

Did you guys hear about a news from HK that a HK guy had a plastic surgery done in Taiwan and turned out a big piggy nose, and he committed suicide twice?!
Ultraman 發表於 2009-4-29 11:50

未有聽聞woh~
整得容, 就預左有失敗既可能性啦.
所以, 無論小弟生得幾醜樣都好, 都唔會考慮整容的.

作者: 阿朱 時間: 2009-5-1 14:58

People know that I'm sincere and accountable.
somewhereintime 發表於 2009-4-27 15:59

真可笑。。。

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-5-1 20:32

點樣完全無免疫力法呀?
無免疫力到見到壞女人即刻甩褲?
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-4-28 19:44

見到壞女人腳仔軟﹐唔識跑開

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