Will you go back together with your EX?

meowmeowmeow

Background story:
(not me)

- A girl in her late 20s.
- She is pretty cute with good figures.
- Quite smart, always know what she is doing and looking for.

- She had a bf for years (in another country cuz of work).
- She found out that her bf cheated on her couple years ago.
- They broke up, but still have contact.
- They kinda got back together. It is because the guy finally figured out that he could not find a better woman, and she still loves him.
- As far as I know, the girl still have full control of the guy's 財政.

Questions:

If you are the girl, would you forgive your bf?
And what's your concern?

As a guy, what do you think of the situation?

fishbelly

I think YEAH......but make sure he is not coming back becoz of "convenience".....

Sure the guy did sth wrong before, but different times reflect different thoughts, if the guy has wondered around and figured she is still the best for the rest of his life, than the departure turns out to be a good training and self recognition...

and of course if the guy's return is based on the sense of love and not other actual factors

Catpiano

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A girl in her late 20s.
- She is pretty cute with good figures.
- Quite smart, always know what she is doing and looking for.


Sounds so good wor ..

tequila

it's always hard to hv long distance relationship....

MiCo

I wouldnt =\ not only because you broke up for a reason, but there'd always be a "thorn" + issues of trust eg. he cheated on me once, who's to say he wouldnt do it again if he finds a better girl? hope they wont find it hard to get along la ~

shutterbug

it's always hard to hv long distance relationship....
tequila 發表於 2009-5-15 12:34

Couldn't agree more...

IMO, cheating is pretty bad.  If I were her, I wouldn't eat "return grass" on someone who cheated me before, especially if I'm in late 20's.

布小熊

I personally won't.

meowmeowmeow

I wouldnt =\ not only because you broke up for a reason, but there'd always be a "thorn" + issues of trust eg. he cheated on me once, who's to say he wouldnt do it again if he finds a better girl? hop ...
MiCo 發表於 2009-5-15 12:37

yeah... I think that's a problem. Even though I think that guy really want to get back with her, since he offered auth for his money (it's not just the money part, it's that he actually did something to try to show his sincerity).
**there'd always be a "thorn" + issues of trust eg. he cheated on me once, who's to say he wouldnt do it again if he finds a better girl?** this is so true... That's my main concern...

meowmeowmeow

it's always hard to hv long distance relationship....
tequila 發表於 2009-5-15 12:34

They are going to get together soon, instead of LD.

meowmeowmeow

--->>

A girl in her late 20s.
- She is pretty cute with good figures.
- Quite smart, always know what she is doing and looking for.


Sounds so good wor ..
Catpiano 發表於 2009-5-15 09:40

Yeah... she is pretty good gar... Not only guys think she is cute, but some girls do think she is cute too... For sure, (if she want to) she can find a much better guy... It's just that she is very 長情 and conservative ar...