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作者: Yui 時間: 2009-7-13 13:24 標題: 出左薪既你，每月俾幾多家用父母?

本帖最後由 Yui 於 2009-7-13 14:52 編輯

父母養兒育女就天經地義，做仔女既你出薪後對父母有無多少表示?

你每個月分糧(稅後)會有幾多成用來孝敬雙親?

作者: MSN04 時間: 2009-7-13 13:33

800-1000

作者: rainbow-davie 時間: 2009-7-13 13:40

around 1000 - 1500

作者: 快樂牛郎 時間: 2009-7-13 13:49

why is 自顧不下 and 無俾錢父母 together?

what about those who have lots of disposable income but not giving any allowances?

作者: Yui 時間: 2009-7-13 13:51

本帖最後由 Yui 於 2009-7-13 14:54 編輯

why is 自顧不下 and 無俾錢父母 together?

what about those who have lots of disposable income but not giving any allowances?
快樂牛郎發表於 2009-7-13 14:49

系窩。。。加多左一個choice。

作者: ecwkwok 時間: 2009-7-13 14:08

同父母一齊住，自己一個人住開，係兩回事喎。。。
同父母住，點都要最少比番自己果份。一個人自己住既話，一份糧可以洗淨幾錢？

作者: 快樂牛郎 時間: 2009-7-13 14:39

一個人自己住既話，一份糧可以洗淨幾錢？
ecwkwok 發表於 2009/7/13 14:08

50%

作者: mcs889 時間: 2009-7-13 14:56

half for me half go back home~

作者: fibbi 時間: 2009-7-13 14:58

I used to give half (after tax) to parents. Plus I am paying my own expense like car insurance, cell phone, internet.

作者: daimo 時間: 2009-7-13 15:06

this poll simplifies the situation too much it needs the following to become meaningful:

age band, marital status, kids, average income, live-in with parents or not etc.

(e.g. married couple to give $ to which side of the parents? people making 200k per year, after giving 50% still have 100k?)

作者: hium 時間: 2009-7-13 15:15

本帖最後由 hium 於 2009-7-13 16:18 編輯

我想問問俾 50% 家用屋企嘅朋友，你地每個月可以儲到幾多錢同買咗屋未？當你兩公婆每人有三千收入 (this is just an average)，總共有六千返嚟，你哋各自都俾自己屋企 50% 家用，咁你哋兩口子都重有三千剩，跟住你要養車，水電費，娛樂消費，你每個月重可以儲幾多錢？定係你哋兩公婆各自俾父母嘅比率唔一樣嘅哩？咁當你每月都唔花無謂錢，儲到千五，你又要儲幾耐先儲得夠首期哩？

當然有過別例子啦～你如果每月有 15k 收入嘅，比咗 50% 都重有 7.5k 咁就冇咩問題啦～

作者: wow 時間: 2009-7-13 15:16

本帖最後由 wow 於 2009-7-13 16:22 編輯

我同老公自己住,又無話一定要個個月比錢大家既阿媽阿爸, 不過年年都請佢地去旅行,新年比利是,father day mother day 既大禮,個個禮拜又出去食一次飯,都唔少錢,不過我媽咪既愛心靚湯and 同我奶奶既針子係無價既

作者: fibbi 時間: 2009-7-13 15:18

Well...I gave half to parents before I got married la...Now I paid all the house expense (including property tax) but reduce to 10% of income to parents.

作者: Yui 時間: 2009-7-13 15:21

this poll simplifies the situation too much it needs the following to become meaningful:

age band, marital status, kids, average income, live-in with parents or not etc.

(e.g. married couple to give ...
daimo 發表於 2009-7-13 16:06

交功課做project就話要做足demograpic資料者，小小既老友記統計又何須甘認真? 唔洗計埋standard deviation掛？

簡單d啦，就以你個人現況現狀而論，你會俾幾多呢?

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2009-7-13 15:42

few years ago, i gave > half before tax (and I lived with them)
now, I can hardly support my own self... (mortgage, car loan, expanses) I will start giving them more again when I become more settle down....

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2009-7-13 15:44

咁幾多先夠。你開條數被我喇。得啦。我夠食夠洗。你留番自己。喂。今個月啲家用呢。欠你牙家吓。磅住幾舊水。等錢洗。我要買玩具。我要機械人同 barbie。你要比心機讀書。無 100 分無飯食。

（父母仔女講數篇：大混戰）

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2009-7-13 16:10

要計埋 standard deviation。跟住開個 income ＆ expense。你比過乜野我。我比過乜野你。條數唔岩要做埋 bank reconciliation。岩數啦嘛。唔該嚮度簽名。full signature。呢個係你既 copy。

我同我老豆老母。講錢。唔多唔少。大家 happy。

作者: mucc1928 時間: 2009-7-13 19:39

I give 1/4 of my after tax salary to my mama papa. That's the best i can do if i want to save up downpayment for a house.

作者: Purpleheart 時間: 2009-7-13 21:37

冇俾家用屋企, 但每個禮拜六, 日飲茶我俾~~ 算唔算俾左呢?

作者: playingtoy 時間: 2009-7-13 22:12

飲啤酒。笑笑口。望住鏡頭做朋友。賺到錢。比自己。無你點會有屋企。

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-7-13 23:07

其實家用呢d 野, 睇下你自己afford 得幾多, 同埋睇下父母需要幾多, 就決定個數目.
如果父母冇錢, 我覺得仔女既好應該比多少少佢地, 因為我覺得有責任養佢地.
如果父母有錢, 我覺得仔女比唔比都得, 因為唔係等你d 錢去開飯, 而比錢亦唔一定代表你好有孝心.

小弟覺得, 最緊要係用心對父母好, 咁就為之very good 喇.

作者: meowmeowmeow 時間: 2009-7-13 23:28

I live with my parents, and I give them half of my salary. Even during the time that I wasn't living with my parents, I gave them... ummm... around 30%... (I started doing this since my first job during highschool (half of whatever I made)

I believe that my parents do not actually want my money, it is just that they want me to feel that there are responsiblities as a human being... There's no free lunch. Obviously my parents "唔係等我d 錢去開飯", and for sure my parents had invested much more on me compare to what I gave them...

"比錢亦唔一定代表你好有孝心." is so true neh... it is the thoughts that count....

作者: ricrick 時間: 2009-7-14 02:08

我想問在坐有無人以經候住老豆老母份家產？

作者: mcjohnjohn 時間: 2009-7-14 02:13

我想問在坐有無人以經候住老豆老母份家產？
ricrick 發表於 2009-7-14 18:08

你想釣邊個member 出黎?

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2009-7-14 08:21

本帖最後由布小熊於 2009-7-14 09:23 編輯

我想問在坐有無人以經候住老豆老母份家產？
ricrick 發表於 2009-7-14 03:08 AM

NO! They supported me up to my Bachelor grad. Then I am on my own. no down payment, no gifts (i am the only one in my family who gives gifts!! I just realize that... ). They did pay for my first car but not the cost of gas or to maintain it. So when I got my first job after grad, most of the 1/3 of my pay cheque goes to car and gas ...etc.
Don't expect and don't think they will give me anything.

作者: 布小熊 時間: 2009-7-14 08:24

你想釣邊個member 出黎?
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-7-14 03:13 AM

hahahaha good point!

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-7-14 08:39

其實家用呢d 野, 睇下你自己afford 得幾多, 同埋睇下父母需要幾多, 就決定個數目.
如果父母冇錢, 我覺得仔女既好應該比多少少佢地, 因為我覺得有責任養佢地.
如果父母有錢, 我覺得仔女比唔比都得, 因為唔係等你d 錢 ...
mcjohnjohn 發表於 2009-7-14 00:07

I totally agree.

作者: shutterbug 時間: 2009-7-14 11:19

For me, I don't care if my kids will give me any money if I can afford my own living. I just want them to visit me regularly.

作者: J.J. 時間: 2009-7-14 11:26

When I lived with they, I gave them all.
Now, 自顧不下，無俾錢父母.

作者: tobiko 時間: 2009-7-14 13:29

No set amount right now as we are saving for downpayment right now (married and renting right now) I just give them some money here and there and I treat them to dinner on the big days/ holidays.

作者: Reggie 時間: 2009-7-27 17:26

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