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作者: mucc1928 時間: 2009-7-30 22:01 標題: 孤獨的definition

今天看到這片散文﹐有這樣的一句話:

真正的孤獨﹐不是沒有人在身邊﹐是在一大群人當中﹐尋找不到一點心靈上的共鳴。

我十分認同。那﹐你/妳們呢?

作者: Monkii 時間: 2009-7-30 22:13

你講緊“托屁”嗎? kakakaka

Ok, let's be serious...
I agree with what you said, and?

Loneliness is a funny thing...
No one but few likes it,
however, loneliness let those who are talented be able to observe the world and the people from the aspect of an outsider. And there we get some touching stories...songs...photos...movies...
But beware the difference of 孤獨＝搵唔到 and 孤僻＝唔去搵.

作者: Ovaltine 時間: 2009-7-30 22:20

I don't who said it, Pasco or pasci or something, "You only grow when you are alone."

作者: mucc1928 時間: 2009-7-30 22:34

孤獨能使人成長﹐那是對的﹐因為只有你自己解決問題。我也因為是孤獨才有心學吉它﹐才可打發時間。

孤獨＝搵唔到 and 孤僻＝唔去搵﹐其實是一樣。搵唔到才會唔去搵。我說的好像很有point,其實也是沒有什麼point呢。

作者: Littleprince 時間: 2009-7-31 00:01

很同意這話。。。越多人的地方越是孤獨﹐特別是當你看見一大班人﹐都係響度互相奉承﹐上托下踩﹐虛偽到死的時候﹐真的想離開就算了。。。所以我最怕呢種場合。

作者: Monkii 時間: 2009-7-31 00:32

本帖最後由 Monkii 於 2009-7-31 01:34 編輯

孤獨＝搵唔到 and 孤僻＝唔去搵﹐其實是一樣。搵唔到才會唔去搵。我說的好像很有point,其實也是沒有什麼point呢。 ...
mucc1928 發表於 2009-7-30 23:34

好唔同喎...
咁唔通你意思係“識唔到女仔”同“唔去識女仔”係一樣?

要分清楚，孤獨係X君身邊嘅朋友圈子嘅問題，孤僻係X君本身社交能力有問題

作者: KittyLeung74 時間: 2009-7-31 08:46

"真正的孤獨﹐不是沒有人在身邊﹐是在一大群人當中﹐尋找不到一點心靈上的共鳴。"

孤獨的感覺不在於多少人在你身邊,一個知心友已很足夠,但寧缺無濫，不要硬要一group人吃喝玩樂,過後更感寂寞

作者: myversa 時間: 2009-7-31 09:13

when I am alone by myself, I can try to find things to do;

when I am with bunch of people but cannot find common things to do or talk, then I do feel lonely.

作者: rockypath 時間: 2009-7-31 11:17

You are longly only when you feel longly.

I can feel longly when I am with a crowd and feel peaceful when I am alone.

作者: ACooperFan 時間: 2009-7-31 21:34

i guess a bit off-topic...read this before somewhere...

能獨處的人才懂得和別人相處...

認同嗎﹖

作者: mucc1928 時間: 2009-7-31 21:38

Lonely is a weird feeling. WHen you don't want to be lonely, then you find someone to go out, right. I have many nights with drinking, doing drinking games, quality trash talk and so forth. But when we disbanded, i still feel lonely..

People said finding a partner or love will remove loneliness. However, that is a different kind of loneliness, not the loneliness of love but social circle or friends.

作者: kaka 時間: 2009-7-31 23:20

i think you are talking about 寂寞, not 孤獨. the worst case is your partner is beside you, but you still feel 寂寞

作者: tiffiant 時間: 2009-8-1 11:15

i myself can be fit in that sentence...............

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