分後的承諾

B仔

甜蜜的承諾，分手後還有效嗎？
對於我呢D寡情婦人嚟講，點解分手後，還要繼續負這些責任？

有男人同我講，就算斷了關係，依然要遵守承諾，才是好男人。一分手就斬清，就會比人話你係衰佬，冇情冇義。
But分手，唔係等於各行各路嗎？還要幫到幾時？可能，女人分手時，可以比男人更狠吧。

哈哈。。。唔好誤會～ 唔係我吃醋。其實也不關我事。只係，我細個時見識過，近排又聽聞一單。

常常，因為呢D承諾才搞到拖泥帶水，自己一身蟻。咁，又何必呢？

你可以做一個盡責的大男人。不過唔代表你唔係豬兜仔。

katamari

分後的承諾=多舊魚＝懶多情

shutterbug

Go ask Ekin Cheung la...haha

chocobun

i dont believe in 承諾 in general, before or after break up

meowmeowmeow

well, depends on what kinda 責任la... but shoulda get a 了斷 as soon as they 分手.
(i.e. if they both owe a car/join account/house, both have the 責任 to settle asap.)

If a man 承諾 take care of the woman during a relationship (ie. I'll take care of you forever), that's during the relationship. Once the relationship ends, the 承諾 ends.

Think about it, just like if you 承諾 to love someone forever during th relationship, that's during the relationship. Once the relationship ends, how could you still love that other person forever, especially if you get into another relationship afterwards, right?

B仔

好很多舊魚的很好例子：

recent case: 財務上的支持
old case: 執拾自己的蘇州屎要係舊男友度住，唔係新仔度住

chocobun

sometimes 承諾 is just used to spice up a relationship... those 承諾 such as "i'll marry you in the future for sure"... the they break up, and the guy dates again ahd promises another girl the same thing... if he keeps all the promises how many times can he get married? lol

B仔

sometimes 承諾 is just used to spice up a relationship... those 承諾 such as "i'll marry you in the future for sure"... the they break up, and the guy dates again ahd promises another girl the same th ...
chocobun 發表於 2009-8-19 15:54

LOOOOL
例子："老婆仔，我愛你"

chocobun

LOOOOL
例子："老婆仔，我愛你"
B仔 發表於 2009-8-19 15:58

bingo!

chocobun

好很多舊魚的很好例子：
old case: 執拾自己的蘇州屎要係舊男友度住，唔係新仔度住
B仔 發表於 2009-8-19 15:54

how..??