Don't change yourself into a slut or b*tch, if that's not you.
I used to be like you, and wanted to turn myself into one of those girls. I know exactly how to play those game and how to play it well after all these years.... but is it worthed it?
I'm not sure how old you are but life has better things to do rather than stay focus on relationship and love. The best yet to come, that's what I always believe even after all the dramas, betrayals and tears.....
A nice person will be reward one day and the one who hurted you,the karma will come after them. Trust me, I waited 7 years, I thought karma will never go after someone......... then when I almost forget about it...completedly into a new life...then, that someone paid for her price....
What I'm trying to say is, when you expected something, it will most likely not gonna happen. When you focus on yourself (not being selfish), focus on the development on yourself, educationa or career or to make your life better, you gain your confident and your happiness... Then, you will run into the right person or better man.
It's all up to you. I found that if I don't improve myself on knowledage and such, and don't turn myself into a happy person. I will constantly ran into jerks. When you don't care about men anymore, the good one will go to you.
Trust me, it work. Just take a deep breath and stop thinking about the past. It takes time to heal the soul and it will be. There is not scar that cannot be heal, there is no past that cannot be forget. Even the most painful one, time will wash it away. I mean, why wasting time to get upset for some a$$holes when you have better things to do?
[ 本帖最後由 utopia 於 2008-4-5 08:49 編輯 ] |