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It's not necessary to be icy and hard to get.
It's all depends on the guy's maturity and the guy's love history. My boy, for instance, I don't think he would be interest to go after those "hard to get" girl who think she is the sexy queen.... since he had a very.... "interesting" love history....

He rather want to has a mature gf/wife who can discuss things...who will not play game with him.. because he is very tired after all these years....

I think for you, you don't need to play game with your bf. You just need to draw your boundary and let him know what's your limit.

As I'm well known  that I need a permit from my caveman; to be honest, it's not as bad as my twin think or others think.  LOL, I have my own terriotry in our relationship... just need to pick the right time to negotiate