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原帖由 LOK 於 2007-12-20 12:09 發表

WTF??? are you gay?

LOK, you make me laugh

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Well, that's what I always tell my friends. Never start an affair in office unless you are super falling for this girl. You never know what's gonna happen in future, if it ends ugly, you are stuck in middle.

Like my cousin, she fell madly in love with a co-worker. Damn, even her parents were involve and broadcast how good this guy is and I told her at the beginning that she should really keep it low profile or re-consider this relationship.

couple months later, that guy dumped her and worst scenario is........
It so happen, he was sleeping around with ALL girls in the office.......and even owe some girls money..............

and her desk was full of stationary that he bought her......and see that guy daily and forced to go sing K with all co-worker including him.......and her "love enemy" who stole him from her........

At the end, she can't stand the rumors and find another job....

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LIk,

If you want to admire that kind of hero, I gotta introduce you my god brother one day.

I just shake my head when I hear his new adventure hahaha, and I only end up telling him, how come in the pat 10 years, I never ever admire you once ??

He slept with his ex-gf's best friend like.... 7 years ago, and that went back to TO, then keep in touch but not in a relationship. That girl he slept with dated another guy for a few years. A guy that is a Super ATM machine, treat here like a princess and even propose to her. She accepted the ring too..........then, my god brother went back to HK and see her again. She dumped that guy right the way and be with my god brother.

Then, I asked my god brother, what's good about her?

Here is your hero answer, Lik

"great sex lor, absolutely great sex and E cup la. and she makes me feel like a king by the way she admire me"

ai...., then he said I know I cannot put myself in this "gentle dream" forever but the sex hook me somehow.. one day, I eventually will dump her...

and that's only part of his adventure and to be honest, he is not even close to handsome nor rich. If I gotta say, he is uglier than "wong chau saan or that kind of style.. DUH

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Luckily, we remains friend for 10 years without any affair. Strange.

We know each other too well. Like he said, 10 years ago, I'm like a guy outlook with guy personality. 10 years passed, done surgery and still act like a guy :p

If you want to be his student, I will ask him how much does that cost~ If I'm a guy, he is my hero too. I know the way he deal with girls are nasty but as far as I know, he never see me as a woman and he is a really good friend.

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I don't think it's a good idea to get that girl through your boss because if I am a boss, I don't want my staff start to day dreaming at work all the time. Even if you are on my good book, I would doubt how much you can retain your performance.

Also, I have a bad feeling that how come she is a shy type and very close to your boss? Might be a chance that they are already hooked

Office affair is always case sensitive to the company.
I think .............the best way to approach that girl is through coffee break or company x'mas dinner?

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原帖由 Guy 於 2007-12-21 01:33 發表
EASY

No need fancy ideas to jump start

just organized (or take part in ) a office party together and ask her to be a part of the organizers.

Minor Notes:
>If she not able to come to the part ...

I like this idea. Be the head social commitee and organize office social event lor. Then from there, you can start having her to join your event or even better, you might able fish a better one other than this girl. From there, you don't have to worry how to start a conversation with her.

Getting msn is a good point too. I don't mind giving out my msn but not my phone # because if I don't like that guy I can put him on my ignore list or simply answer him only when I'm bored at work