Expectation to have with grand-parents <> Grand-kids

chobit

I have 2 kids.  a 4.5yrs and a 1.5yrs, the only grandchildrens in both side of the family.  Sadly, my concepts of how Grandparents are like, and how they treat their grandchildren are learned mostly from TVB.

If you have young kids, and your parents are here or in HK.  would you please share your experience.

Thanks

chobit

The challenge I am facing is a little diff.  Both my wife and I are expecting more love and care from their grandparents, but at time, we felt like our kids aren't as welcome, because grandparents are too busy with their own friends.