I got married because I feel my wife is the one for me. I do not find getting married is a big hole. I want to be with her and grow old with her. I envy the life of my grandparents. Both of them live in Vancouver and they take care of each other. They have daily routine life but they just enjoy their life. That's the life I wish for. Having someone doing thing together with me when we are old. When I think thing this way instead worrying about divorcing and stuff, I just get married naturally.
I mean, if you have fds who married and then getting divorce after only couple yrs... what's the point to get marry. I even think if they didn't marry at all, they might still together.
It's really hard to say that "if they did not marry at all, they might still together." How do you know that for sure? Things happened for purpose. Who would know things that did not happen? Maybe your fds would meet another person and be in a worse situation if your fds did not get married. But maybe your fds would still be together like you said but no one knows for sure.
At least they have two years of memory of happily together.
I have been with my wife for more than 5 years, and still happily married.
Thank you, LOK. I wish I can grow old with my wife too. To tell the truth, managing marriage is not an easy job but I believe I can do it. Sometimes wants and actually does it are two different things.
發表於 2008-1-14 15:48
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Sometimes wants and actually does it are two different things.