myversa

Even before I got married or had gfs, I spent the Valentine's Day alone but I did not even feel any 不滿; I just opened I can find any girlfriend soon.

myversa

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2009-2-17 10:03 發表
未試過單身過情人節﹐但有時想象過﹐也許比有另一半更開心﹖(特別是當另一半毫無情趣﹐次次要你提先去慶祝﹖)

do not think that way; it's not so bad if you are the first to mention to celebration.  I am the one who always mention to celebrate too for any of the occasion even for our wedding anniversary or even my birthday.  Someone in the relationship got to do it, right?  As long as your partner enjoy what ever you have planned.

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原帖由 Anonymous 於 2009-2-17 10:47 發表

女仔總是想感受到被重視的﹐若次次都係女仔提先去慶祝﹐代表男仔無心肝﹐還有甚麼意思﹖

Yes I understand but when you decide to go out with him, you should already know what kind of person he is.  Some guys just do not care about those things.  He might think you like to plan it or he is used to you planning it;

If you think it is very important for you, discuss this with him.  Communication is very important for couples.  Do not just be silent about it.