There is problem in your relationship. I do not think it will get better when he graduates. Life will get much tougher when you finish school. Look, he needs to find a job he likes in an economy like this, and job is not like school. You can make mistake in your assignment but not in jobs.
If there is an issue, you better to solve right away or the issue will just accumulate and it will become bigger issue.
I am not your boyfriend so I do not really know what he thinks but for me I would not throw my temper on my wife even if I am very stressful. That is just not the right thing to do. Every one has temper but he/she has to learn how to control it.
Do you always try when talking things with him? Try to reason with him and tell him what you are afraid of and what you expect about the relationship.
My wife and I did have difficult time few times but I always tried to reason with her and asked her to tell me what she expected me to do and we would talk about it.
Communication is the key. It sounds to me that you have no idea what he is thinking and that's what you are afraid of.
sometimes fighting is a good thing, it makes two people think over the relationship. As long as someone is willing to back down and the fighting is not resulting in a physical violence.
發表於 2009-4-15 15:25
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