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Case 3: It's 阿笨's liberty choice of inviting 阿占 to any gathering.  阿笨 has to be responsible for his own action...  meaning he shouldn't blame 阿占 as he already knows 阿占 gonna take the chance to go after his girl friends.

Case 4: 條女 should already expect what would the guy says if she goes to the guy's home under this circumstances.  She knows he's not being serious anyway..   no one to blame.

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原帖由 goldie 於 2009-1-24 18:49 發表
case 3: 唔關阿占事，鬼叫D女肯跟佢咩。
case 4: 唔關個男人事，鬼叫條女肯跟佢咩。
應該尊重女生既選擇。

Agree too.  

But Case 3: if 阿占 is not even being invited, he won't have the chance to meet the girls.

bluemoon

Can tell 阿占 this is a group of friend that he does not know, and these friends this time prefer to have a gathering with their own group.  It's not anything unusual or difficult to explain.

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原帖由 大C姐 於 2009-1-24 22:04 發表



通常都係岩岩開始DATE﹐如果係一齊一段時間通常都有共識。

個問題係﹐好多麻甩lu都好唔細心﹐其實件事拆開可以好簡單﹐但係態度有問題。點解唔做之前講明朝早有野做呢﹖可能條女會覺得麻煩唔搞或者快脆搞惦就算。因為女人 ...

Then... go the the girl's place.  problem solved.   =)

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原帖由 大C姐 於 2009-1-24 23:18 發表



係喇﹐我就係想講就算係one night stand都唔代表可以唔細心可以唔專重人。Come on baby﹐你係一個gentleman就叫雞都有風度﹐你無風度就對住自己條女自己個老婆都無。
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would there be case that the girl ask the guy to leave instead?   

Also, I guess, to tell the other person (either the girl or the guy) wake up and go at 7am.. it shouldn't considered as 無風度 or 唔專重人.  What if he/she really need to go somewhere (work?) at that time?  

If the girl go home with this guy who would tell her to leave in the morning (in a 唔專重人 way), wouldn't it be something she would also be expected?  What else she would expected if she knows sex is the only thing he's looking for?  I mean.. if she go ONS with a guy and he is very respectful to her, may be should treat it as a bonus?

I do agree guys should have 風度 and 專重人.  We are just discussing a specific case here.   =)

bluemoon

原帖由 giginium 於 2009-1-27 23:59 發表


That's a really interesting point. I believe that this case about waking up and go at 7AM boils down to whether the girl is willing to do something. In this situation, the girl is willing (i.e., mad ...

how likely you would have a well-designed schedule/plan discussed before having ONS?  haha..  

I don't know.. I think in the original story was just saying the guy ask the girl to wake up at 7am... but how the attitude is when he asked, who knows?  

I just think it's a fair game to both side if it is a ONS (which it might not be as stated in the story), and it could happen to either to a girl or a guy of being asked to leave (given if he/she really need to go work or some where at 8)...    what else can you do except asking?

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原帖由 ricrick 於 2009-1-28 22:50 發表
等我來總結大C姐的理論
大家記住，叫雞要有風度！多謝

I think she means 禮貌 too...   hehe!