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take care and if you want to vent, you are most welcome here.
feeling the pain is part of growing up so take it slowly. Rushing it won't get it over sooner.

Just be careful not to jump into a rebounce relationship. It's bad for you and whoever gets involve at that point.

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chesirecat 發表於 2011-7-13 12:29 PM

Most of the time, there is no real reason why 2 ppl fall in love.
That sometimes applies to falling out of love too. So don't try too hard to find out why... You may never find out why.
Just try to slowly move on.
Read some sad books, watch some sad movies and cry it out. But it only works for some people. Others like to watch comedy and laugh it away... do whatever that works for you.
Try to pay more attention to your family and your remaining friends. Spend time with them and care for them now. It's time to build your social circle back.

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chesirecat 發表於 2011-7-13 12:38 PM

it's ok to think like that now.
It happened every time. No, I won't fall in love again...
Then well, it happened again when the right person come.
Well, this is true even in a marriage. So don't worry too much la. NOTHING in this world is guarantee.

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其實作為男仔／人。。。你地係唔係都係覺得一段感情一有argue 就係無將來...? ...
chesirecat 發表於 2011-7-13 01:53 PM

no and no and no.
It's just an excuse if that's a given reason.
It's ok to argue but not OK if 2 persons have different life value.

oops.. not a guy... shouldn't have replied.