I rather 抱着 my own teddy bear and cry...
抱着 别的男人... doesn't work...
may be you should go outside and have a walk alone. Think about your own life. Then is a LOT more than 男人 in life!!!
btw.. how can u 分手 but not 失恋...
(like you could 失恋 but not 分手 if you and haven't started yet)
maybe you should go out with Queen Bee for the shopping spree. Even if you do not shopping, it's good to hang around with other people and do something so you can forget about the separate.
I know how hard is it for you now to forget about him even we all give you some advice such as he is not the right one or fate. You might not listen in.
You should find something to do in the mean time and keep yourself busy. In no time, you will find another great guy and think this is just part of your journal to meet the right guy.