布小熊

I think the recipe only work for some. Learn to cherish what you have now.
1) 花自己賺回來的錢之餘+有計劃儲蓄退休人金
Trying to but not sure if I can stay working till retirement.
2) 失敗時不怪責別人,懂得自我檢討
I try to do that as much as I can. There is always room to improve but that doesn't mean swearing at yourself. It just means "I can do better next time" and a lesson learnt.
3) 每天便一件好事,但不要讓人知道
been trying to do that. may be hard to do daily but at least weekly.
4) 重讀自己喜愛的書
Love to re-read. You learn something different every time and as I grow/age, the vision may be different.
5) 嘗試在24小時之內不去批評別人
Trying too. Learn to appreciate and see the goodness of ppl.
6) 知道何時開聲,何時收聲,那些事可以堅持,那些事可以放開
it may seem hard when I was younger but now, I think that I am slowly learning to forgive and relax a bit. But still there are things that I need to 堅持 and I am pretty stubborn when things reach the bondaries.
7) 一個令你成長同時又可以依賴的愛人
It's hard but it's also a blessing to have someone around. And be forgiving to your love ones too. We made mistakes and both of us are 成長-ing. 依賴 doesn't mean just sit there and wait for help. you have to work hard too and knowing that someone will support your decision is also 依賴.
8) 一個令你發笑而又讓你哭泣的朋友
yeah! I think I am lucky to have more than 1. I can "pretend to be strong" but there are some friends that I can't hold back my tears to.

There are a lot more that can make one happy than on this list. Do whatever that work for you!
Try to be giving than taking and have a life other than work.

jiujiujiu, take care! And don't be afraid to show the weak side of yourself to your friends. That's what they are for!