布小熊

原帖由 Anonymous 於 2008-6-10 12:52 PM 發表

but can you explain why one side may choose to end the relationship even though both sides are committed to advance the relationship when possible?

I don't think it's possible for a breakup if both sides are happy with the relationship (i.e. u said both are committed). May be the girl see marriage at that stage is necessary to "advance" the relationship. And the guy see it differently.

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原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-6-10 12:12 PM 發表

to me, if you don't marry a guy that you super super love in regardless of all the materialistic factors/offerings that he has to offer you.... that to me loses the meaning of "marriage". i'm not aga ...

haha I agree 100% with Alc this time on marrying your love and only your love!

"You don't marry someone that you can live with.
You marry someone you cannot live without!"

You will find life super hard to go by if you have to work thro the problem you encounter with someone you don't love.

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