yungfourfour

It really takes time

but if you choose to forgive, don't even bother to mention it ever again.
and forgive her 100% otherwise.... Just break up now.
it's nearly improbable to do but yeah... don't fool yourself if you don't think you can do it

yungfourfour

Yeah

She cheated, but she didn't admit it
how much/how far do you think you can communicate/connect with her FOR LIFE?

Seriously, she still didn't cut off THAT relationshiP?
then how can you re-think about the relationship? how can you forgive her completelY?
there's no way.

yungfourfour

Sigh.

No matter how we think, and what we all tell you, it's you who made the final decision.

Traum said you can play her back...if you can be "jiN" enough
If I were you ( from a guy perspective ), just do whatever you feel good and make you in a "win" situation.

I am JIN, HO JIN tim
If I were you I'd break up for sure, I'd commit to another relationship with a suitable girl. but if she asks to hang out I'd still hang out, but if she wants anything more than that (e.g. sex) just refuse, just treat her as a friend, plain friend.  I don't care if she say sorry to me again and again, I am the one in the "win win" situation by that time.

Well
If you wanna forgive her, you really have to do it completely (but from your notes I don't think it's easy at all)

Sigh