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Freak Event - Being assaulted by my co-worker

I was assaulted by my co-worker when I was getting off from work...

The whole thing started with a small argument (At least I think it is...)
Before lunch time, I was organizing some files and I gave a few to them to this guy and told him to fax it for me. He was reluctant and told me that I didn't cross out certain information on the document, so I just told him to do it since he has them in his hands...He ended up throwing the files back on my desktop and started mumbling so I was like "What're you doing?" and he just kept on mumbling...so I was like "whatever, I'll do it myself"...

Nothing happened until I was getting off from work...

I was saying good bye to my boss and walked down the stairs with another co-worker...The guy was standing by the door, keeping it open with his back...So I just thought he was keeping it open for the girl that I was walking down with...and I only thought that he might close the door on me once the girl walks out so that I'll have to open it myself (as a way to show me he does not like me....) but NOOOOOOO~ while i was walking out...he grabbed my shirt (around my neck) and then gave me a headlock...I was holding a bunch of text books at the time and so it wasn't the best scenario to fight back...I decided to relax my body...and hey...it doesn't feel bad at all...Anyways...the guy started yelling at me "How dare you speak to me like that? How dare you use that tone! How dare you!? I'll punch you! I'll punch you!!" (In Chinese) I saw his fist and it was shaking soooo much...I didn't want to yell for my boss at the time because he was having a guest over, and that would certainly embarrass him, so I was like...fine...the worst is getting punched...no biggie...He didn't though...He released me and started threatening me next time I talk to him with an attitude he'll beat me up...So I just told him to do so and I'll of course call the cops on him and he said "Yeah, you do that!" and he jumped on his car and left...

Well I didn't thought it was a big problem at the time but then on my way home, I realized that my neck was bleeding...

Now most of you would ask me...Why didn't I fight back when he released me?
At that time, it wasn't the best place to fight cuz there was a girl beside us and the space between the staircase and the door was really small...So I just kinda let it be...2nd, fighting back and beat the **** outta this guy is only going to satisfy me momentarily and cause him to be in pain for a certain amount of time only...That's not enough...I wanna get back at him with a BAM! From what I know, this guy is still waiting for his citizenship, so I'm gonna take it away from him...Tomorrow I'm gonna file with the RCMP regarding an assault by him...He's getting ****ed in the ass for sure...Assaulting someone when you are applying citizenship is not exactly the smartest thing to do...

I wanna teach this guy a lesson...I don't want to let him off the hook that easily, I want him to regret this for the rest of his life...I want him to know that messing with me caused him his citizenship and future in Canada. The worst scenario is that he might get deported back to China, I would love to see that!





It's a small scratch, but it actually bled for a while...It actually looks worse right now because the scratch got swollen and ****...Still enough to file for assault, plus I got a witness...

原帖由 kaimui22 於 2008-3-19 23:13 發表
I think you should...

1) definitely tell your boss that he threated you at work
2) file the assault and 落口供 at the police, as well as get a witness report

this guy managed to get so worked up and ...

well i'm going to my work place to tell my boss about this and probably quitting my job (pay not satisfying anyways) and i'll be going to the rcmp as well...

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原帖由 ah3 於 2008-3-19 23:30 發表
I'm curious, which company do u work for?

just a small company....no one will know

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原帖由 Guy 於 2008-3-19 23:43 發表
Good!
use brain not fist.

But do you have a witness step out to justify you ar?
I know the police cannot charge workplace assult without a witness to go on court.
I personally encounter these case on ...


my female co-worker saw the whole thing because she was right beside me....

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原帖由 WaruiOne 於 2008-3-20 01:25 發表
does someone you know (like a friend) count as a witness?
for traffic accidents, they don't count since they say your friends could lie to help you... but i dunno for actual crimes... they could say t ...

if that's the case...the world will be doomed...murders with a lot of people present...no one can be asked to help with investigation? that's impossible la...

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原帖由 (-_-') 於 2008-3-20 06:14 發表
actually..    I think you should give him a chance ..    It is probably very hard for him to get from china to canada.. and the canadian citizenship is probably very important for him and his family.
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It was such a little argument and he's flipping out giving people head locks...That's just abnormal...
This guys needs a lesson...he can't turn to violence for everything...
He's 25 btw (at least what he tells me) and he still thinks that violence can resolve something...threatening me not to give him attitude?  How am I suppose to work with him like that...If he gets fired, he can still get back at me because he knows where I live...I'm losing my job right now for his stupidity, so who's the victim now?

Yeah...I'm dangerous...only if you mess with me...

[ 本帖最後由 makten 於 2008-3-20 07:52 編輯 ]

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I just talked to my boss earlier and I also went to the RCMP about this...

My boss wanted to talk some sense into this guy when I went to the office this morning...The guy doesn't even seem to think it was a problem and he refuses to apologize to me...He said he was giving me some "color" for holding an attitude against him...The guy just doesn't understand about how serious violence is...My boss was telling him that this is Canada and people should be civilized and not use solution methods from China...

Regarding the job, I already told my boss that I'll quit since I don't want the guy to come back and go crazy on me when I'm not aware...Also the guy is my boss's frd's son so I don't care if he still holds the job or not...He'll get what he deserves though....over our legal system

I guess I'll type up another report later today...

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原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-20 12:37 發表
咁唔識死呀?
play it wise, play it serious... give him some color & attitude back


Originally I was gonna hold back a bit and not push this too far...
But seeing his attitude today, I just thought something needs to be done...
The cops should be at the office now...talking to him...and there's a pretty high possibility that the guy gets arrested on the spot  to be brought in for questions...

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原帖由 Alcoholic 於 2008-3-20 12:45 發表


they won't cuff him probably. but definitely take him back to give a statement. once you file a case, they will take all people involved for questioning. the statement is written by the on9-jai anyw ...

I don't think he can make up anything because when my boss was questioning him...he said the exact things that happened...and he was like...it's just a scratch, it's nothing!

Seriously didn't know there are still people like that....

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Well from what the guy said...Talking is not a way to resolve things because I can still act the same way after he talks to me...so physical violence should be used in order to teach me a lesson

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